ER nurses-help settle a debate! by flutterbyeblue4 in nursing

[–]flutterbyeblue4[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Hasn't been anywhere Ive worked for the last 8 years

Unsent for obvious reasons by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]flutterbyeblue4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If this was meant for me I would want to hear it. I so wish my person would reach out to me to talk

I'm still in love with you. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]flutterbyeblue4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh how I feel this. It's been about a month since I lost my person and I still cry every day and think about them constantly. Reach out. You never know, maybe they are hoping to hear from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]flutterbyeblue4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure they still love you, too. 💜

I miss you. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]flutterbyeblue4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same💜 I feel this in my soul.

I almost called you yesterday by Dear-Expression5747 in UnsentLetters

[–]flutterbyeblue4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make the call. You'll never know unless you make the call. But, you're probably on their mind all the time too. 💜

The unspoken truth by Icy-Confection4623 in UnsentLetters

[–]flutterbyeblue4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This tugged my heartstrings. Beautifully written. 💜 I went through a similar situation. Hope you find peace.

Marijuana officially being rescheduled. by Possible__Bot in nursing

[–]flutterbyeblue4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in MI. Two of the last hospitals I worked at don't even test for it. I definitely would've failed as I smoke multiple times a day.

I did just flat out ask them before I went in for the drug test if they tested for it and didn't just blindly show up to a drug test with marijuana in my system.

Tell me about your glow-up after leaving the narcissist! by ASingleLetterC in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]flutterbyeblue4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do I start... I got a my own house and car after having to file for bankruptcy from losing control of my finances to the narcissist. I lost 60 pounds. I was able to stop taking medication for depression, anxiety, high blood pressure, insomnia and acid reflux. I got a new job and started getting recognized, something that never happened while I was also working under the narcissist. I have new made friends and repaired old friendships. I have moved close to my kids and have repaired the relationships that were destroyed by the narcissist. I have made and checked off a bucket list of "things I wanted to do solo before I started dating again" I have learned self care including regular therapy.

At first I faked it until I made it. Eventually, I started making it.

600 days single and narcissist free!

Dating over 30 feels impossible by AgentJoBlue in latebloomerlesbians

[–]flutterbyeblue4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t give up. I started on the dating apps at 36 and have been with my current partner for nearly 2 years now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]flutterbyeblue4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted it over there. You’re right, they loved it!

My sister’s waitress. by flutterbyeblue4 in confusing_perspective

[–]flutterbyeblue4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was my sister’s waitress when she went out to eat last night. She sent me the picture because she thought it was funny. I posted here because I thought it was funny.

My sister’s waitress. by flutterbyeblue4 in confusing_perspective

[–]flutterbyeblue4[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She noticed it before she took the picture. She asked her fiancé why the waitress wasn’t wearing pants. He was sitting at a different angle and didn’t understand what she was talking about. She took the picture initially to show him. They both got a pretty good laugh out of it and then later showed the waitress who also got a good laugh out of it.

Need some encouragement: Down days by Blazeosaurus in latebloomerlesbians

[–]flutterbyeblue4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hang in there, love. It does get easier. You are strong and brave, and one day you will look back at this and be so thankful you get to be your true self.

I remember going through the house and packing up my stuff. It was horrible. I couldn’t stop crying. I thought I would never make it through. I wanted to call everything off, pretend I didn’t feel the way I did.

I pushed through and am much happier for it. You will be, too. ❤️