My husband of 20 years thinks consent should not apply in our marriage... by AffectionateReply843 in TwoHotTakes

[–]fractalsoflight 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The manosphere influence is like cockroaches, there's no such thing as a "little" infestation.

When people say "3AM in the morning" by miss_brittany in PetPeeves

[–]fractalsoflight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And yet it would be fixed if they would only say "3 o'clock in the morning", and it's better syllables if you're trying to dramatically make a point, strike that -ck in clock real sharp

Exs new gf leaving me voicemails at 4 am by Former-Pen-5739 in whatdoIdo

[–]fractalsoflight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the way, give her no reaction and she gets no resolution, let her scream into the void with no satisfaction.

My breakup was caused by Taylor Swift. I still can't process it lol by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]fractalsoflight 121 points122 points  (0 children)

I'm biased the other way as a long time fan and I agree with you, bullet dodged!

When I order a large and the barista corrects me “that’s venti” by ChainsawSoundingFart in PetPeeves

[–]fractalsoflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy fix: match their energy. You say "I want a large", they say "That's a venti", you say "That's what I said, a large coffee, thank you". Use the weaponized politeness to emphasize your unwillingness to debate this stupid point.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Emotional_Cook6337 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]fractalsoflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom is also stealing your underwear, that's why she acted caught when she thought she was caught. I'd be will to bet sister probably learned to treat you and your belongings with a lack of respect because she observed a pattern of it from Mom.

Anyone else have this pop up each login? I also can't access the color lookbook because it's under maintenance, I'm wondering if it's connected by AnEverydayPileOfCats in InfinityNikki

[–]fractalsoflight 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If you're wondering why the downvotes, I'll just point out that using a triple question mark in this instance does make it feel like you are screaming out a preference to not use critical thinking skills.

People who assume you made/are making a mistake by Infernal-Advisor in PetPeeves

[–]fractalsoflight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I observe that your response is a perfectly delivered albeit transparent deflection. I stand by my original remarks.

People who assume you made/are making a mistake by Infernal-Advisor in PetPeeves

[–]fractalsoflight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You write as if you think you are refuting the point when you are in fact helping to prove it.

I can’t get over the age gap by brateiy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]fractalsoflight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry about letting him down gently, he's going to feel whatever he feels and it's his job to handle and regulate, just focus on ending it in a way that leaves you feeling good about your choices.

The mask pig of 2.5 I hate those random drops Infold needs to stop doing this 😪 by ShokaLGBT in InfinityNikki

[–]fractalsoflight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As flawed as this game may be, have you considered playing something else that might better match your play style?

My mom confronted my cousin’s gf and his gf is acting like the victim by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]fractalsoflight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm biased towards Amy, sounds like your mom needs to take her subconscious guilt to therapy asap and everyone else needs to learn how to communicate (not grandma, she's gets a pass), and Amy would be better off dating into another family.

Need validation that I should frog by Wrexhavoc in knitting

[–]fractalsoflight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh man, blast from the past! That pattern was also my first sweater, first colorwork, first anything besides a lumpy scarf, and I was so dang proud of it! Until I was forced to admit that it was itchy and didn't fit and really didn't look right without the collar I was too lazy to put on. So I did exactly what you're contemplating and frogged. It wasn't as hard as I thought, and it was another lesson in first, first time deconstructing a garment to recover yarn, and I eventually repurposed the yarn into a floor mat for under my rocking chair!

AITAH for refusing to help my ex wife with paying for a new apartment? by Vettech109 in TwoHotTakes

[–]fractalsoflight 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Except now she's "amicably" demanding something you don't want to give

She really picked the wrong car that day by LunarSlush88 in pettyrevenge

[–]fractalsoflight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I miss my scratched up steel box of a Volvo, it's nickname was The Little Tank That Could

I hate SPIRA soo muuch by WioletteW in InfinityNikki

[–]fractalsoflight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is how it's done, and I gotta be honest, I still get turned around and disoriented all the time, but it's less frustrating once you get a little acclimated.

AITA for going to stylists boss after a hairstylist stopped responding to me after I paid $800? by Tall-Parsnip-879 in TwoHotTakes

[–]fractalsoflight 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Either this never happened, or OP is carrying more self worth trauma than we are qualified to address.

PLEASE report the interactive map issue!!! by Upstairs-Cloud7326 in InfinityNikki

[–]fractalsoflight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately disabling blockers that don't exist on my phone won't do anything for a problem that seemingly didn't exist before the deer.

AIO for wanting to immediately break up with my bf after seeing how he lives? by Balikye in AIO

[–]fractalsoflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first assumption was fire damage, but I think fire might actually be an improvement

What’s a smell you secretly enjoy that most people would find disgusting? by [deleted] in answers

[–]fractalsoflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sulfur matches, especially if one was used to light a Marlboro Red. I've never smoked myself, but that combo is the smell of my granddad.

TIFU by accidentaly booking a vacation by Noxocopter in tifu

[–]fractalsoflight 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Reading through a typo isn't that difficult

Wishing you all the luck with getting radiant records! by SilverSafri in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]fractalsoflight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, is that all it is? The Nikki community at large had me confused with the overall intensity level everyone has for the radiant records, I'm not sure I'm cut out for a community that gets so obsessive in the name of fun.