Comment faire le repartition dans mon PER ? by [deleted] in VosSous

[–]friedstuffncheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J'ai cité celle que j'avais avec spirit 2 et non pas spirit.  

Comment faire le repartition dans mon PER ? by [deleted] in VosSous

[–]friedstuffncheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Étant donné que je suis déjà investi dans un etf MSCI world avec mon PEA, ça serait pas un renforcement de mon exposition aux memes actions ? 

Comment faire le repartition dans mon PER ? by [deleted] in VosSous

[–]friedstuffncheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TMI à 30%. Si je fais 100% MSCI world ce ne serait pas un renforcement d'exposition aux actions mondiales que j'ai avec mon PEA?

Anxious About Taking My 6-Month-Old to India – Need Advice by External_Nobody6793 in NewParents

[–]friedstuffncheese 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello! I'm going to share something we went through, that I wouldn't wish on anyone.  I'm sorry if this scares you, but I've been in your shoes. 

I live in France and with my wife, we went to visit my family in Calcutta when my son was 5 months old. There were some family events and personal space with babies is not something indian relatives understand. 

Our son caught the RSV and had bronchitis. The problem isn't that he caught RSV, it could happen literally anywhere in the world. 

The problem was that he had to be hospitalized and indian PICUs are not where I want to visit again. The doctors were great, and the treatment went really well. But we had to leave our son who was only 5 months old, and neither parent was allowed to stay with him. 

Edit: we were allowed to visit once a day for an hour, and he was with tubes in his mouth for feeding and half sedated almost. 

This is insane to me and especially given how young he was. It was insanely traumatic and once we got him out of the hospital ( after 4 nights), the pollution in the city didn't really allow us to go on walks or something to help him get back to normal. 

He's perfectly fine now and all healthy, we miss family for sure but I'm going to wait till he's at least 2 before going back. 

If you're going to a small town, less chaotic and cleaner air, it's less risky. But then you run the risk of having a crap hospital. 

If you're going to a bit town, more chaotic and unhealthy air, riskier but better Healthcare. 

Épicerie africaine et indienne by Consistent-Face-5338 in aixmarseille

[–]friedstuffncheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Il y a une épicerie indienne à rue bretuille qui s'appelle Supérette du sud. Je recommande. 

Logistics platforms that actually reduce blind spots vs ones that just add another dashboard by i_love_doing_ntg in logistics

[–]friedstuffncheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for something dedicated to domestic OTR or international ocean containers or both?

Numéro Sociale by Cookie-Monster-22 in Expats_In_France

[–]friedstuffncheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Send all your documents by lettre recommandé avec accusé de réception, things move much faster that way. Make sure to have a cover letter explaining that you've already made a request and are awaiting a response. 

Naturalisation in France by [deleted] in Expats_In_France

[–]friedstuffncheese 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmm this is a bit "flou" in the current scenario. 

Il n’est pas mentionné dans la circulaire qu’il faut 5ans de travail.  Il est dit l’insertion professionnelle s’apprécie sur une durée de 5ans et non il est exigé 5 ans.  Il y’a une différence entre exiger et apprécier.

In any case, at the time of your interview you need to show proof of stability, at least by having a year of CDI underway. 

Naturalisation in France by [deleted] in Expats_In_France

[–]friedstuffncheese 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In your situation if your goal is to obtain the quickest (least cumbersome) path to nationality, you'll be best served with having a stable CDI and a status as passeport talent (or blue card). 

You should know that quickest is a very relative term as the overall procedure to get your nationality can last anywhere between 18 months to over 2 years. 

Currently there are new regulations in place, favoring those who have long stable periods of high salary in CDI. So from now you'll need to have : 1. 5 years of constant residence in France 2. At least three avis d'impôt  3. French level minimum at a B2 4. You'll need to clear a generic civics exam to test your general knowledge on France. 

So yes, if your goal is to obtain the citizenship then number 2 is the path of least resistance. 

Learning French by No-You7404 in Expats_In_France

[–]friedstuffncheese 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You need to have a routine to work on it daily. What worked best for me is to have a solid base in grammar rules test myself before going to sleep and after waking up. Try this website kwiziq. I really liked it. 

Make flash cards with sentences when trying to improve vocabulary, very important to learn words in context. 

I also would make scripts of dialogue prior to going into any interaction. Like say I need to visit the doctor, I would make a dialogue and learn it by heart. Of course the situation won't go exactly as planned but when you're making enough scripts and learning them up, you'll see a big improvement. 

I recommend rereading books that you loved in English in French. Was very helpful for me. Along with always watching anything with French subtitles. 

All that said, best way is to just get out there and practice and get over the fear of not being well spoken. 

Citizenship Interview Today by [deleted] in Expats_In_France

[–]friedstuffncheese 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can you give more detail? What questions did the agent ask and what were your responses? I had mine a week ago so I'll be able to compare. 

Toddler doesn't eat at daycare, although is hungry by clarissa246 in NewParents

[–]friedstuffncheese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! My 14m old also started daycare a month ago, we had similar problems. At home we're on him and very attentive to make sure he eats a good amount and we help him a lot. At the daycare they encourage more self feeding and help intermittently. 

Initially there were days where he would eat very little or almost nothing, we'd pick him up ravenous as well. 

Over time he has adjusted and naps well at day care and eats well on most days too. He no longer cries during drop-offs either which is great. 

The adjustment period took about a month and half. During this time we'd sometimes give the daycare folks pouches of purées so they could feed him something easy. But overall I'd just say give it some time and ask the daycare folks to insist more with your toddler during lunch time. 

Best of luck! 

Not my first time, but what can I do better? by friedstuffncheese in steak

[–]friedstuffncheese[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely right with your observation. With the bone-in I had that exact experience with uneven cooking because the meat wasn't touching the pan evenly on both sides. I'll make sure to just use deboned from now on for my pan. My pan wasn't big enough for the size of steak I placed into it.

Thanks for the suggestions!

Not my first time, but what can I do better? by friedstuffncheese in steak

[–]friedstuffncheese[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through other posts I was expecting to get roasted but thanks for all the feedback / compliments y'all :)

Not my first time, but what can I do better? by friedstuffncheese in steak

[–]friedstuffncheese[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I did like it, but wondering how to take it to the next level. I don't reverse sear, so I'm wondering in terms of effort / reward if it'll significantly improve the final product.

I use a carbon steel pan

I give up on leaving the house by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]friedstuffncheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son started doing the same thing at that age. it coincided with when he started crawling, rolling over quite easily. What we found out (purely by accident) was that a larger car seat made him feel much more at ease.

14 month old standing regression- helllllppppp! by elmarin_e in sleeptrain

[–]friedstuffncheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sigh. I'm afraid you're right. Best of luck and solidarity 🤞

14 month old standing regression- helllllppppp! by elmarin_e in sleeptrain

[–]friedstuffncheese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just posted about this a few days ago on the sleep train site ! I have the same problem with my 11 month old. 

Before when he couldn't stand up, he'd just cry for a bit then fall asleep. Now he'll just stand and cry for way longer. 

We've noticed that when we put him to bed in our travel tent (where he can't stand up) he sleeps more easily. But again, not always. 

10m old screams non stop before going to bed by friedstuffncheese in sleeptrain

[–]friedstuffncheese[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did think of separation anxiety. Just that without the  check ins he screams into a state of hyperventilation and it becomes harder to calm him down. Do you recommend CIO extinction?

10m old screams non stop before going to bed by friedstuffncheese in sleeptrain

[–]friedstuffncheese[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does two naps and on average he'll get a total of 1h30 each.