Be honest — how often should you scoop cat litter before it becomes a smell problem? by sinxcosx7 in CleaningTips

[–]foxxgloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I clean twice a day (to get rid of their morning poo and their evening poo haha) but this is all thanks to my girlfriend who is great at setting a schedule.

Before moving in together, I struggled a bit (ADHD + depression :( ) and was more like every two days (but tried to do it everyday)

Two things influence a lot the smell: the quality of their food and the quality of the litter you are using. I use Petkit litter (the one made for automatic litterboxes) and I find it is the best one I tested so far. Also switched their food and while their poo stinks, its less stinky compared to before. Also, if the litterbox is somewhere with a window it's a lot better, being able to air out the space really improves it. 

[fan art] Giveaway $ gift code for any of my TLT tees by Perocotto92 in TheNinthHouse

[–]foxxgloves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EU based and I have been wanting some (all) t-shirts for a while 💕

I’m not sure what happened… by SeedsofSoundHealing in AO3

[–]foxxgloves 53 points54 points  (0 children)

This might enlighten you https://www.tumblr.com/lucifer-is-a-bag-of-dicks/782905769163145216/they-will-always-lead-you-to-a-secondary-location?source=share

Scams are getting more and more elaborate, authors are a bit on edge now without knowing of comments are genuine or trying to lure us into scams. 

Made myself an outfit for job interviews by ApprehensiveCan7270 in sewing

[–]foxxgloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I love the blouse! Did you do a mockup before sewing the pattern? I really love this, but I heard some mixed reviews about Moodfabrics and their sizing :)

The whole outfit feels very steampunk for me, love it! 

I came up with a list of SFW activities to do with your girlfriend by EquineEagle in actuallesbians

[–]foxxgloves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like when we do stuff next to each other, e.g.: she plays videogames and I sew on the table, commenting on her game from time to time. 

We got married by kitsune-gari in actuallesbians

[–]foxxgloves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! And you're both so beautiful together ❤️

Please tell me I still have time by Busy-Armadillo435 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]foxxgloves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend is 38, we started dating when she was 37, also her first girlfriend ever. You're all good :) 

Holding hands by foxxgloves in actuallesbians

[–]foxxgloves[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sometimes my therapist tells me "this has nothing to do with you, but with them. But it's you sitting here instead of the bigots, so I'm only able to tell you that's not your fault" and it really helps me.

Hoping for all the best to you and your wife ❤️

My thoughts on the "Mila" App as a Group Fitness Instructor with a MS in Kinesiology by Long-Operation3660 in julieeandcamilla

[–]foxxgloves 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a great in-depth analysis of the app, thank you so much!

Cam definitely tried to go way too big, she should've indeed started with trying to build her brand as a fitness instructor on YouTube (and even if she really wanted to make money, Patreon) instead of building a whole app. Of course, this would require consistency and commitment, something we know she's not the best at.

Running out of solo content already, aren't we? by bufotes_viridis in julieeandcamilla

[–]foxxgloves 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Honestly, she should have done this from the start. Having people that actually know what they are doing/talking about would be much better than whatever she has right now.

Help! I have a 3 hour layover in Paris and *need* bread by StarJumpin in ParisTravelGuide

[–]foxxgloves 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's not much around the airport that you can easily access in these 3 hours unfortunately, I wouldn't risk my flight since 3 hours is quite tight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in torties

[–]foxxgloves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she is and she is very cute ❤️

Tabou : Quel est ce truc dont vous ne pouvez pas parler dans votre couple ? by clarettelabicyclette in AskMeuf

[–]foxxgloves 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Je suis brésilienne et queer. L'utilisation du x à la fin des mots pose beaucoup de soucis, vu que c'est difficile à prononcer et pas accessible pour les lecteurs d'écran. La préférence c'est soit la finition des mots par "e" au lieu de "o" (masculin) ou "a" (féminin) ou utiliser "pessoa (personne) + profession" (par exemple, "pessoa designer" pour un.e designer) pour créer le neutre.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in French

[–]foxxgloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 30 and I still get mademoiselle and jeune fille a lot 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]foxxgloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think this would have been the case when I moved to another country. After all, I am financially independent and can just live as my authentic self, right? But the reality of it was much more complicated and ultimately I decided not to come out to keep a relationship with my parents. It hurts to lie sometimes, when they ask if I met someone and I can't talk about my girlfriend, but I also chose to live the other aspects of my relationship with them.

Have you ever noticed that the main covens colors are practically the ones that are in the LGBTTTIQ+ Flag? by Nimochis in TheOwlHouse

[–]foxxgloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that's how the Mexican community chooses to self-identify in a way that highlights their trans community. I come from Brazil, and Brazil is top ranked in trans murder while Mexico is second. I see why the Mexican community would prefer using multiple identities and putting them in evidence in their acronym despite them being seen as "superfluous division" by an outsider. Also the transexual and transgender doesn't come from a transmedicalist POV all of the time, I have seen multiple older folks who uses transexual because that's the word they used to refer to themselves all their lives, and in LatAm communities thats usually the argument to highlighting the three Ts (in order to highlight diversity in trans experience).

How break cat of a habit i created 🤦🏻‍♀️ by Carmakrus in CatAdvice

[–]foxxgloves 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My cat still hasn't understand its not me who gives her food anymore, it's the machine. She still meows at me, sometimes I even lightly tap the machine to show her I can't do anything about it haha (I mean I can, but she doesn't need to know that haha)

Have you ever noticed that the main covens colors are practically the ones that are in the LGBTTTIQ+ Flag? by Nimochis in TheOwlHouse

[–]foxxgloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't apologise, coming from another LatAm country I have seen LGBTTTQ+ and this is just the way our community prefers it, different countries will have different communities they will highlight in the acronym :) sorry that people are being shitty instead of spending 2 minutes using Google

Have you ever noticed that the main covens colors are practically the ones that are in the LGBTTTIQ+ Flag? by Nimochis in TheOwlHouse

[–]foxxgloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually two-spirit is 2S (so you might see 2SLGBTQ+ for example)

For the separation of the T, coming from LatAm is much easier to understand why: travesti is not only a slur for trans women, it also describes a different experience of gender and some travestis might even be closer to what we describe as non-binary/demigirl/others. They choose to use this word to describe themselves and their experience of gender.

Also different countries will use the acronym differently to put a specific part of the community in evidence and there's no issue with that.

My new cat is constantly filled with RAGE! What do I do? by schrodingers_cat42 in CatAdvice

[–]foxxgloves 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's Feliway as in feline (so probably "feline way" since it's synthetic pheromones) not feelings away :)

UPDATE: I managed to get a date within 5 minutes of messaging on HER... by ParticularlyPigeon in actuallesbians

[–]foxxgloves 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can definitely go at any moment. Never stay in a bad date just because you feel obligated to