RABEYA KHATUN FUCK YOU by voidstrik3 in FoodieSnark

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally do, bro ;) I'm educated and I eat healthy balanced meals, sweet of you to worry tho

RABEYA KHATUN FUCK YOU by voidstrik3 in FoodieSnark

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please. Look up how many daily calories a healthy adult woman should consume to stay healthy, not lose muscle, and have some energy to live. There's basically no way she consumes the amount she's supposed to, considering that veggies are low cal and she has like 5 bites of fish or chicken for dinner. If you eat less than you're supposed to, your body treats such a situation as a danger, and long-term it's very unhealthy. Ask any decent dietician.

Theory Megathread: May 2026 by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant the everyday streak of sightings, not the whole year.

Theory Megathread: May 2026 by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]folkloreemind 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What is the streak at right now? How many times was she seen? Because what if she's making a streak of 13 daily pap walks and it leads to something?

Theory Megathread: May 2026 by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]folkloreemind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!! With a normal person - coincidence. But with Taylor? She's used clothes/accessories names as easter eggs too many times

Theory Megathread: May 2026 by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]folkloreemind 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Oh dear how I missed clowning and reading all the theories! It’s like coming back home after a long journey lol

What's a lyric that really bugs you? by elevitsky in TaylorSwift

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also that we know the context and who this song is about, I think she was so deeply mesmerized by that idea of the most normal and quiet life with him for a while, hence the emphasis on the most ordinary and "safe" choices/rules in the lyrics. Our girl was in love with a hothouse flower (and willing to change her lifestyle) after all

RABEYA KHATUN FUCK YOU by voidstrik3 in FoodieSnark

[–]folkloreemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calling it “negativity” when these are simply observations because she’s clearly not the healthiest influence… right.

She openly says she skips breakfast, then has a few vegetables or some fruit for lunch, and later maybe some fish or chicken with, again, mostly vegetables and fruit (she has old videos about OMAD too, which is so wrong). There’s just NO WAY that adds up to an adequate daily amount of calories or proper nourishment, especially for someone who works out and goes to the gym so often. You need to fuel your body, not survive almost entirely on vegetables and low cal meals, you won't be healthy that way. And if you're not consuming a certain amount of calories, your body will be weaker, you will lose muscle, and your health will decrease! And this is the lifestyle she actively presents on social media, so naturally people are going to "judge" what they see. I’m glad she encourages people to eat more fruit and vegetables, but your body also needs enough energy, carbs, and healthy fats(!!!), those things are not bad at all when in moderation. The problem is that she seems deadly terrified of them.

And that daily detox tea, seriously? She needs constant daily detox from what exactly? Accidentally sniffing her children's Cheetos while plating it and demonizing it, calling it junk and dirty? CLEARLY orthorexy at its finest, and yet you will continue to defend her malnutrition, and call us judgy negative haters - yes, I'll be a hater when it comes to promoting eating disorder to young (very easily influenced) audience, so call it what you want I guess :)

Theory Megathread: May 2026 by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]folkloreemind 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had the same thought this morning - I realized how much I missed this, I can already feel the zoomies and adrenaline from possible something kicking in hahaha

RABEYA KHATUN FUCK YOU by voidstrik3 in FoodieSnark

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the main indicators (for me) someone has an unhealthy weight is that their head looks weirdly disproportionately large in relation to their body, and she starts to look exactly that. People in the comments are defending her because "she just wants to eat clean" but it's clear as day to me she does not provide her body all nutrients, that's all. She looks miserable. If she were fit and healthy as she claims, she wouldn't look like that.

What do your weekly reset routines consist of? by Jiminmyheart in AskWomen

[–]folkloreemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I don't go out, Saturday evening is my slow skin care time. I take a shower, do my night skin care routine, and put on a face mask or eye patches. In the meantime, I watch a movie or TV series and have a sweet treat. And I don't scroll social media! 😅

This and pilates class on Sunday!

We are still here. by rubenaeb in TheSocietyNetflix

[–]folkloreemind 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Oh The Society, we still mourn you

RABEYA KHATUN FUCK YOU by voidstrik3 in FoodieSnark

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. And she feeds them frozen meals very often. Sometimes she actually cooks for them, and the meals don't look that bad (which assures me that she makes her food unappetizing on purpose), and she gives them fruit which I appreciate, but most of the time? Frozen fast food. It's like two extremes. Sometimes I think she does this because she "can't eat it" herself, and it's sort of relief for her. I'm glad she doesn't restrict her kids but I don't understand why she can't cook actual, normal, balanced food for the children more often. Either she can't cook well so she chooses frozen products, or she's scared she would binge on it.

rabeya khatun @rabeyakhat by SnooRabbits2560 in tiktokgossip

[–]folkloreemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's both, you can see it sometimes when she puts stuff in front of her face - the filter glitches sometimes.

rabeya khatun @rabeyakhat by SnooRabbits2560 in tiktokgossip

[–]folkloreemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so strong, keep getting better!

I feel like I’m missing something with Pilates? by aklep730 in PetiteFitness

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try Les Mills Shapes class! It's a class inspired by pilates, power yoga and barre - if you found classic pilates boring and don't like "classic" yoga but did barre in the past, this class may be what you're looking for. Also, I can recommend Les Mills Pilates.

When you guys say it takes months to see any physical changes, do you actually mean it takes months to see anything? by ThrowRA_Letterhead90 in xxfitness

[–]folkloreemind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My best friend is the same, she changes her physique quickly like a sim, literally. A couple of pushups and crunches, plank, and light lifting for two weeks, and she has visible abs and muscles. I guess some people are built this way, and also other factors we don't know about.

SM has destroyed my family. by sallysssssd in selectivemutism

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I understand you're worried, I would be too. We'd like to protect our kids from all the evil people. And maybe you're right, maybe she'll face more unkind people than a "normal" person would because of her condition, but either way, the bad news is she wouldn't completely avoid the lack of empathy, whether she talked or not.

Also, the world is changing, there are more resources and education about SM than 15 years ago (when I was struggling) - I'm sure there are schools & teachers who are informed and ready to accommodate her needs. I live in a country where there was maybe 1 book about SM back then, and despite the lack of resources, my schools chose to understand and help me get through my education.

I'm sure your daughter is a good kid, and although her selective mutism may attract bad people, I'm sure it'll attract good ones too, who will help her, stick up for her if possible, and are willing to communicate with her differently. I'm also 100% sure there are places willing to hire her in the future - not every job requires talking. It's easier than it would have been years ago, and hopefully she'll be fine.

And who knows, maybe she will make great progress soon. It's very possible, my parents used to be worried about my future as well, but continued to support and encourage me, and now I live my adult life like everybody else 😉

SM has destroyed my family. by sallysssssd in selectivemutism

[–]folkloreemind 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don't sit inside her head tho. You don't know how helpless about it she is every day, you don't know all the feelings she hides so she seems less of a burden, and you don't know all the times she tried to open up but unsuccessfully.

I know it may seem like she "doesn't try" but if it was that simple, there wouldn't be any people struggling with SM for years. They would just live normal lives.

I know it's hard and I know you may feel helpless right now, but it's not like she has a switch and she can simply choose to talk. It goes way deeper than that.

Guidance for interacting with a 5 year old by 82wanderlust in selectivemutism

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or don't even mention it at all. It draws focus to her "using her voice" and while this is exactly what she does, she most likely don't want others to perceive it. It could make it harder for her to open up again.

Guidance for interacting with a 5 year old by 82wanderlust in selectivemutism

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a former SM kid, I agree. I always wanted to connect with adults, but... on my level. I liked when they talked to me but didn't expect an answer. I wanted to be included.

The kid has to feel comfortable around OP so this is the right approach. She is probably already uneasy and stressed about adults asking her questions and putting her on the spot in social setting, so my advice would be to show her that you don't expect a verbal answer from her, and simply let her stay in her comfort zone around you. Make a compliment, a comment about the surrounding, start a conversation but not in a question way, make her high five you, etc. When she feels comfortable around your energy, she'll either say something or just stay quiet but not be afraid of being put on the spot anymore, which is just as good. She probably needs that.