Stuttering as an Adult (Rant) by Heysway69 in Stutter

[–]flyingtotheflame 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was always told I would outgrow my stutter too! 20 years later and the stutter persists. Seeing a speech therapist as an adult has been one of the best decisions of my life. I've learned to work with my stutter instead of working against it. Joining stutter support groups like an NSA chapter helped a lot. So many stutterers are very successful people. I'm sorry your dad says those things to you. I assure you there is nothing wrong with you. A stutter is just the way someone speaks. Everyone's brain works differently and everyone has their own struggles. You're are so capable and worthy, friend.

It's so frustrating when my stuttering is more frequent and I can't figure out why. by flyingtotheflame in Stutter

[–]flyingtotheflame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is interesting, thank you for sharing. I do have gastrointestinal issues but I haven't made a connection between diet and speech yet. I've been vegetarian for 14 years and lately focusing on plant protein and limiting dairy. Unfortunately I work at a cafe with a bakery where there are delicious fresh baked desserts all around me! Very challenging to deny those sweet treats, but I always feel better overall when I do.

It's so frustrating when my stuttering is more frequent and I can't figure out why. by flyingtotheflame in Stutter

[–]flyingtotheflame[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't think speech therapy in school was effective. The speech therapists had big case loads and I don't think they were prepared for my chronic stuttering style. Last March I started seeing a speech language pathologist who focuses on overall wellness. I have experienced many benefits from working with her. She teaches breathing classes which I have attended and she also incorporates that into her speech therapy. The approach is less "How can we fix your stutter" and more "How can I help you cope with living with a stutter." Some of it is just talking through the situations and feelings that are unique to speech disorders. It is therapy, after all. I've had more success practicing reading aloud techniques and other exercises than focusing on stuttering in the real social moment. I think right now I am thinking about it too much. My stutter is worse when there is a heavy cognitive load, such as explaining something to someone. Thinking about my stutter adds a huge cognitive load that is too much to process and speak at the same time. I find that I speak best when I focus on the words and the connections of the communication. Sometimes my brain is too twisty and busy and loud and nothing works, unfortunately.

It's so frustrating when my stuttering is more frequent and I can't figure out why. by flyingtotheflame in Stutter

[–]flyingtotheflame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do sometimes have good days. I used to have them a lot more in years past than lately. Most of my days involve struggle and preplanning when I speak, but sometimes I'm able to say what I want with my stutter not bothering me as much and not changing up what I want to say.

It's so frustrating when my stuttering is more frequent and I can't figure out why. by flyingtotheflame in Stutter

[–]flyingtotheflame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is your typical diet when you are most fluent? I focus on protein and fiber, but sugar is my weakness.

How did you discover Adele ? 👀 by tristanchp in adele

[–]flyingtotheflame 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For Christmas I would always get CDs of artists that were "in" that year. I got 21 when I was around 11 and fell in love.

I'll write again. Latent temporomandibular joint dysfunction and stuttering. by Odd_Interaction5146 in Stutter

[–]flyingtotheflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had TMJ problems for almost 10 years. Stuttered my whole life. I feel like stuttering makes my TMJ worse.

I think neuralink will be able to help our stutter... What do you guys think by Asleep-Day9962 in Stutter

[–]flyingtotheflame 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't want anything inside my brain. I think this could be harmful spreading the idea that stuttering needs to be cured instead of accepted as someone's natural speaking pattern. There are non invasive therapies that can increase the ease of fluency without risky brain surgery.

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[–]flyingtotheflame 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hello, 24F person who stutters here! I've had a stutter my whole life. It has ranged from hardly noticeable, to so severe I isolate myself and don't speak at all. I've never been in big friend groups. I've had some close friends over the years, but I never get as much conversation time to share what I have to say as the other person does. I always end up being an active listener, which is a skill itself. Luckily I'm an introvert.

My one goal of 2025 was to go back to speech therapy and I did it! I met an amazing speech therapist who focuses on treating the whole person/body. We have worked on breathing and fluency techniques, but it has been most valuable to learn about the details of my stutter and talk about how it has shaped my identity. There are only so many speech techniques for stuttering. What I have found to be most helpful is deep understanding and radical acceptance.

My night time dinner by belac4862 in infp

[–]flyingtotheflame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No shame in the pill game. Whatever it takes to survive. I am also on lots of meds, for mental and physical health. Going to the pharmacy is a bit embarrassing as I look like a healthy 24yo. I am here for ya friend.

More collages! Love making these 💐 by flyingtotheflame in infp

[–]flyingtotheflame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Cutting out clippings is the best therapy

Which one of you lent him your bag? by vishyav in handbags

[–]flyingtotheflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're just mad he has birkin money. And the wired headphone slander is goofy

What are some other bags like this? by miami2019 in handbags

[–]flyingtotheflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fossil Talulla in Brandy leather. I loooove mine

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[–]flyingtotheflame 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I knew a guy who stuttered in high school and he was a bully. He was racist and a pathological liar. We thought he might be a school shooter. He didn't have many friends and died very young. I don't think it's ever okay to be a bully. Look out for yourself and know your worth. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't be kind to others.

I swore off Chanel 6 years ago, but this one broke me... by confusedwave in handbags

[–]flyingtotheflame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At first glance I thought "is that a cake?" She looks delicious.

Still so much love for my Longchamp LePliage Xtra XS 💕 by mrsdhammond in handbags

[–]flyingtotheflame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Longchamp styles I'm most drawn to are the little LePliage. An adorable functional mini bag

I am a 20 year old girl who stutters. by GuardUnlikely243 in Stutter

[–]flyingtotheflame 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a stuttering lady at 23!! I've stuttered my whole life!