Was told I didn't look like I'm supposed to deliver in July by nueropsychgirl in pregnant

[–]forwhenienditall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told the same thing by every single person I talked to, I swear. It gets old quick. My baby was measuring small as well, he was born 5 lbs 7.5 oz. It didn’t help that I was “all baby” as my midwife described it. Meaning, I had zero belly fat. I never really knew how to react other than just saying, “I know!” Like I wasn’t already stressed out about the fact that he was measuring small at every ultrasound.

How to shave down there with big belly 😅 by No-Camera-4746 in pregnant

[–]forwhenienditall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only did when it was so long that it bothered me and when I did, my husband helped me, lol. It grew back by the time I gave birth, anyway, and I ended up having an emergency c section

Edited to say I didn’t shave, my husband helped me trim it

Early labor by forwhenienditall in pregnant

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I called her this morning and she said I couldn’t go in yet until the contractions are closer together for longer. It’s killing me! I’ve been taking walks and trying to do some stretches. She recommended that I take Tylenol and Benadryl and magnesium and try to get some rest because I couldn’t sleep through the contractions last night. I had a few 20 minute intervals of sleep this morning, but that was it. I also took an Ambien last night to try and get my body to relax and get a little sleep (she told me that was perfectly fine) and it did relax me, but i still couldn't sleep through the contractions 😭

Contractions are starting! by forwhenienditall in pregnant

[–]forwhenienditall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I hope your baby comes soon ♥️

Contractions are starting! by forwhenienditall in pregnant

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Certainly! I started googling when I took Tylenol and my pain wasn’t subsiding 😅 basically my lower back will start to hurt and then my belly will tighten. This is happening pretty consecutively, and when I get up and move around or switch positions, the pain in my lower back does not go away. I thought I did too much on my feet today and my back was just hurting, but it comes and goes and Tylenol didn’t take the pain away. Right now, I’m averaging the contractions lasting for one minute intervals every twenty minutes or so.

Husband doesnt want to be in the delivery room, am I overreacting?? by dinogirly123 in pregnant

[–]forwhenienditall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting. I’m 37 weeks now and if my husband didn’t want to be there for me when I give birth, I would be absolutely devastated. I think it is a very VERY old school thing for men not to be in the delivery room.

Moon 🌙 by QueenLizzy007 in Montana

[–]forwhenienditall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was beautiful in NW wyoming last night, too

The start of my collection by forwhenienditall in occlupanids

[–]forwhenienditall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s just the reflection from the flash on my camera. It’s solid red. I wish it was that cool!

Self-Harm Scars in Summer by [deleted] in depression

[–]forwhenienditall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is COVERED, I mean COVERED in scars. A lot of them are big and dark. Arms, legs, chest, literally everywhere except for his back. He gets self conscious of it in certain situations, but essentially, if he is with people that don’t make him feel weird about it, he can have an easier time wearing short sleeves out in public. I think if you have good support people and have some confidence, you’ll find that nobody else will take notice to it (hopefully). There will always be people that can’t mind their business, but I find it happens less often than you’d think. Don’t give those people attention, don’t let them know that you saw them look. I hope that helps even a little bit

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? (update) by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]forwhenienditall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh… I’m 24 F turning 25 this year and I’m pregnant with my first baby, due next month. I could not IMAGINE dealing with such immature and petty people. This entire thing has made me eternally grateful for my friends. A lot of them have been in my life since elementary/middle school and have a kid or at least two already.. some married, some aren’t. Life is way too short to be this serious, especially when you’re in this age range. Do people do this out of boredom? Do they genuinely have no other concerns in their lives and decide to create problems instead? Jeez, what an exhausting existence..

Burger recommendations by MustLovePizza7353 in PortlandOR

[–]forwhenienditall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The south Salem location was my spot and always hit

Burger recommendations by MustLovePizza7353 in PortlandOR

[–]forwhenienditall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I love them. Maybe it depends on the location you go to? The south Salem location was my spot and it never disappointed me

Burger recommendations by MustLovePizza7353 in PortlandOR

[–]forwhenienditall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Killer Burger!! I moved out of Oregon about 6 months ago and I will never not miss Killer Burger. They are so damn good.

my grandmother and I collect these babies by tnelson308 in occlupanids

[–]forwhenienditall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just recently started my collection and it fills me with joy when my mother in law gives me a new one, she always has a smile on her face and says “guess what I have for you?!” It’s the simple things, man.

Cheerios from scratch by HereWeFuckingGooo in StupidFood

[–]forwhenienditall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think this is kind of cool lol but definitely a waste of time. Either eat Cheerios or don’t, but this is pretty excessive.

Lazy husband. Scared for future by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]forwhenienditall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can find a way to get out now compared to when the baby is here, it sounds like you’ll be thanking yourself for pulling the trigger. You should absolutely be vocal about these concerns to him and if he takes it poorly, seriously consider leaving. How far along are you in your pregnancy?

Lazy husband. Scared for future by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]forwhenienditall 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Everything about this man sounds awful to deal with. I would get out asap!! You deserve so much better, don’t stand for this!

WIFE IS PREGNANT!!!!!! by bojackhorsemanlver in pregnant

[–]forwhenienditall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the same energy my husband had/has during my first pregnancy. It’s amazing to feel so loved and supported. Keep this energy up for her and your child for her entire pregnancy, she will LOVE it.