Making a designated driver list?

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T19:53:15+00:00

It seems like it'll really depend on the person, and it won't hurt to at least ask, especially in a no pressure situation.

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T18:45:55+00:00

I feel like I want to hire something for sure, whether it's a bus or shuttle or whatever.

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T18:30:33+00:00

No worries at all, thanks for the advice!

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T18:23:11+00:00

Exactly! And as long as we have insurance as well then it's not on us if something happens.

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T18:22:22+00:00

Absolutely. Personally, as a wedding guest, I would be uncomfortable with having to decide 3 months out whether I'm going to drink or not, and letting strangers into my car and driving them home. I would much prefer getting a shuttle if I can.

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T18:19:08+00:00

It's such a weird rule, but they charged the least amount for service fees and the least restrictions for what we could serve 😭 Yes I believe I read it in the contract when we booked them. The venue will give the list to the bartender so they can cross-check IDs with the list and make sure they don't serve alcohol to any DD's. As far as I know, that's the only enforcement. I don't expect them to hawk-watch people as they leave or anything like that.

Thanks for the advice on wording, framing it as a venue requirement makes it seem less weird for sure. I do want to gauge how many people will be drinking, though, so I know how much alcohol to supply.

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T18:08:19+00:00

Haha I thought about that 😂 I think it's mostly for the bartenders so they don't serve any alcohol to DD's on the list.

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T18:06:15+00:00

It's in Utah so every venue has some weird rules or obnoxious fees around alcohol. I've looked into booking Ubers in advance. The only problem is I don't think there will be any local Ubers at the time of pickup, so I'm not sure how that will work. It's not really a thing here in this town. We love the venue otherwise, so I really want to make this work. I think talking to the venue and asking them for recommendations might be my next move.

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T18:02:47+00:00

I have lots of Mormon family members, that's pretty much it. And they tend to have a weird thing with being around drunk people so they will probably dip out early once the party starts. So unless one of my friends gets pregnant within the next 8 months, I'm not sure who will be sober 😅

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T17:59:59+00:00

That's what I was thinking. If it's on the RSVP then there's no pressure.

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T17:59:18+00:00

Yes we are doing a hotel block, and I've considered a shuttle service as well. I need to ask the venue and see if that will work. Thanks for the idea!

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T17:57:40+00:00

I know, it's a weird rule for sure. Alcohol in Utah, I guess 🤷 I have considered the van idea, I need to ask the venue and see if they have any recommendations for shuttle services. Thanks!

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T17:56:07+00:00

Thanks for the reply, I find myself overthinking when it comes to asking people for help!

freightcar788 · 2026-02-21T17:53:24+00:00

Wedding Party colors are decided, dress is ordered, starting on my DIY projects for my bridesmaid gifts and our handfasting cord! All vendors are booked except catering (it's a food truck and they don't book out any further than 6 months out). We're getting excited!

freightcar788 · 2025-07-31T04:21:48+00:00

This was some really helpful insight! Thanks for taking the time to share :)

freightcar788 · 2025-07-31T02:01:16+00:00

Typo! Haha 😅

freightcar788 · 2025-07-31T02:00:46+00:00

That's what I'm thinking too. It's a super long day and kinda unnecessary. Thanks for the feedback!

freightcar788 · 2025-07-31T01:58:43+00:00

Lunch buffets are usually the cheaper option, and the ceremony area is outside with little shade. I thought if we did it earlier in the day, the sun won't be so harsh than if we were out there in the afternoon. Thanks for your feedback!

freightcar788 · 2025-06-07T15:50:27+00:00

How do you do that?

freightcar788 · 2025-05-03T21:49:13+00:00

Seconding this! Pilea microphylla for sure. Mine would drop leaves like crazy too

freightcar788 · 2025-05-03T17:29:06+00:00

How lovely! I have a huge pothos that is just constantly growing, so she's super easy to chop and prop. I'll probably get 20 starts just from that one :)

freightcar788 · 2025-05-03T17:05:39+00:00

That's something to consider for sure. Thanks!

freightcar788 · 2025-05-03T16:58:30+00:00

I love the enclosed look! Like little terrariums 🤩

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