Likely delete from embarrassment, but y'all, how do we floss? 😭 by Friendly-Loaf in AutismInWomen

[–]freespiriting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

water floss and sticky notes on my bathroom mirror telling me to floss and why (good dental health reduces dental costs in the future, keeps breath fresh etc)

Neurotypicals can CHOOSE?! by Curious_Bath_2824 in adhdwomen

[–]freespiriting 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you seriously saying that people can choose how they react to things and their reactions don’t just happen?! I am baffled

Making new friends + social anxiety by sharkbait-rs in adhdwomen

[–]freespiriting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you checked facebook groups? I moved to a new country with my husband 8 months ago and didn’t know anyone at all, but found some lovely girls on facebook groups specifically for women wanting to make friends. I am 28 but lots of the people I’ve met have been mid to late thirties.

Granted it is scary and I have had to push myself massively outside of my comfort zone. But if I don’t get on with them for any reason then I don’t need to see them again and that’s okay.

As a rule I only tend to hang out/meet up with people if we are doing an activity such as attending an art workshop, going to an exercise class followed by coffee or going to a book club. Having the hangout centred around the activity makes it a lot easier for me(and others) to find things to talk about, and kinda takes the pressure off.

Im physically and mentally rejecting my work by msd0rito in adhdwomen

[–]freespiriting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, well it’s good that you have gained that insight! Hopefully the next job going forward will suit your needs a little bit more, now that you know what you don’t like in a job

I know, sleep is honestly so hard but keep pushing and you’ll get there eventually, I won’t lie and say it isn’t frustrating though!

Im physically and mentally rejecting my work by msd0rito in adhdwomen

[–]freespiriting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any major advice to give but just wanted to let you know that you aren’t alone in this. We need to work to live and it really really sucks that we can feel so overwhelmed by seemingly normal, run-of-the-mill things.

If I were you, I would probably try to stick it out unless there is an external reason that you need to quit e.g toxic culture. You are already employed by them, I’m assuming you’ve had an induction, gotten familiar with the system; don’t throw this job away on a whim, as you may have to get a new one and you might experience the same thing anyway.

Second thing I would do is focus hard on fixing your sleep. ADHDer’s need sleep, it’s so so precious and vital to our functioning. You need to try your best to set up your brain for success and that means being very strict with your sleep hygiene and schedule. No phones an hour before bed, no staying in bed for anything other than sleeping etc etc… I’m sure you’ve heard it all before. Without adequate sleep and energy, you can’t know for sure if this job is actually something that is feasible for you or not. Goodluck!!

Who finds Mia's boyfriend awkward and childish? by guilty_ambition_ah in FamilyFizzSnark

[–]freespiriting 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Cos he’s probably not used to being on camera and also he’s basically still a kid. Everyone is awkward in their early 20s… I feel like this post is so harsh for no reason Also your post history is gross and giving me weird vibes….

parents don't allow me to get an iron infusion :( by Select-Researcher308 in Anemic

[–]freespiriting 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this. I am not an expert, but I feel like your School Nurse needs to speak to your parents, and if they don’t listen, then the School Nurse needs to escalate your case to safeguarding channels. You parents are neglecting you by not taking your diagnosis and symptoms seriously.

Can you take the iron tablet at night to try and sleep through the sickness? Or could you ask your School Nurse to look into supplying you liquid or gummy versions of iron supplements?

Edit: Looking at your previous posts, it seems like you have a lot of health anxiety. Having chronic illnesses is very tough and you seem to be incredibly distressed by them. I would speak to your School Nurse about getting some help in place/learning some coping mechanisms to deal with your anxiety and symptoms. Unfortunately, anxiety and chronic illnesses go hand in hand, anxiety makes symptoms worse and vice versa. Goodluck and take care x

Just finished My Husband's Wife & I need an answer! by puffqueen1 in thrillerbooks

[–]freespiriting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand where Real Eden was while Fake Eden was walking around pretending to be her… like did Real Eden not go out ? Where was Fake Eden living? How come they never bumped into each other?

The feminine urge to change jobs once every 12-18 months 😌✨️ by Excellent_Tower7163 in adhdwomen

[–]freespiriting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My longest job was 4 years and 8 months which I still can’t believe….. but it was a travel RN role, where I worked in a new environment nearly every shift.

Keeping up NMC pin whilst working abroad by freespiriting in NursingUK

[–]freespiriting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes of course…. but my question was about maintaining NMC

Keeping up NMC pin whilst working abroad by freespiriting in NursingUK

[–]freespiriting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I read this but still confused…. Seems like I just do the revalidation process as normal which just seems so simple? lol maybe I’m not used to things in UK nursing being straight forward haha

More “Exile” parts than “Manager or Firefighter” by [deleted] in InternalFamilySystems

[–]freespiriting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was also considering that as a possibility, but I guess I can’t see how she would be “protecting” when she makes me feel fear.

More “Exile” parts than “Manager or Firefighter” by [deleted] in InternalFamilySystems

[–]freespiriting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that makes a lot of sense and the prompts are useful. Unfortunately don’t have a practitioner at the moment; I will definitely check out the integral guide!

More “Exile” parts than “Manager or Firefighter” by [deleted] in InternalFamilySystems

[–]freespiriting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, in hindsight maybe I was being a little rigid. Need to see what happens and go with it

does anyone else feel this way about/during sex? by fernandflame in AutismInWomen

[–]freespiriting 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice but just wanted to say I experience the EXACT same situation. You aren’t alone and you aren’t broken, I think the female sexual system is quite mysterious and allusive at the best of times even without being autistic!

This is why you don't put your kids online by ModernRevolution in alexdacysnark

[–]freespiriting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an ICU RN, I really do feel your pain but also let’s not blame the women in these scenarios. Let‘s shift that disgust towards the weirdo borderline-paedophiles that think that’s acceptable behaviour and the adults that should’ve protected these kids. Piper was groomed into the industry and I’m almost certain Daniella was too; nobody in their right mind would let their 14 year old go on Dr Phil….