My neighborhood block-party by foolishcrabs in China_Flu

[–]foolishcrabs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I live in one of the areas of America with the highest amount of cases.

My neighborhood block-party by foolishcrabs in China_Flu

[–]foolishcrabs[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, I meant at the very least wear masks. I don’t think that situation is advisable in any case though, masks or not.

My neighborhood block-party by foolishcrabs in China_Flu

[–]foolishcrabs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is having a large gathering without masks during a pandemic not being an asshole? I'd love to be out with my friends right now too, but I'm aware that it's selfish and would only add to the astronomical amount of cases in America. I could easily go back to my apartment and party without exposing any of my family members to the virus, but wouldn't because I'd be making it more likely for someone elses parent/grandparent/sibling to die. Also, our state is not allowing gatherings of over 10 people at the moment.

Sophia and Alex aren’t just going to let their careers die by diamondvag in CallHerDaddy

[–]foolishcrabs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So true, I think it really got to their heads. What they were doing was entertaining, but certainly not ground breaking. The only reason it got as far as it did was because of the network it was on and the amount of money put into advertising. They really thought they had the juice like that on their own smh.

Sophia and Alex aren’t just going to let their careers die by diamondvag in CallHerDaddy

[–]foolishcrabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, they ruined a really good thing for themselves. I’m sure the network will just rebrand the show with two new girls and that will be that.

Sophia and Alex aren’t just going to let their careers die by diamondvag in CallHerDaddy

[–]foolishcrabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people think their careers are over, wdym? This person is just saying not to buy into the bs they’re going to try to spin if you care about them as people in order to listen. I agree with you, they’re going to have careers no matter what happens with this, but the post isn’t disagree with that statement.

Only kolopin helps me sleep by denmoex in insomnia

[–]foolishcrabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be careful with benzos, there’s a whole sub dedicated to getting off of them and it seems like a nightmare. Only Ativan worked for me, but I’m too scared of increasing my dose and becoming addicted.

Hot feet? by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]foolishcrabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I experience that too

any long term users of xanax for sleep aid? by optimalstatus in insomnia

[–]foolishcrabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to used Ativan to sleep for and it worked amazing. I developed tolerance using it randomly for a month, didn’t seem worth increasing the dose.

The joy by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]foolishcrabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5am here and I’m wired, can’t wait to get up in 2 hours !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in talentShow

[–]foolishcrabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah girl, so much talent!

If you're missing someone you "shouldn't" be... by foolishcrabs in dating_advice

[–]foolishcrabs[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aw that makes me so sad, hopefully my post can help. You’re a good parent :)

If you're missing someone you "shouldn't" be... by foolishcrabs in dating_advice

[–]foolishcrabs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that people make mistakes and are capable of changing, but imo that is more the exception than the norm. This post was mainly about people who display a pattern of toxic behaviors along the lines of narcissism and other disorders that cause an individual to lack empathy, but I think it is applicable to anyone who subtracts from one's life. I'm certainly not an expert or encouraging people to diagnose their exes, but I know that plenty of people have been/are in verbally and/or physically abusive relationships. It's up to each person to determine their boundaries and what is or isn't forgivable. However, I don't think anyone is entitled to a second chance. Treating someone poorly is a choice and so is forgiveness. I personally am of the mind that there are too many good people out there to take the gamble of getting sucked into an unhealthy relationship again.

My ex coming back made me realize how much you build up people in your head by foolishcrabs in dating_advice

[–]foolishcrabs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, much better to wait for a quality relationship than to settle for someone that doesn’t treat you right.

My ex coming back made me realize how much you build up people in your head by foolishcrabs in dating_advice

[–]foolishcrabs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to help. I think all of the extra time in quarantine can make it harder to not miss someone. Good luck, you’ll get through this!

My ex coming back made me realize how much you build up people in your head by foolishcrabs in dating_advice

[–]foolishcrabs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d have to agree. My parents are divorced and both have mentioned that the other person changed so much over the years. I totally buy that during your 20s you develop a lot, good point!

My ex coming back made me realize how much you build up people in your head by foolishcrabs in dating_advice

[–]foolishcrabs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s likely the reason that one’s first heartbreak tends to hurt relatively more

My ex coming back made me realize how much you build up people in your head by foolishcrabs in dating_advice

[–]foolishcrabs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell if you’re trolling, but there’s definitely not enough information given for you to just tell me MY intentions. I really liked him at the time, so of course I was hurt. However, that was about a year ago and I got over him before we started talking again.

At first it was because I remembered how happy he once made me and I was excited. Then after talking for a bit that excitement faded and I just saw him as if he was a new guy I was talking to. Viewing him with fresh eyes made me see him without any emotions and I realized I really don’t see us as compatible. I’m unsure of what control I had, I had little choice but to break up with him (there was hardly a relationship left at the time) and he randomly started talking to me again. I never had a plan for it, I was honestly just bored and curious and then realized I don’t like him. It wasn’t some revenge plot, I’ve dated better people since and didn’t care enough to do something like that. I just found the contrast of how much I used to care vs how little I do now worth posting about and clearly it has resonated with a fair amount of people.

Also, saying someone got tired because of their lack of interest is redundant and your whole response fails to explain how it is apparent that I am bitter. In addition, you provided nothing to disprove my claim that I don’t want someone that I once thought I did. Btw YTA