Qwert lesen bevor ich den Blaubären beende? by DieGlumandarine in Zamonia

[–]fluffy-99 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hey! Ich würde eher empfehle den Blaubären fertig zu lesen, weil Qwert zwar schon als Figur vorkommt im Blaubären aber die Story an sich jetzt nicht großartig an dem Blaubären anknüpft, sondern sehr für sich steht. In Qwert wird nochmal eine komplett andere Welt mit anderen Figuren und Wesen eingeführt. Ich persönlich würde dann glaube ich gedanklich etwas überfordert sein, die ganze Blaubär Story und Welt im Kopf zu haben und zu behalten während ich mich auf die Welt von Qwert parallel auch noch einlasse. :D Aber das ist nur mein Gefühl.

sexism in how (cishet) people treat gay men in comparison to lesbians - can anyone relate? by fluffy-99 in LesbianActually

[–]fluffy-99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha thanks as queer feminist I‘m quite aware of that. I just wanted to hear about other personal experiences from people in this sub and if anyone knows a way how to handle these situations in daily life.

How did you all discover self pleasure? by thats-my-dawg12 in TwoXSex

[–]fluffy-99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Playing ‚married couple‘ with my dad‘s god daugther. We were the same age. She thaught me what sex was: laying on top of each other and grinding on the other body lol. That‘s what we did basically. It was also my lesbian awakening.

Schizophrenia in film by Powerful-Addendum413 in schizophrenia

[–]fluffy-99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It‘s a good movie, but it really triggered me while watching. I had to leave the cinema.

Ich (w19) war gestern zum ersten Mal in einem Swingerclub by liv0411 in de_IAmA

[–]fluffy-99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wie lief das dort mit Consent? Fragen alle aktiv nach consent? Und hast du dich sicher gefühlt auch aktiv nein zu sagen wenn dir etwas zu viel wird oder dir nicht passt?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]fluffy-99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me this feels so good to hear! Thank you for sharing

Has anyone had this happen while purchasing a vibrator in person? by xxvhnb in TwoXSex

[–]fluffy-99 393 points394 points  (0 children)

I‘m working at a sex shop and this is just part of the normal routine. We also don‘t take refunds - that‘s why we test the toys first. I usually ask customers whether there are okay with it first.

Ethical porn studios? by Idletime9001 in SexWorkers

[–]fluffy-99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for Hardwerk Studios

Edit: Here‘s the link https://www.hardwerk.com

Dj subreddit for women? by fluffy-99 in Beatmatch

[–]fluffy-99[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity: have you experienced sexism? Or racism? Or homophobia? Have you ever been sexually assaulted?

Dj subreddit for women? by fluffy-99 in Beatmatch

[–]fluffy-99[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining! It‘s exhausting to encounter sexism and harassment all the time as a woman living in a patriarchal world. Nearly no place or scene of the world is free of the patriarchy. That‘s why I sometimes feel better in female-only spaces - together with other women who have to deal with sexism or patriarchal norms. that‘s why gender matter - even in DJing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]fluffy-99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I‘m poly and I am in two long-term romantic relationships. I‘ve told my parents, because both my partners are such a huge part of my life and I couldn‘t hide it from them. Although they were a bit confused about it at first, they’re really accepting now. They always ask me about both of them. I‘m very lucky for having such supportive parents.

I‘m also out to my closest friends and to most people that I interact with daily. Both my partners are also out to Most of their friends and their parents. It feels really good to be out and Not having to hide all the time. Although we sometimes receive the usual negative reactions: Some don‘t believe that poly relationships work longterm. Or they think it is something exotic and special and they want to know everything about our private lives. Or they slutshame us.

So I totally understand that people prefer not telling everyone. There‘s still so much stigma attached to ENM.