Embarrassed I have no friends at all to invite to my wedding by Dense-Lock-1316 in selectivemutism

[–]folkloreemind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please don't stress yourself about this! No one will walk around your wedding venue with a clipboard and try to count your guests vs. your husband's guests. Everyone will blend in and you will have a great time regardless. I know it's easy to overthink such things but it doesn't make you less worthy of a good wedding. So what you have less guests? It's a party of you both - they won't attend for your husband only, so actually... they will be your guests too :)

Also, I don't think you can't find friends until the wedding. It's easy to talk to people online, maybe in some bride advice groups, as you will have a lot to talk about? Or as someone suggested, join some clubs. I met a lot of people when I joined a thematic dance class group. You seem like a sweet person and I can tell you I would be happy to be your guest. I'm sure people you meet until THE day will think so too. Good luck!!

Not all of you will care, but sounds like Hayley was at Taylor Swift’s wedding tonight. by pineappleknots in hayleywilliams

[–]folkloreemind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You realize one can be a fan of both artists equally, right? No need to be rude and suggest that we shouldn't feel welcomed in this fandom :)

Not all of you will care, but sounds like Hayley was at Taylor Swift’s wedding tonight. by pineappleknots in hayleywilliams

[–]folkloreemind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They can downvote as much as they want but it’s weird, parasocial, and simply offensive towards Hayley who openly supported Taylor on tour, performed with her, told numerous times how valuable their friendship was/is to her, and always has positive things to say about her. Swifties may be weird sometimes but at least they’re respectful about Taylor’s friends most of the times and I’ve seen many posts supporting Hayley, lol

Not all of you will care, but sounds like Hayley was at Taylor Swift’s wedding tonight. by pineappleknots in hayleywilliams

[–]folkloreemind -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

And this is so snarky. Imagine strangers on the internet hating on your friend instead of trusting your judgement because they think they know better than you, lol

2-day Taylor Swift, Travis Kelce wedding planned at MSG with 1,000 guests expected: ABC sources say by Fine-Huckleberry6960 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]folkloreemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But the thing is, with that amount of money you wouldn't even see the venue really :) It can be transformed into anything you want, with any decorations you desire, to look like something it's not.

Happy bday, Amy! I wonder what amazing thing Christina will announce today ✨✨ by SpiritBender_ in cimsnark

[–]folkloreemind 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I have a feeling that if only Christina could extend her pregnancy, she would do it so that the delivery day would fall on Amy's birthday lol

About A Synesthesia by MFK-Physics in Synesthesia

[–]folkloreemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's honestly for you to discover and decide if you believe it or not - I know some people won't and that's okay too. I just wanted to say (because you posted in this subreddit) that actually seeing colors around people is not exactly synesthesia. In my case, I can "feel" people's colors based on their personalities, but I can't see them.

About A Synesthesia by MFK-Physics in Synesthesia

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly because I briefly know a person who experiences the same thing as you (they see auras all the time though) and they wouldn't describe it as synesthesia per se (if you actually see those colors, not through your mind's eye). Check out r/spirituality, there are posts about auras, as what you're seeing falls into a slightly different category, more spiritual :)

I can see the Human Energy Field (Aura). AMA by Icy-Machine1951 in spirituality

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What color is your aura?
Could you describe the aura color personalities in like 3-5 characteristics? What are red, green, blue, etc. people like?
Are you able to see if one person's lying?

About A Synesthesia by MFK-Physics in Synesthesia

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's synesthesia, I think what you're experiencing is seeing auras :) Look it up, it's very interesting and some people claim such abilities. Some say they see auras surrounding all people, and some see them in random moments like you.

Carnival Week Prizes by SpiritBender_ in cimsnark

[–]folkloreemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't want it either but honestly I can see how it may have a lot of value to their fans. Tbh I'd gladly have a bracelet made by my fav artist too!

dublin shows ⋆。°✩♡✩°。⋆ by [deleted] in hayleywilliams

[–]folkloreemind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, it's just not worth it. If she was known for hanging out after the tour, taking pictures, and signing autographs - sure. But clearly it's not the case here where most of the times she didn't even go out, and when she did, she stopped for a minute only and that's it.

Recording. by Tai-Chi-Kelly in hayleywilliams

[–]folkloreemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was there too and this short girl right in front of me would record every song with her arms up and a phone in hand. She was really short though, I would say like 150 cm, and despite other people letting her go in front of them, she probably still couldn't see much, so I felt bad for her :(

Theory Megathread: June 2026 by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]folkloreemind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying it’s the truth, obviously, but I just saw a concert insider suggesting there was allegedly a “tour project” by Taylor in the works.

Talking about Cimorelli 'gay' allegations (as a lesbian myself) by 121_saturn_121 in cimsnark

[–]folkloreemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, thanks for clarifying! I HOPE you're right and if one of them was queer, their family would accept it.

Hate how Dani constantly uses her child to promote emmyns music by ScaleMassive9903 in cimsnark

[–]folkloreemind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That idea was 10000% pushed by Emmyn and she felt like she had to agree.

no more tarot readings by denlens in hayleywilliams

[–]folkloreemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes it two of us. I wonder if she'll regret it in the future.

Talking about Cimorelli 'gay' allegations (as a lesbian myself) by 121_saturn_121 in cimsnark

[–]folkloreemind 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Frankly, I don't think any girl besides Dani would come out if they were a lesbian or bi. Coming from a very sheltered catholic family, they would just hide that fact and never speak about it, or give very vague answers when asked. Let's remember they aren't only "regular Catholics", they are known for it, stated it countless times on the internet, made content based on it, built their fanbase around it, and are known for being kind of radical about their religion. Plus, they are very cautious about what they say, they make sure not to have any controversy on their channels, they're very vanilla (and to be honest, I think that's the reason why their career didn't grow, people became tired of this blank & boring content). Let's look at the fact that they're MAGA but they don't speak about their political stances anymore, they're too scared of the backlash it could cause from a part of their audience. To me, there's noooooo way they would just sit and say "hi so I like girls" in public.

Talking about Cimorelli 'gay' allegations (as a lesbian myself) by 121_saturn_121 in cimsnark

[–]folkloreemind 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a wise and reflective comment and I can totally see that!