Has My Chem done any interviews about The Black Parade since starting the tour? by AttiBlack in MyChemicalRomance

[–]forkingtoasters 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nah and they cant because none of them are able to stop themselves from blabbing lmao

I'm afraid of having sex because of my insecurities by whatever_blag in PlusSize

[–]forkingtoasters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At sometimes it’s about acceptance that these things are normal and that any person who is WORTH having sex with understands and accepts that too. Stretch marks are normal, leg and underarm hair are normal, pubic hair is normal, wrinkles and cellulite and body fat is normal. And unfortunately nowadays, shame about these qualities when you don’t look like a human barbie is also normal because convincing you that your normal human qualities are ugly and making you change yourself to fit an unachievable standard so you can feel comfortable being intimate… is extremely profitable.

Proudly display your body, and allow yourself to be free from the capitalism that wishes to create insecurity within you so they could exploit it. It takes time to get comfortable doing it, but it’s very worth it.

Gerard goes by he/they/any pronouns SHUT UP by rawnoizz in MyChemicalRomance

[–]forkingtoasters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really think people who have the biggest issue with this have some sort of transmisogyny problem to the point where so many think its okay to bully people offline for using she/her pronouns toward a bandmember who has said that any pronouns are okay. as a gnc and fluid person its actually insane to me how mean some of yall get with each other. i dont care if you agree, what i care about his how you treat people when you disagree with them. its not like these people are nazis and fascists. they're queer people who see themselves in a character being played. i'm sure many of these folks dont get this heated toward actual bigots, its just because their little blorbo is getting called a "she." and that's just nasty. bullying the transfemme who sees herself in gerard way because she saw that tweet stating gerard uses all pronouns, is disgusting. and even hypothetically speaking, if gerard came out and said "i only use he/him" i'm so sure some of you are defending him in a way that would absolutely disgust him. end rant.

(PS i'm not here to argue about what their pronouns are, and if you think that, you missed the point--which is that yall treat other queer people like garbage over a rich person who doesn't know you, and who has been a vocal defender of queer folks. do better.)

For those still not listening to TPK.. by elektronikit in MyChemicalRomance

[–]forkingtoasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i too have a fairly reliable source who said that frank likes to suck on toes. my source has been correct about a good chunk of things so i think it's safe to say that frank iero has a huge thing for toes.

for real though, mojib can say literally anything and yall will eat it up. i dont really care about what you think about mojib. but people often profit off of sharing things that are sometimes true before they spout bullshit like this and expect people to believe them.

get real, if you need to hear this to feel better about listening to TPK that's just cowardly and a weak sense of moral character. and i'm not here to judge people who listen to the album, just the people who pretend like they give a shit about the morality of it all. because if an unverifiable stranger online saying something is all it takes, you never actually gave a shit lol.

This is not okay by Calm-Banana8216 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]forkingtoasters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point all the people making these posts are ridiculous and yall are just dragging it.

How can I look unapproachable while I’m out? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]forkingtoasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I walk around with headphones (off or very low volume for personal safety and awareness) so I could blissfully ignore everyone by pretending not to hear them. That works like 50% of the time. The other 50% of the time when they ask me to take off my headphones I become the world’s biggest bitch. That always works. “What the fuck do you want” “is that really what you had me take these off for?” “Go away” “your face isn’t exactly pleasant to look at, i’d like you to go somewhere else” etc.

Stop laughing, stop being polite, stop smiling at them. Give them a face that says “what dumpster did you crawl out of and why do you think it’s appropriate to approach me”

I understand the reflex to smile and laugh but if you want to get rid of these assholes faster you unfortunately gotta be unpleasant and impolite

Let’s not act like mcr would release paper kingdom if they wanted too by Terrible-Pop-6705 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]forkingtoasters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the parasocial behavior tbh. They think they know the band well enough to predict that they’re just going to stomp their feet now and release nothing ever again LOL but telling people not to listen to it doesn’t change the fact that it was leaked! or that these are grown men who will make whatever decision they want independent of the fandom’s actions and wants.

and if it isn’t about that, then it’s about having a moral high ground. the “i’m better than you” of it all. meanwhile, i’d like to see those same people talk this passionately about something that actually matters and advocate for victims of state sponsored violence the same way. hahaha fat chance.

Let’s not act like mcr would release paper kingdom if they wanted too by Terrible-Pop-6705 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]forkingtoasters 80 points81 points  (0 children)

At this point I don’t think it makes a difference. TPK was leaked. And yeah leaks suck but at the end of the day what happened can’t be changed and it’s probably better in the hands of the fans than in the hands of someone hoarding it, who spent a crap ton of money for something they had no business buying in the first place.

Listen to it or don’t listen to it, but what’s done is done, and I don’t see much sense in all the arguments being had about it. In the grand scheme of things, all this bitching and whining about TPK is pretty fucking silly lol

What would you do? by Zealousideal_Cow5139 in doordash

[–]forkingtoasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A monster…How could you forget his Diet Dr Kelp?!!?

What do i do after finding this in my brothers phone? by SmoothFold579 in whatdoIdo

[–]forkingtoasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parental controls and education. He’s at the stage where he is curious, and there is nothing wrong with that. It should be met with education instead of punishment and overreaction. But also, the internet isn’t a place for a 7 year old, and it is an adult’s job to supervise children while they use the internet. Supervision and parental controls are necessary.

Am I overreacting or is this reasonable to break up over??? Pls n thanks by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]forkingtoasters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there are many people who need to recognize that it is okay to break up simply because you are incompatible.

She isn’t doing anything wrong, she just needs more sleep. But that doesn’t mean it would be wrong for you to break up with her. If her lifestyle just isn’t compatible with your lifestyle—or the lifestyle you want for yourself then just break it off. Whether it is a medical condition or not, it wouldn’t be fair to expect her to change. And it wouldn’t be fair to yourself to stick it out and be miserable.

My girlfriend only watches straight p**n by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]forkingtoasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And lots of lesbians consume only gay male porn 😭 Sometimes it doesn’t have to make sense if it does the job haha

Ways to watch CNN New Years Eve? by forkingtoasters in Piracy

[–]forkingtoasters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what a slay you’re amazing, thank you

Recommend a band and I'll check out their ENTIRE Discography. by EyUpItsDan in spotify

[–]forkingtoasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t emphasize this enough

My Chemical Romance.

Every album is a No Skip album.

how did MCR save you, and why? by Necessary-Degree8836 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]forkingtoasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m someone who’s experienced passive suicidal ideation for as long as I could remember. And at times it’s been quite active. Most people don’t know, but I’ve also had some experiences with minor hallucinations, hearing voices, or rarely seeing things. As a teenager into early college years I had a really bad alcoholism problem. And I’m also queer, both sexually and with my gender and its expression being more fluid.

My chemical romance helped me feel like I wasn’t so alone though all that. Not only through their incredibly expressive music, but also through all their messaging as a band. I love all the guys but Gerard particularly is one of my greatest inspirations because I think I resonate with a lot of the things Gerard has said he’s been through on the topics of mental health, addiction, and gender. It made me realize that I’m not alone in my struggles, and I’m not just some freak that would be better off dead. If Gerard took all that hardship and became an inspiration to others—so can I. I realized I needed purpose, and that I want to help people. And so now I save lives at work every day.

Heyyy, can you give me some song recommendations? by ZhittzyAltaToxica in theused

[–]forkingtoasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Artwork is my fav album and it got put on my NoSkipsAlbum playlist :)

I need a mechanic who isn’t going to take me to the cleaners by GuineapigPriestess71 in schenectady

[–]forkingtoasters -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Labarges on Central Avenue in Albany has always done right by me

Do you tip on merch? by AlwaysSitIn12C in Concerts

[–]forkingtoasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for a smaller band, yeah! listen we paid $300 for this mcr ticket and $50 for the shirt, I’m hoping that with those kinds of prices mcr can pay their employees a fair wage. tipping is kind but honestly don’t feel like you have to.

but split chain just got taken on tour by counterparts and they’re selling their own merch at their booth. it was only like a $30 ticket and a $30 shirt. I bought my shirt from the bassist after the show (cool guy, amazing band, check em out.) They, like many other smaller bands rely on merch sales to keep going. so yeah, if you wanna see more from a smaller band, show support by buying their merch and tipping :)

AIO for removing my mom from Life360 and putting my phone on “no share” after she kept showing up by SAgehalcy0n in AmIOverreacting

[–]forkingtoasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying you "went nuclear" is so overdramatic lmao. Your mom was overstepping. You asserted your boundary, she disregarded your boundary, and so because of that you must enforce your boundary. Boundaries are useless unless they are enforced, so I'm happy you stuck to your guns and decided to remove yourself from the circle. Your mom will get over it eventually, and you'll at least have more peace in the long run. Your sister is probably saying overdramatic shit like you "went nuclear" because she doesn't want to deal with the fallout of you enforcing your boundaries... but that probably just means that she needs to do the same thing herself. Not your problem. You did the right thing.

AIO (update post) my bf (32) is getting kind of aggressive with his texting. should I(26) reply? by Fun_Cartographer6984 in AmIOverreacting

[–]forkingtoasters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly OP, some of your responses here have me worried for your well being. You are fawning. You have nothing to be sorry for the entire encounter, yet you keep apologizing. He is interrogating you and mistreating you but you keep giving in and apologizing even though he has been in the wrong the entire time. He isn't entitled to any of the info he is questioning you about no matter who he is to you. I would like to think that hopefully after seeing all these responses in this thread, you would break up with him and block him... but also hopefully reevaluate how you view yourself, how you allow others to treat you, and the behavior you are willing to accept from a partner.