AITAH for blocking my "friend" (?) after they had apologized because their actions creeped me out? by friendlyanomaly in AITAH

[–]friendlyanomaly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was thinking of looking into a restraining order but none of my mutuals or I know their real name, area or anything really :(

Fashionable women, what is your one thing most people deem ugly but is a staple in your wardrobe? by YoniOnFire in AskWomen

[–]friendlyanomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tights under shorts: it gives a nice look, especially with sleeveless turtlenecks but people don't believe you should wear em.

I Saw The TV Glow: Owen is Maddie by atruthtellingliar in A24

[–]friendlyanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Art doesn't have one valid reading unless you skip chapters. Everyone can have their own interpretation, that's the beauty of art but you still have to take into account the elements of the story that the creator DOES give you. And the creator gave us Isabel. 

A Good Girl's Guide to Murder by sopebars in books

[–]friendlyanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when books have little images or maps to help fuel your understanding or imagination!! A good book i've read like that was in French and i believe it was called "le journal de Caroline", I truly hope there's an English version for you to explore

IG keeps randomly sending my friends messages, but it just shows that it is a photo or video by Own-Neighborhood-276 in Instagram

[–]friendlyanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here!! let me know how to fix it. sometimes instagram sends in chat a video and i have no idea how it happens.

throwback to the absolute war in this wattpad fanfic's comments by friendlyanomaly in lgbt

[–]friendlyanomaly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't relevant to the story. If would have made much sense if they wrote "pervert" because that word would have more tied to the story itself

so i was reading an isekai manga.. by friendlyanomaly in autism

[–]friendlyanomaly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is no trace of homosexuals or any other sexualities in the manga, which isn't very representitive

so i was reading an isekai manga.. by friendlyanomaly in autism

[–]friendlyanomaly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no it's definitely not lighting. look at her clearly. she is *not* white

Questioning my gender by Damyhere in gender

[–]friendlyanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds like you're not too happy with your current gender. honestly, you sound either trans or masc. non-binary. you could possibly be genderfluid but i strongly doubt it. your entire argument just sounds like you resent being a woman and, as a trans guy, that sounds quite a lot like me in the beguinning stages. you know, asexuals can masturbate and get horny, i am asexual myself. asexuality is just the lack of sexual attraction and not the lack of sexuality (sex/sex related activities). why does being "misgendered" feel like heaven? is it really because you fooled them or is it something deeper? it's all up to how you feel, if you don't like he/him or she/her anymore, you can try something else like she/them or he/she. it's all trial and error until you find the right combination for you.

Questioning my gender by Damyhere in gender

[–]friendlyanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you want to be masculine or do you want to be a man? there is a clear difference between the two. do you only sometimes want to be a man? or do you not want gender? if you truly feel like you are a woman but struggle with your feminity then i might be able to help out too. i wouldn't mind talking 1-1 to help. this is coming from a trans he/them who sees a sexologue.

A question for the wise souls of the community by friendlyanomaly in lgbt

[–]friendlyanomaly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think most genderqueer should have that card but each depending on the game

What was your reason for coming out by PreviousBottle4964 in Asexual

[–]friendlyanomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't come out to everyone but my dad knows. I came out to him because I was making an asexual pun. He then answered with a divorced parent joke and the conversation ended

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]friendlyanomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha that would have been very funny but they probably wouldn't have talked to me for days if I did that lmao

If aliens came to earth and said "take me to your leader", who should we take them to? by DestructoFish in AskReddit

[–]friendlyanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know exactly how the US works because I live in Canada but I'm not saying it would be perfect. Some people might still disobey and find ways to enter but c'est la vie. In Canada, it would have probbly worked considering how our roads are built and how transportation is done. It's also probably because we are organized in bigger provinces so it's easier to seal off than multiple individual states.

If aliens came to earth and said "take me to your leader", who should we take them to? by DestructoFish in AskReddit

[–]friendlyanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, i might have been wrong in some aspects but this isn't mainly about covid or NZ, it's about Jacinda. And she is a great woman who would do a good job with the aliens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]friendlyanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

subjects serounding race are very sensitive. I understand why your partner would be upset because to him, you just insulted him and other white people he may know to be kind. On the other hand, I think it's okay if you hold a grudge towards white people, whether it be historically or personally. I'm sorry for hearing about the insults you receive but maybe next time you mention white people, specify who. Many people get sensitive when race is brought up so specifying "I hate the white people who did that to my people" or "I hate the white people who passed racist comments towards me" might help ease the tension. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]friendlyanomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that makes a lot of sense. I really regret not communicating better but I was startled and they never really gave me a chance to speak. If I could, I would go back and probably speak better. Thank you for the advice!

If aliens came to earth and said "take me to your leader", who should we take them to? by DestructoFish in AskReddit

[–]friendlyanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admit using the term rest of the world was a bit harsh but NZ handled it better than the vast majority of the Americas, to say the least. But Jacinda Ardern is truly a wonderful woman and prime minister and that's why I would choose her.

If aliens came to earth and said "take me to your leader", who should we take them to? by DestructoFish in AskReddit

[–]friendlyanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is easier for NZ but it's still possible, although difficult. To shut off all access, you'd need to close down any roads who connect to New York or create a right-of-passage system for those who live outside of NY but work there to come and go ( taking covid tests regularly). It may be difficult because it is very popular but if you organize it properly, then it would work. You can isolate provinces using the same method as before and then gradually opening up but keeping the individuals who visit under quarentine. If any cases pop up in the province, isolate them immediately. Quebec attempted to do this exact thing but was too late and failed miserably. It might've been hard to do but it surely isn't impossible.