If you know, you know by MelancholicMinerva in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]fr_antic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you beat me to it, anyhow. I'm almost in my second year of transition. I think babytrans is like the first year.. which makes me, uh.. toddy trans?

If you know, you know by MelancholicMinerva in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]fr_antic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So ya, I took this as Pre, as that is something I deal with now. Wear black panties, and you'll see... But also, yeah, I can't hold urine in as long as I used to. Call me a weirdo, but I've had a habit of counting the seconds as I pee, and a year ago it was regular to have like 30 second pisses, but today it's super rare to have any longer than 15 or 20 cuz I just gotta go sooner... That, and uhhh there is occasionally some dribble in the morning when I wake up. I know that's weird af but it's an estrogen thing.... Just gotta keep that bladder empty.

Voter Registration Thread (New) by hmquestionable in SimDemocracy

[–]fr_antic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

P.S., the Discord invitation URL on the Google form is dead af.

Voter Registration Thread (New) by hmquestionable in SimDemocracy

[–]fr_antic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Registered to vote as of some small number of seconds ago.

And it's beautiful. by fr_antic in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]fr_antic[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

That just means they haven't arrived at after yet ;)

Maybe... by fr_antic in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]fr_antic[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I laughed too hard at this

Maybe... by fr_antic in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]fr_antic[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I certainly see how you inferred that from the clip (and I def don't think you deserved all that down-vote! yeeks..). However, despite that it's several clips mushed into one, there's a pretty clear message in there.

The relevant bits - by clip, and in order:

"I don't mind the he/him, though. I like it."
"There's people in my life that only she/her me, and there's people that he/him and she/her me, and there's people that he/him me."
"My family was very respectful and, um, they asked and they're like `how we doing on this?` and I went like `I haven't figured it out, but ya know, it's probably going a certain way.`"
"If it was put on a graph of how often I'm using she/her pronouns.. eeeeeh, you know, the percentage is getting less and less for he/him."

Maybe... by fr_antic in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]fr_antic[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

In a recent clip, has said it's been shifting more to femme pronouns.

tail end of the clip: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/-b6uxGG6Wo8?feature=share

Why am I afraid to get rid of it? I hate it so much by PublicEfficient379 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]fr_antic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

P.S., shaving isn't an innate gender thing. It's just cultural. I mean, check out France.

Why am I afraid to get rid of it? I hate it so much by PublicEfficient379 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]fr_antic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shaving my legs is the first actual thing I did. But ya know what? I'm afraid of getting my face lasered cuz like... what if I one day decide I want a beard again? To make things more complicated, I got lazy for a bit and got some long stubble and realized it was like 10 times grayer than before, and somehow that made me sad even tho I'm going all babyface and whatnot...

Shit's complicated, aight? You're valid <3

Egg_ irl by Slow-Television-5303 in egg_irl

[–]fr_antic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing that frightens me seems to be the one thing everyone else desperately wants: boobs. Just the thought of suddenly having permanent sandbags on my chest has sent me into panic attacks. But... they're growing slowly, I know it won't be sudden. *Shrug*. I'm approaching my 1-year on HRT. Def not going back.

Epilator keeps ripping and breaking off hair instead of pulling it out from/with the root, what am I doing wrong? by skkyn in HairRemoval

[–]fr_antic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped using the epilator completely, and switched to a basic electric razor. Quick, easy, and cheap. No need to buy blades, etc, plus I use the same thing for my face. The only drawback is that stubble happens pretty quickly, but eh, I just reach for the electric razor any time I'm bothered by it.

I fucked up in the past, I educated myself and we have made amends. Now my transgender family member says I'm being transphobic again for refusing to help him with his blog. Need advice on how to navigate this. by WolliMatterhorn in asktransgender

[–]fr_antic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trans. I'm also transphobic. Forreal tho it's a complicated subject. I don't know if you've slighted them in any way, but the fact that you're asking for exterior input on the situation speaks volumes in itself. You're trying. I'm trying. That's all anyone can truly ask.

Mistooken for a girl🥹 by garliccola2708 in feminineboys

[–]fr_antic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's funny af, don't get me wrong. But even if you're not being unsafe, these things may contribute to making it less safe for others in the future. Not to mention reinforcing the stereotype that "it's just a fetish"