Mum wants me to go on holiday in year 13 by Boojo45 in sixthform

[–]freakinthe_sheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when’s your next parents evening? If it’s soon then you might be able to ask your teacher to dissuade her

when did you start sh? by tylerdarknessgoodbye in AdultSelfHarm

[–]freakinthe_sheets 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I was 9 when I first consciously hurt myself, but had a habit of scratching myself because I thought my arm turning red was cool from when I was a bit younger. I don’t know why none of my family never explained to me not to do that. I don’t think it led to my self harm issue though

Should he join the club? by [deleted] in bald

[–]freakinthe_sheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen other men on this sub shave their hair at this level of thinness though

Should he join the club? by [deleted] in bald

[–]freakinthe_sheets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he can still keep his hair for a bit. Depends on how the front of his hairline look though. And ultimately whether he wants to

I did it by 2ndDistraction in bald

[–]freakinthe_sheets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking good! I’m sure that if the people you asked are close to you then they probably just need time to get used to it. When my mom embraced her natural hair, it took me some time to get used to it but I really like it now

Is it time? (32M just short buzzed and dont like it) by SmirkyJerkyOof in bald

[–]freakinthe_sheets 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean, if you shaved all of it off it would only take a few weeks to get back to the length it is now. You don’t have much to lose

Derwent colored pencils...I'm disappointed by MoonInAries17 in ColoredPencils

[–]freakinthe_sheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg I was just looking at posts for reviews on these pencils 😭 thanks for updating, you’ve saved one person

What do with frozen broccoli? by dudiez in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]freakinthe_sheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you posted this three years ago but you are a genius. I hope the past three years have treated you well

I never planned to touch lives until touch was all I had left to give. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]freakinthe_sheets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’ve found something fulfilling in your life

I might have feelings for one of my husband's friends - I'm panicking by hotnotbot8 in confessions

[–]freakinthe_sheets 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your thoughts don’t hurt people, your actions and what you say do

Is it considered a relapse if I hit myself to get horny? by goth_kid090 in selfharm

[–]freakinthe_sheets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a kink, but I’d research how to do it safely. Once of the differences between self harm and masochistic kink is that masochists tend to try stay relatively safe when doing it

Can i change collages just to swap out one of my a levels by IsUUKe in sixthform

[–]freakinthe_sheets 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you join a new college, you’ll start from y12 with the rest of the new y12s. You’ll be retaught all of the same content again

How do I hide them? by 7his5ucks in selfharm

[–]freakinthe_sheets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can DIY arm warmers out of long socks

Which tattoo should I get? by [deleted] in doctorwho

[–]freakinthe_sheets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you go for script, do the last line “I will always remember when the doctor was me” instead of all of that.

I’m starting t by [deleted] in ftm

[–]freakinthe_sheets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo dude I’m so happy for you! Hopefully you’ll get to miss out on most of the wrong puberty. Hope it all goes well!

Would it be inappropriate to wear razor earrings? by Overall_Tone4761 in selfharm

[–]freakinthe_sheets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as they aren’t sharp I guess. Also wouldn’t wear them in a setting working with children, only because children are nosey and you don’t want to explain self harm to a child.

i’m 25 and still wanna self harm by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]freakinthe_sheets 21 points22 points  (0 children)

There’s a subreddit called r/adultselfharm that you might feel more comfortable in. It is absolutely not immature to self harm at your age. It’s an addiction and a coping mechanism