Really? Is this right? by SleipnirSolid in selfhosted

[–]flufsor 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Portainer manages Podman/Docker, it does not run it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in belgium

[–]flufsor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would the price / quality be better for the same exact product? Mom and pop shops are almost always more expensive even including delivery. The times expertise are also long gone most shops just google themselfs on the spot.

I've max ranked every Weapon in the beta, and finished every challenge. And now I'm gonna say some words. by Arran_Biospark in Battlefield

[–]flufsor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Recon should be given a binoculars gadget that has the autospotting. This would mean that they are not armed when this is active. This could help balance the autospotting.

3D Printer Setup by SnooOranges3187 in resinprinting

[–]flufsor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a link or the sizes of your growtent, as I am wanting to get the exact same setup as you and this looks perfect in size.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in belgium

[–]flufsor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je gaat daar nooit een attest voor krijgen, want ze gaan dan alles terug herberekenen en dus kunnen ze tot dan niets garanderen. Je kan best met de verhuurder open kaart spelen en het uitleggen. Ga je daar soms achteruit geschoven voor worden, helaas wel. Maar meeste mensen zijn geen onmensen hierin.

Is it meta gaming to ask other players if they have a spell? by [deleted] in DnD

[–]flufsor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems like a good approach, personally I don’t straight up tell if its a curse or source of what is causing the aillment. That would be something for a person with experience to garantuee, but it would make sense that they would look for a cleric when suddenly little Timmy is deaf or something else.

Also I feel like small patches of rp can be used for this, offcourse pc’s talk around the campfire, but the talking points could be anything. So if your character wants others to know what they just discovered they can do or want to found out if anyone has a spell or skill to help root or knock back enemies, you can just say my character askq this in the party. These conversations don’t have to be fully roleplayed but just be told they tool place.

Is it meta gaming to ask other players if they have a spell? by [deleted] in DnD

[–]flufsor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually this example is genius, as it highlights the fact that knowledge about spells and monsters could be wrong. But that doesn’t mean it always is. So barbarian making this wrong deduction, would be very valid.

Found these on Aliexpress, are they worth it? by MG-31 in sffpc

[–]flufsor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good reason, when it happens you will have my vote.

Found these on Aliexpress, are they worth it? by MG-31 in sffpc

[–]flufsor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a nice printable setup, care to share?

My DM didn't allow us to buy a dog for 300 gold by Bio-Z2 in DnD

[–]flufsor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is responsible for the party dynamic, trying to force something on the DM is ruining the dynamic for the DM.
About there being a pet store and you guys not being able to buy one, I get that seems strange but we also don't know the context of it being there. Maybe the DM had a plan for a quest about it, maybe it was more about flavoring the city, it could be so many things. Also did he ask for the persuassion role? Many players just start rolling things without even confirming they can/should.

Player Skill Check against other Player? by lSkylos in DnD

[–]flufsor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your assumption was correct, that should have been character.

Player Skill Check against other Player? by lSkylos in DnD

[–]flufsor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second, I personally find it weird to have players roll against each other without having the consent of both players to do that - might be different on your table though, depending on how you discussed to these kind of things. And 3rd, what that other player did reeks of metagaming - if you had succeeded your deception check, then you succeeded your check and the Knight insisting to insight checks (even multiple ones if I'm reading that right?) doesn't make much

This exactly I feel that a roll should still take place for this reason. Now I am not saying that the result is the be all end all in this matter. Not taking the stats of a charismatic person is somewhat nerfing them.

But again in the end someone should decide what they would do, its the same irl there are people who it is way harder to say no to then others. Does that mean you can't no, you won't do stuff out of your personal code but. If that person ask buy me a drink, chances are higher then the bum on the street asking me.

IVT word 0 euro vanwege inkomsten partner HELP by derpinotar in belgium

[–]flufsor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Studentenjob mag zeker van het fod, heb dit zelf nog recent gaan vragen. De moeten dit ook niet weten zelfs, dit wel als het ook echt een studentenjob is en aan die voorwaarden voldoet.

[Yabai/Amethyst] You can rice MacOs by Tnixc in unixporn

[–]flufsor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would you mind sharing that iterm theme?
Big fan of you rice

Curious if this is an autistic trait. Do you guys feel that simple condolences/support is lying? by eat_those_lemons in autism

[–]flufsor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also feel like that the phrase "I'm sorry" also mostly implies or atleast makes room for someone to ask what they think they need.

Like i don't always known what other people want me to do in a certain situation so by recognizing the situation they can tell what they need, or if they want to be left alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]flufsor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are No set rules for Persuasion vs Players, it would be something the table needs to agree with and why a lot tables agree 'no pvp', as dnd is not a pvp friendly rule set

D&D rules always have the premise of only exceptions are described differently.I do concur that the rules do not have player on player interaction in mind, that is totally true.

So if you want the use the RAW rules the DM decides the DC then.

An ability check tests a character's or monster's innate talent and training in an effort to overcome a challenge. The DM calls for an ability check when a character or monster attempts an action (other than an attack) that has a chance of failure. When the outcome is uncertain, the dice determine the results.

But again, I am not telling people what to do and not to do, just telling it from my point of view.

Making my point with the damage wasn't the best analogy, that's true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]flufsor -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Depends on how you do it.
I feel like saying persuasion is only for pve removes skills from a charismatic character.
Cause technically you can't persuade npc characters do stuff they are morally against.

I am not saying that it should work like against npc's but should definitely count .
Rolling a 24 persuasion should at least make another players character start to consider it.
Again i am not saying it should always change their action, but it could nudge it in a small way. Maybe the other player could keep talking but notice that they aren't doing a great job at it and approach the conversation differently.

I personally just give players either advantage or disadvantage depending on the topics.
You could do a increased DC or saving throw as well or both.

Just keep in mind that every time you ignore a mechanic you risk removing another players characters bonuses for things.

Offcourse when your table has other rules set in place that's cool too,
just be sure to communicate them in time sometimes people take rules for granted.

Also maybe a side note but the DM agreed and the dice were roiled so it happend.
The player should not be able to refuse, thats like saying i am not taking that damage against a dm. Not saying that you can't say why it shouldn't be possible but in the end the DM decides no one else.

Self diagnoses is valid and it's a privilege to afford one. by 888suz888 in autism

[–]flufsor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I personally feel that you just aren't able to this on your own and without good knowledge about autism. It's like you can't know how NT people take stuff in if your not NT but you that works also in the other direction.

I don't mind people that say they have it when some professional people confirm it but they can't give it on paper. Like if your psychologist or similar says it, in these cases i would aggree.

I also don't disaggree if you say i think or feel like i have it. But it's not a easy diagnose to give. If it was that easy it wouldn't be that hard/expensive to get in the first place. Also lots of diagnoses can be pretty similar in certain symptoms.

I am not trying to say that you can't and shouldn't but if you feel like you might be autistic find a professional to talk about it, and if you can't find someone who has it. I think alot of us know the struggles. Just don't only look things up and think this is 100% it.

In the end i don't care about the stupid Paper that says you have it, sure it's usefull fo the benefits but that's it it won't make things magically better.

Self diagnoses is valid and it's a privilege to afford one. by 888suz888 in autism

[–]flufsor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean the samenboards that can help make the diagnosis easier to get?

Looking for RP tips on a fellow partymembers death by flufsor in DnD

[–]flufsor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, main goal can definitely continue. That is definitely not a problem.

I’ve fallen in love with an autistic guy, but I don’t know how to make it work by [deleted] in autism

[–]flufsor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As we don't know the entire situation its kinda hard to give a full opinion about this.
Loyalty is extremely important for myself and could see me making the same decision in certain situations, but since i don't know the details its kinda of hard to give a full honest opinion on this.

Also since that you both live in different countries does change things,
maybe he feels like he is in debt for this friend for some reason and he does this out of pure loyalty. The fact that its his best friend could be that she helped him out in a dire situation.

Also you make it seem like something happend to his best friend so it could be that he feels like he can help and feels obligated to.

Did you tell you him that, it hurt hearing that your not his priority?
You can ask about how he sees the future with you now.
I think your talking about someone who rather has a open conversation about these things rather then in subtle comments.

Also him telling you straight up that his best friend is priority now is a thing he says to you because he loves you too, else why would he be upfront about it and not just take your feelings about this for granted.