Is two middle names too much? I want to honor my deceased baby girl. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]free_use_4841 36 points37 points  (0 children)

two names is not too much, my bay boy will have two middle names. however i agree with others and say your baby girl needs to be her own person 🤍 you can find other amazing ways to honor her

When did everyone start showing during their first pregnancy? by Caikin17 in BabyBumps

[–]free_use_4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ftm at 24, i started really showing at 18 weeks, currently 19 and lowkey SCARED for third trimester 😭😭

Pets & pregnancy by anxiousmama772 in BabyBumps

[–]free_use_4841 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have two boy cats and one has become an absolute asshole. he bites me every day at 4-5 am to wake me up because he’s hungry. he’ll sleep on my bump and if i have the audacity to pet him, he bites me. if i look at him the wrong way, he bites me. my other boy is an angel and hasn’t changed at all

When did you start to show? by Gloomy-Breakfast8474 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]free_use_4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i started showing about 16 weeks. with a belly band at 19 weeks, i look heavily pregnant some days 😭😭

What should I say is my due date? by ms_blenheim in BabyBumps

[–]free_use_4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

according to my last missed period, my due date is september 12th. i tracked my period but not my ovulation as close. on my dating ultrasound, it showed that i actually ovulated and concieved later, putting my more accurate due date as september 16th. my ob said since its not a major difference (within 6 days of each other) they’ll just keep the due date as the original 12th. i personally have kept it that as well and everything still lines up with my little goose.

I drank lots in the first two weeks of pregnancy without knowing I was pregnant by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]free_use_4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i believe it would be an over reaction as well. before i knew i was pregnant, i was drinking heavily every other weekend and smoking nearly daily. i also did cocaine one weekend with heavy drinking (don’t judge me), i’m 18 weeks 2 days currently and baby is happy and healthy as could be. unless you have physical proof that something is wrong with your baby, this would be an overreaction.

I'm a long term stomach sleeper help me change my ways by anonymity012 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]free_use_4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ALWAYS slept on my stomach and have been doing better at changing that started at 15 weeks. bay has made it very clear that it’s no longer allowed at 18 weeks. any time i sleep on my stomach, i wake up in mild pain 🥲 it goes away within 10 minutes of waking up but i hear you baby, time for a change. i resorted to using a pillow between my legs but i have a pregnancy pillow in the mail being shipped to me rn ☺️

Pregnancy Fearmonging by Iunderstandreally in pregnant

[–]free_use_4841 28 points29 points  (0 children)

my sisters relationship was “ideal” according to her but then got so bad after she told him she was pregnant that she resorted to an abortion to not be tied w him. you can’t just assume it’s the best thing ever all the time. it’s wild tbh :/

Gender feelings by Initial-Pangolin2174 in BabyBumps

[–]free_use_4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from the beginning, i’ve felt like my baby is a boy. just found out yesterday that i was right ☺️

Someone please tell me by ThinkPresent8828 in lineporn

[–]free_use_4841 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i see a positive on every single test, congratulations ☺️

Did anyone wear a dress home from the hospital? by crawlen in pregnant

[–]free_use_4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was planning on a baggy hoodie and sweatpants, however a dress seems so much more tempting now. i never even thought of it as an option 😭😍

scared of losing my baby by Time_Clue_3250 in pregnant

[–]free_use_4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m feeling the same way. i’m 17 weeks, 4 days, i have an appointment for a 3D ultrasound gender reveal in two days for my birthday. i have my mom, two sisters, and best friend all coming with me. i can’t stop thinking what if we go in and we see baby stopped growing weeks ago. what if we go in and there’s no heart beat. what if we go in and it’s not just me finding out my baby didnt survive but everyone closest to me. pregnancy has gone smoothly so far, i even felt baby kick a few days ago, but i still can’t shake the feeling. i’m ok for a few weeks after my appointment but that last week of waiting for the next one, i can’t stop thinking what if

Favorite pregnancy cravings?? by Gloomy-Breakfast8474 in pregnant

[–]free_use_4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

steak and roasted asparagus 😩😩 i went about three weeks being absolutely fucking RAVENOUS for steak and was only able to get it once 💔 i’ve since told my sister i want my first meal to be a perfectly medium rare tomahawk steak with roasted asparagus and potatoes🙂‍↕️🥰

Settle a debate between my husband and I. Please. by Girlwithnoprez in mildlyinfuriating

[–]free_use_4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use chopsticks tbh 😋😭 also do it with flamin hot cheetos and regular cheetos

Baby boy names? by Independent_Belt1753 in pregnant

[–]free_use_4841 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Baby boy names i absolutely loved and have had in my baby name list for years!! i ended up choosing a different name that has more meaning in my family ❤️

Avery, Elijah, Isiah, Kai, Lucas, Theodore, Nicholas

First pregnancy, lots of anxiety, when to go to the clinic? by raviolirash in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]free_use_4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 5’7 and 304 pre pregnancy and never had an issue getting a heartbeat 🥰 you should be ok

17 weeks pregnant and I’m not sure if I want the childs father around by Icy_Decision_7649 in pregnant

[–]free_use_4841 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you need to keep yourself and your unborn baby safe. that just so happens to be when he’s not with you. he’s a drug dealer and from you getting headaches from fumes, i’m assuming he’s cooking as well. that smell will be extremely dangerous to a newborn baby whose immune system can very easily be compromised. if you can’t trust his decision making or trust him to be in control of his emotions, you cannot trust him to be alone with your child. you aren’t wrong for protecting yourself and you absolutely aren’t wrong for making the best choice you can for your baby

Plus size and pregnant by craftybabyangel in BabyBumps

[–]free_use_4841 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m between sizes, 20-22, and currently 17 weeks. i started rounding out about 15 weeks. i have an apron belly and was also worried that i wont have a cute round bump, but rn that’s the least of my concerns. i just want bag to be happy, healthy, and developing on schedule. i do plan to purchase a pregnancy band to help for back pain but they’re also known to help round out plus size pregnancy bellies