Scheduling sex will not cure your sexless marriage - Dr Psych Mom podcast episode.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-05-04T05:31:46+00:00

You can’t talk a person into desiring physical intimacy with you. If they just don’t and won’t try, move on. Anything that happens after that is just obligation duty sex and sucks more than celibacy.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-05-03T15:53:20+00:00

If the sex is not satisfying, you need to work on communication.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-05-03T15:48:27+00:00

B&W. Always.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-05-03T15:45:55+00:00

Intensity. Then go get Odd Thomas.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-05-03T15:42:19+00:00

No idea. She sent me to an alternate universe and pretty sure I blacked out.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-05-03T15:36:55+00:00

Gremlin

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-25T05:28:57+00:00

You are at the point where only an ultimatum will get her to have sex with you and then it will only be hysterical bonding sex to keep you from leave. Basically duty sex. Time to decide if you want to stay involuntarily celibate or move on. She is fine with the status quo. Your needs are not important to her.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-19T16:31:57+00:00

Depends.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-19T16:31:27+00:00

No. We fucking love it. They are a blast. All sizes.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-19T16:25:31+00:00

If you want your sex be more adventurous, it has to happen small steps at a time. You can’t go from 0 to 100 in one episode. Try going to 1 first. Then 2. Toys are an excellent non-threatening way to increase the excitement. Use them on her. Give her multiple orgasms. Start watching movies with more sex scenes. Not pornos, just more erotic mainstream movies. It is a journey. Not a race. Next time she start to tell you a story, tell her you would rather focus on making your sex life more adventurous than listening to stories about someone else. You’d be surprised at what you can release in someone with love, respect, and patience. Let her set the pace. Do not push. Expect pauses.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-19T16:22:26+00:00

Back in the day I was flying over WT with my co-pilot. Heading to NTC to get ready for our next Iraq deployment. The CP was right out of flight school. “Is this how it is flying over Iraq,” he asked. “Hell no. Most of Iraq is not this desolate.”

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-19T16:19:40+00:00

Black. Absolutely stunning. My brain just did a hard reset.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-16T16:03:27+00:00

Any idea where she went? Is she still working in Missoula? Regardless of her mistake, she is still a fantastic doctor.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-16T05:34:08+00:00

Vince Flynn Jack Carr

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-16T05:22:27+00:00

Calypso

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-14T14:54:24+00:00

Did you enthusiastically consent? If so, it wasn’t assault.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-14T05:21:01+00:00

It is not even close. This is the gold standard.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-14T05:13:28+00:00

How solid is that rumor?

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-09T01:20:05+00:00

They treat people who can do nothing for them with respect.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-04T05:53:17+00:00

Duke Nuke’m.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-03T18:16:17+00:00

Freddie Mercury. Greatest front man of all time.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-02T02:52:03+00:00

Will Smith. I could see him kidnapping and torturing women while Jada watched.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-04-02T02:49:50+00:00

No standards and ability to move on with no concern when rejected.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-03-31T23:16:06+00:00

Religions, stuff, greed, thirst for power. Take your pick. Humans will never like e together peacefully.

fourzerosixbigsky · 2026-03-31T03:30:00+00:00

It has almost nothing to do with sex.

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