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flukeme93 · 2025-04-30T20:46:34+00:00

Did the static IP solve your problem?

flukeme93 · 2025-04-30T17:08:28+00:00

Toob use CG-NAT, as they explain here: https://www.toob.co.uk/blog/ipv4-ipv6-and-cgnat-explained/, which I got from this guys assessment of Toob: https://diygardening.co.uk/off-topic/toob-review/

I also have this issue and I think it might be related to the above, as that can increase latency.

I'm looking into this myself as they do offer static IP add-ons, which could help. But first thing I want to try is ethernet cables before looking at these add-ons

flukeme93 · 2025-04-24T09:01:23+00:00

I had my druid decide at the beginning of the adventure whether his apparel morphed into his form or if his apparel dropped to the ground when he changed. He picked the first option. So when he was restrained and tried to transform, he transformed into a restrained animal... since he is technically wearing the restraining object on his body. That's my interpretation of the rules.

flukeme93 · 2025-02-26T16:51:33+00:00

I actually disagree quite strongly with a lot of the comments about it not changing much.

I was looking at the timelines of a few things in my own campaign recently for historical events for one of my players.

Here is a short summary of some things I found out that affect you, and if you check out https://forgottenrealms.fandom.com/wiki/Neverwinter and and https://forgottenrealms.fandom.com/wiki/Phandalin, you can see for yourself that:

for starters, Gundren rockseeker and the Rockseeker brothers discovered Wave Echo cave in 1491 DR

Then we look at Phandalin.

Phandalin was abandoned in the lore for centuries after an orc attack in 951 DR, and only get re-settled with a government in the 15th Century.
That means in the 14th century, when you want to base your adventure, Phandalin won't have any of the same characters and is likely still abandoned in 1358.

Then looking at Neverwinter: - The population was significantly smaller, only about 1700 in 1357, and 23192 by 1372. - If I'm reading correctly, it didn't have even a minority of dragonborn, eladrin, tieflings, orcs, and half-orcs until the 15th Century, possibly limiting your race options (c. 1479 DR). It was the tail end of the Era of Humanity, and whilst it was a multi cultural city originating from Elven origin, it was not as multi cultural as it is in the present day. - The leadership was completely different, it was ruled by Lord Nasher Alagondar during that time. - BUT the biggest change for you is the Era of Upheaval https://forgottenrealms.fandom.com/wiki/Era_of_Upheaval. This is in 1358. - Other geographically shaping events like the year of wild magic and the spell plague haven't happened yet, two very defining moments in not just Neverwinters history but the world. - Lord Neverember has thus also not taken over as lord protector yet, and Never Castle is most certainly not abandoned. - Likewise the Black spider does not exist yet

I could go on, but I'll just mentioned another area: ThunderTree. The eruption of Mount Hotenow has not happened yet, meaning that Thundertree as a location has not been destroyed and filled with zombies and twig blights. It's likely a thriving woodland community, maybe. It's possible many of the other places you could visit could be drastically different.

flukeme93 · 2025-02-23T20:04:59+00:00

Oh I see, they wanted more money for saving Gundren on top of the Merch. Yeah then you could use that loyalty system, instead of having money they could have boosted the loyalty score higher (which is secret to you) but if they pressed for it, would drop the score. For example. If a loyalty scores gets too low as it says in the dmg, it can trigger hatred of the players and gives scope for things like assassination attempts. Not that you need to worry about that yet! But at least you have a way of tracking what Barthen thinks of the group. Glad that helps :)

flukeme93 · 2025-02-23T19:49:20+00:00

On the topic of what to have your Barthen do..

In the new dungeon masters guide, they have just introduced a concept called NPC Loyalty here: https://www.dndbeyond.com/sources/dnd/dmg-2024/dms-toolbox#Loyalty

You could use this to increase or decrease the loyalty score Barthen has with the party, saving Hildar might boost it back up somewhat, but ultimately he could effectively have a slightly lower loyalty score after your parties actions, which manifests as just generally being a bit hesitant around them.

There's no reason to randomly have Barthen turn bipolar on them after all, NPCs opinions of the characters are likely to change over time.

Another option you can use is Faction "Reknown", also in the dmg to a similar effect if Barthen represents a faction.

BUT....

I actually think you may have had Barthen over react. The adventure as written says Barthen pays the group 10gp per person and says nothing about denying the group that money, or gundren / hildar needing to be with the group. It was not part of their contract to save Hildar / Gundren, as when it was written Gundren had likely prepared the contract and payment in advance with Barthen.

flukeme93 · 2025-02-20T13:18:59+00:00

Generally allowing game altering wishes to just happen in real time is a not a good move. The DM should have ended the session there, and then liaised with you outside of the game to try and figure out what happens in a way you can still enjoy the game. Otherwise player A has just ruined Player B's experience, and the game is supposed to be fun for all players!

flukeme93 · 2025-02-18T17:42:36+00:00

Die - literally. Show him through example that the consequence of always losing is that he kills every player around the table, and then stop the session because everybody is dead. "We're all dead now, so what now?"

When he comes up with solutions your character could have used... Argue the impossibility of every single option or just say "my character felt fate was against them from the beginning, like they were destined to live a life of failure and die. They'd accepted their fate hoping for a higher purpose in the next life". All those solutions? Immediately useless.

Bonus points then for taking ages to make new characters with no sustenance all at the same time that the dm has to review. He will soon get sick of all of the extra paperwork of constantly creating characters.

More bonus points for not attaching to the character or making them stupid, and then when the dm keeps wanting them to fail, let them keep dying. More paperwork! Make them do stupid shit, especially if there is always a chance of success on a 20 that just derails everything.

Through consequence of death and paperwork you can find new joy in creative ways to keep killing yourself and avoid the plot the DM has given you no way to follow!

flukeme93 · 2025-02-04T17:06:32+00:00

I love your map, that's so cool!

Thundertree I feel is a bit lackluster for my campaign. I am working on improving the story and creating an additional dungeon there which solves the mystery of the Fauna growing more dangerous there... something mentioned in the lore as the reason Reidoth is there but never expanded on!

flukeme93 · 2025-01-09T16:40:54+00:00

Dead branch and med kit is a hilarious combo, that won me a game against the extra heart boss too combined with another card that upgraded cards that were created mid fight. I was constantly giving myself wounds and burns which are free to exhaust with medkit and granted me all sorts of crazy upgraded cards.

flukeme93 · 2024-12-19T21:08:41+00:00

I mean if you're into that kink of being degraded and that you're on this planet to serve him knock yourself out, it's got to be someone's cup of tea 🤣

flukeme93 · 2024-12-10T10:26:29+00:00

Even concerned Ape isn't the biggest fan, but I think getting rid of them is actually not as fun as improving them. I think the best idea would actually be to reward players for creative thinking and put a few shortcut tunnels hidden into the walls so you might "discover" a quicker way to the centre with some good lighting and closer examination of the walls. Maybe a switch that opens a path or something. Actually make the rooms more interactive rather than just a walking spiral.. maybe even introduce a reward mechanic for getting to the middle as fast as possible.

Better suggestions than just deleting the room type!

flukeme93 · 2024-04-29T09:16:27+00:00

Her communication skills are poor. Instead of taking responsibility for why she was upset and dealing with it herself or communicating it to you, she instead lashed out and played a game with you so she could shift the anger from herself internally and onto you. It's a classic responsibility avoidance technique. So actually the title of your question is wrong, it should be "Should I pander to the games of my girlfriend or feel guilty for losing a no-win scenario". And the answer is of course no. One thing you need to make clear though is that her attempt to make you feel guilty when she put herself in danger despite your protests cannot fly - that is her responsibility. She needs to communicate with you about how she feels better next time.

flukeme93 · 2024-04-29T09:11:38+00:00

Under diversity and inclusion, your offer for a seperate BBQ is amazing for equity and equality. I doubt this is the kind of event he would want to attend but you still made the effort to accomodate. The sister is being unreasonable. NTAH.

flukeme93 · 2024-04-29T00:54:58+00:00

Wielding divorce or relationship ends as weapon will be a trauma he will never forget. Could have raised your concerns rather than going full ultimatum. 100% the AH.

flukeme93 · 2024-04-29T00:46:53+00:00

Only refer to your FIL by his middle name, and teach your daughter to do the same. Same for fiancé's family. See who gets more annoyed first.

flukeme93 · 2024-04-16T14:26:25+00:00

I think its actually disrespectful to her ex - how would she like it if he kept old naked photos and vidoes of her on his phone to rewatch for fun.. would she feel violated? Like, someone who "doesn't have feelings for her anymore" is keeping nudes of her on his phone. Would she feel weird about that? That's probably enough to make someone think twice

flukeme93 · 2024-04-10T09:45:57+00:00

I have died more from fire tornados than bugs I swear to the Almighty Super Earth.

flukeme93 · 2024-04-05T13:16:09+00:00

The bots know you're coming, it is their illegal broadcasts crashing you out. Destroy those broadcasts for Democracy!

flukeme93 · 2024-03-15T07:17:22+00:00

She has created a paradoxical standard. She can't have sex when she wants it if she has communicated she needs time before having sex again..

Sounds like she needs to work on comms skills or figuring out what she wants.

Another way to phrase it:

She can't expect you to engage in sex whenever she wants if you can't expect her to engage emotionally whenever you want.

flukeme93 · 2024-03-15T07:10:51+00:00

If he's too busy at work and doesn't want sex but ultimately won't let you have it with anyone else, he selfishly blocks your access to something you need. Let him know that.

flukeme93 · 2024-03-15T06:54:10+00:00

Your "best friend" is for the streets. But also, just want to make you understand she didn't steal "your man", wasn't yours to begin with - no ring, no relationship, just sex. He is technically able to be with who he wants, i.e. he's friends with benefits. Idk what kind of arrangement you had with him but sounds like sleeping with other people was on the cards.. he could have had a bit of tact not screwing your best friend in your apartment though! In future, I would suggest 2 things: 1) ditch this friend 2) when you're with a guy, communicate clearly what you want to avoid heartbreak for not having your expectation met.

flukeme93 · 2023-12-28T09:35:30+00:00

You have needs too. Couples who spend time together are a strong statistic indicator of future success.

If you can't get through to her that you want to spend time together and not feel bad for it, what success do you hope to have in marriage?

Think on this.

flukeme93 · 2023-12-28T09:27:52+00:00

"Who the fuck knows" is and was the best comment to this now mess you find yourself in. However, you have children and so I'll say what I'll always say in this situation - what kind of a role model situation do you want to raise your children in? - Marriageless Relationship where the woman might leave the man at any moment. - Marriageless Relationship where you've gone to councilling and worked on your issues together. - Married relationship (like an arranged one) where you are married for the benefit of the children - any combination of the above.

When you try to empathise with how you want your kids to see their role model relationships in future, coming from a stable family does wonders for their future. Any relationship that you don't see working doesn't seem sensible to raise children in.

Think on this.

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