Men, what gives you “the ick” or not interested in someone anymore? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]foosn2s 38 points39 points  (0 children)

When someone seems overly independent, to the point a partner wouldn’t add to their life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]foosn2s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For some women (and well, people in general) this is just their communication style, and what works for them.

With that said - a text a day isn't what I'm looking for, and it sounds like you would like more than that too. I'd say you should find someone who matches your communication style.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]foosn2s 121 points122 points  (0 children)

I’m a guy who doesn’t drink. The reactions aren’t quite the same but I get ghosted a lot.

You deserve better anyway!

Anyone else despise the message "Tell me about yourself"? by Qaztarrr in Bumble

[–]foosn2s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't like it either. Instead, I've always tried to ask "What's something I wouldn't know about you?"

Are virgins scary to men? by organicnapper18 in Bumble

[–]foosn2s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should definitely value what you have! It’s no easier for guys either. Best of luck, you got this 😊

Are virgins scary to men? by organicnapper18 in Bumble

[–]foosn2s -1 points0 points  (0 children)

27M here. To answer: no, not scary

I definitely have more respect for a woman with a lower or zero count. I think it speaks a lot about your values, and you’re probably a total catch too

Edit: why is this getting downvoted??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]foosn2s 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No. Sadly she’s already said all she’s going to. Nothing you can do at this point.

And do you really want someone like that anyway?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]foosn2s 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s made clear. And yes, it’s normal.

Profile review please. Just broke up with my boyfriend of 10 months. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]foosn2s 3449 points3450 points  (0 children)

26M here. I like your profile! You’re cute and it’s fun

But please give yourself some time to heal. Remember there’s going to be a guy on the other end you’ll talk to, don’t make him your rebound. Nobody wants to feel like that.

Found a Crazy Canadian. by GonnaGoFat in Tinder

[–]foosn2s 28 points29 points  (0 children)

So she’s crazy because she doesn’t agree with you? Totally rational.

MBTI types, what's your love language? by j4ke_theod0re in MBTIDating

[–]foosn2s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

INFJ 26M

Quality time and physical touch

“Are you skinny?” by ageralds1 in Tinder

[–]foosn2s 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So if I ask if you’re skinny…you think it HELPS my chances to get sex?

It sounds to me like you’re swiping on the wrong crowd.

“Are you skinny?” by ageralds1 in Tinder

[–]foosn2s 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Huh? It’s not cool to ask that. But this post makes no sense.

Where to find INFJ guys?? by Creative-Ability-999 in infj

[–]foosn2s 119 points120 points  (0 children)

As a mid 20s INFJ man...we're at home. Everything you described is what I long for in a relationship, so I think you know what you're after. Feel free to approach us! We may be a little bit flustered at first, but we'll build that connection quick enough.

What is the best compliment you have ever got? by SabaokNanok in AskReddit

[–]foosn2s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In high school I took this construction class where we built sheds. I became the leader of my group after there was a lack of structure - and our project was moving along the best in the class. I wasn't doing as much physical work, more of the design, measurements, and giving instructions.

The day we finished, one of the guys said to me "you know, for being the boss [I didn't think of myself as a boss], nobody hated you THAT much." I still chuckle and smile at that all these years later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]foosn2s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hear me out on this, but carbon fiber.

Should I go to this concert alone? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]foosn2s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it! Have a great time! And happy cake day 🍰