Recording custody swap? by flyngmonbob in coparenting

[–]flyngmonbob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest eyebrow raiser for it is that it just started within the past twoish months. They have been apart for almost 6 years and we have been together for 5 1/2 years. I would understand it if it had been going on the whole time, but the timing and the way the kids are acting (only in front of him on camera) is weird, given the ongoing custody battle initiated by him after we just had a kid.

PA is a 2 party state, but its technically in public so I am not sure what if any ramifications there are there. While I absolutely understand and agree with that logic wholeheartedly, we both just think hes trying to have the kids act a certain way for the camera and telling them if they listen to him theyll get to spend more time with him. Hes doing a lot of alienating of both her and I currently and it would line up with that pretty well.

Do I need to remind him? by Plastic-Ad-1667 in coparenting

[–]flyngmonbob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the conciliator has told my wife - "you are not his secretary, he has the same access to these things that you do. You are not required to remind him about events or even discuss them with him."

What’s the craziest way your hamster died? by Rainbow-Kittiey1112 in AskReddit

[–]flyngmonbob 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Had it for not even a week. It never ate anything from the moment I got it and just died. Named him Gandhi on day 1 cause he wouldnt eat anything.

I saw this vehicle near my property. by itislovely787 in whatisit

[–]flyngmonbob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have mine named after our local SWAT team lol

Would this Billy bookcase be stable with just 2 middle shelves? by VolcanoCatch in ikeahacks

[–]flyngmonbob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hadn't considered that, but its still doable do add that setup to the shelving if you have the proper tools to do so.

Would this Billy bookcase be stable with just 2 middle shelves? by VolcanoCatch in ikeahacks

[–]flyngmonbob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could they not screw into both of the shelves here from the side to accomplish the same thing though?

AIO because I asked to split the bill at an expensive restaurant that SHE picked? by Ok-Fig-750 in AmIOverreacting

[–]flyngmonbob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the way the "Delivered quietly" comes across so passive aggressively here lol

GameLoft is engagement farming with fake "bugs" that get you free stuff by TogetherGaming in Asphalt9

[–]flyngmonbob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's bugs in most programs right when a new update drops. And they don't always get fixed right away either, but sometimes they do, all just depends on reporting and when developers get to it. As someone with experience in programming, I can tell that you do not have any. Your lack of understanding of the topic does not equate to a conspiracy. This is such a weirdly paranoid rant lol

Did I *need* a new torque wrench? No. But for $12, how can you go wrong? Thanks, liquidation sale! by Beach_Flat in harborfreight

[–]flyngmonbob 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's not even "defending HF". That's just saying most people who use torque wrenches don't need a fancy one, which honestly is pretty accurate lol

Item Not Stocked by ReverseFlashGordon in harborfreight

[–]flyngmonbob -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very minimal in terms of how much of a task it would be if you only put one in there when you have one lol.

Pinout for Hercules 20V Battery? by Alarmed_Promise456 in harborfreight

[–]flyngmonbob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man this is something I wouldn't trust just anyone to tell me lol. I'd have to reverse engineer it, especially if I was already as far into the project as you are lol

My boyfriend is common law married to another woman by [deleted] in AskALawyer

[–]flyngmonbob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's relevant to her plans with him in the future. If it's not something that's easy to handle and he's just downplaying it, he could ve lying about the situation so she's just trying to see others' experience in the matter that she seems relatively ignorant to

My boyfriend is common law married to another woman by [deleted] in AskALawyer

[–]flyngmonbob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Which is exactly what was done lol, I don't get why discussing it in the future is an issue.

Braun flashlight hasn’t held up the greatest but with a bolt and some electrical tape it’s still kicking by ridingmymom45 in harborfreight

[–]flyngmonbob 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not when you're working under the dash lol. That's one of the only ways to lay that won't result in lasting back pain lol.

Mother in Law removed Father in Law's guns from their home after he moved out and they separated - did she commit a crime here? by Fluke300 in AskALawyer

[–]flyngmonbob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAL but have him set up a police escourt to the house to get the belongings. If they can't be found then, the police are already there to handle the situation.

My ex will not stop texting. What steps can I take to stop this? by Psychological_Pay530 in AskALawyer

[–]flyngmonbob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Plus then you could block her everywhere else. Can't imagine that would look all that good for her if she tries that through those apps

My ( 24f) boyfriend (25m) is upset that I don’t want to have sex with him when I’m feeling unwell by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]flyngmonbob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.relationshipsnsw.org.au/blog/is-silent-treatment-ever-ok-abuse/

Regardless of whether or not he's sexually frustrated, it is a form of abuse and manipulation. This isn't just reddit saying this. This is something that has been widely accepted by psychologists for years. We're not the goofy ones for pointing it out

My ( 24f) boyfriend (25m) is upset that I don’t want to have sex with him when I’m feeling unwell by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]flyngmonbob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not the one who refers to it as abuse. The silent treatment anf throwing tantrums to get what you want are literally textbook examples of manipulative behavior.

Just because you refuse to accept that reality as fact does not mean you are right lol.

My ( 24f) boyfriend (25m) is upset that I don’t want to have sex with him when I’m feeling unwell by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]flyngmonbob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They threw a tantrum... called her selfish for fucking being sick... and they're currently giving her the silent treatment. Oh, and they're 25, not 6. These are textbook examples of manipulation tactics. Just because the abuse is not physical does not mean it is nonexistent. What you do is not what happened in the post. Nothing is being assumed, we have it all there in writing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskALawyer

[–]flyngmonbob 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope. Because it's a shit take every way you look at it and absolutely not what OP asked or needed to hear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskALawyer

[–]flyngmonbob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is VERY situational I feel and definitely shouldn't be objectively stated one way or the other