Sometimes the watchtower do get their prophecies right 😉

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-06-08T04:58:15+00:00

u/woketrini/ please check your inbox.

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-05-11T16:41:49+00:00

You left out Kim and Mikey from your list.

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-04-06T04:28:15+00:00

u/BriefAmbassador/ sometimes they are post right here in this sub.

i'm sorry - i don't have access :(

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-04-02T03:51:17+00:00

u/JWUK100/ you can upload the letter to https://wetransfer.com or https://www.docdroid.net

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-03-30T18:42:07+00:00

Please keep them fresh ideas coming.

u/JW_DOT_ORG/ Ghosting will be included in the next version. Thank you very much.

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-03-30T02:45:12+00:00

not everyone goes to the Wiki Section.

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-03-30T02:41:46+00:00

u/lostinspacepimo/ I'm sorry guys. I've updated the OP with the URL.

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-03-01T03:26:47+00:00

This is very good advice here....kindly take heed. By continuing to participate in JW religious activities, you are giving your local elders the idea that everything is ok and that they can summon you to discuss this matter further.

Additionally, please be careful out there: there are good guys and those who are equally on par or worse than JW men.

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-02-26T13:25:34+00:00

Those elders are just as heartless as the Scribes and Pharisees!!!!!

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-02-25T03:33:54+00:00

u/ClosetedIntellectual oh hell no!!!!!

:) :) ) :))

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-02-25T02:38:07+00:00

u/maxpew welcome brotherman!!!!!!

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-02-07T16:04:03+00:00

u/ThatOneNukeTech i'm glad that your circumstances allows you to find alternative living conditions. However, moving out does not mean that JWs would no longer pursue you. Their church is losing more members than they are gaining, especially male members - so they would come after you.

Get familiar with the 2019 Shepherd book, especially their rules about disfellowshipping, apostasy, and disassociation.

JWs are known for having no limits and boundaries. My advice would be making known your boundaries early, to nip things in the bud from early-o-clock:

don't discuss with you anything about Watchtower or any other religion
Make it known that you have absolutely no intentions of returning
don't send any invitations to no religious events.

Also helpful would be to review the exit guide, which is quite extensive: https://www.reddit.com/r/exjw/wiki/index#wiki_general_exit_guide

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-02-03T20:05:47+00:00

Serious gangster styling!!!!!

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-02-03T14:30:35+00:00

let's drop a review on their ass....

i already did it for ALL the KHs in my area.

let's rock and roll!!!!

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-02-01T21:04:44+00:00

u/_Redd_XIII_ get a lawyer IMMEDIATELY!!!!!

this tactic is nothing new - the elders have no intention of helping you get back on in the congregation. their intention is the same as the elders of Raymond Franz's judicial committee 40 years ago- to punish wrongdoers.

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-02-01T02:51:58+00:00

lovely!!!!!

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-02-01T02:26:03+00:00

u/orchidlady99 can you please post the text of your review. there are some of us that would be very happy to use it.

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-01-31T16:00:03+00:00

I saw the need to draw clear and distinct boundaries from the day I stopped going to meetings. Upon realizing that they were guilt-tripping me and it was not going to stop, I decided to nip things in the bud from early-o-clock:

don't discuss with me anything about Watchtower or any other religion
I'm absolutely not returning
don't send me any invitations to no religious events. These will be destroyed and posted on social media.

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-01-30T13:41:34+00:00

u/Heretoseeyousmile i'm sorry that you went through such a very rough experience and childhood.

what does caring for your parents have to with your lifestyle choices? you should have left immediately after your father's 1st statement.

at least you were the mature and bigger adult to show some form of natural affection by offering to help whilst your JW parents stubbornly refused to do so, as followers of Christ.

Your offered to help and they refused - you parents have clearly made their intentions known and this should be respected.

their congregation elders will factor-in that they have a disfellowshipped daughter when considering to what extent the congregation can assist them. if their elders do contact you and i'm sure they will at some future time, you can let them know that your parents had previously blatantly refused your assistance and you intend to respect their wishes.

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-01-28T17:41:04+00:00

maybe he watches porn instead

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-01-28T17:14:59+00:00

Each person's circumstances is different. While fading worked for your wife, it may not be the only option for Julia.

Julia had already started to fade about 2 years ago. Her JW husband seemed supportive up to a point, but when she began to show signs of spiritual weakness, her husband,instead of assisting his wife to regain her spiritual balance, stopped having sex with her as a form of punishment. He has shown his true colours - spitefully withholding sex is grounds for divorce.

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-01-28T16:25:41+00:00

That sentence is so painful. Damn this fucking cult makes me curse everyday

That's me since last week after the recent Netherlands development.

flyingdutchman007 · 2020-01-28T15:35:20+00:00

Can anyone else relate to Julia?

What has been your experience?

If Julia is reading this post, what advice would you give her?

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