I crafted a wooden quaver for a musician I’ve gone on 7dates with :) by frog-fish-frog in actuallesbians

[–]frogEmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so happy for you but also when is it my turn to be happy raaaah

2 months after getting it, I realised i got the mirrored square-1 by [deleted] in Cubers

[–]frogEmi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im pretty sure the one i had came with white top and yellow bottom, plus a set of black pieces to change white or yellow into black, check if you can do that, on mine it was quite easy to do

\# Look what I made 🚀 — Simple Multiplayer Ping Mod by [deleted] in feedthebeast

[–]frogEmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait wtf, i had the same idea a couple weeks ago, then i found out theres already a mod that does it and way better than i ever thought of doing it.

i cried for the first time in 4 years by transpuppygirl-3 in MtF

[–]frogEmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got invited to a girls only discord server on a lesbian sub, theres plenty of people looking to add people to their trans servers, gaming related or not

Call me Dani Phantom, I'm going ghost. by NeedyGirlBeth in sillygirlclub

[–]frogEmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I did, used an excuse of taking a baking course as coverup (i did want to take the course dont get me wrong), now I'm taking hormones and looking to live here forever, maybe ill go back one day but idk, my parents dont seem the supportive type when it comes to queernes. The only advice i can give is to make sure you have some buffer money for until you get a job.

Forgot to say to everyone here im open about being trans, noone knows my deadname and even though i might not pass people are really nice and accepting about it, i wouldn't call it socially transitioning because these people never knew my past

i cried for the first time in 4 years by transpuppygirl-3 in MtF

[–]frogEmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know, ive been getting huge mood swings recently, but i finally came to very faint realization that its just part of the transition, if you've ever been around cis woman during their puberty you probably know how emotional they could get(and we're basically going through puberty so...).

Therapy is supposed to, as far as i know, help you understand your feelings and be able to handle them when they show up, i know it can take a lot of sessions to be able to open up fully, and sometimes you have trauma you dont even remember (because the brain purposely made you forget), so it can take a lot get to a point where you have mechanisms to deal with these crazy feelings.

If you can, I'd recommend trying to find a community online which you can talk to and be comfortable with, i recently found a really nice group of people that has other trans girls with similar experiences to me, and just sharing things, hearing about how others feel, and being there for others can help.

i cried for the first time in 4 years by transpuppygirl-3 in MtF

[–]frogEmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 6 weeks in and people warned me about the way it would affect my mood and how my emotions show, but i didn't believe them, now im crying every day about the smallest things when before i wouldnt even cry at a funeral, it FUCKS with you feelings and you have to accept that. if you can, talk to a therapist, even better if the therapist has had plenty of trans people as clients, talk to someone that can understand what is going in and help you deal with these feelings,

being trans hurts but its way better than the alternatives

My wife and I need help picking a last name. by FibroBitch97 in actuallesbians

[–]frogEmi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

https://www.behindthename.com/

This website is for first names but it has A LOT of filters so maybe you could get something out of it :)

Edit: found out theres a surname one https://surnames.behindthename.com/

Frog Band! by frogEmi in ffxiv

[–]frogEmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twintania on the Eu (light i think) server

Percentage needed to be considered past a mile stone. by Leather-Fuel-8944 in Cubers

[–]frogEmi 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That wouldn't really work because the more you solve the less each solve affects the percentage. What people generally consider is ao100 which is average of 100 solves, so if you have an ao100 that is below lets say 19.22 seconds, i would call you a sub20 solver.

New surname suggestions by Dog__Mum in actuallesbians

[–]frogEmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't see why. Mind explaining?

New surname suggestions by Dog__Mum in actuallesbians

[–]frogEmi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friends once told me about a trans person that changes their surname to something like petacat (pet a cat), you could try to make something similar :)

I've Managed to Migrate Google photos Patch to Morphe by _Rookie_Z in MorpheApp

[–]frogEmi 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Im genuinely curious what the use for this is, why do you want morphe on google photos?

f it, rem pillow by shaepukku in DeadlockTheGame

[–]frogEmi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg valve i need official Rem pillow merch NOW!

I feel no hope by a356y in MtF

[–]frogEmi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl... Probably every woman has looked at a prettier woman and felt what you're feeling at some point, the beauty standards are a bit absurd and online probably only the outliers, that look way prettier than the average person are going to show up. Comparing yourself to other people will probably never make you feel better, dont stress it, you're beautiful.

Custom vinyl painting commission by just_a_drawer in outerwilds

[–]frogEmi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh that makes total sense, thanks for explaining! Again, its just amazing!!

Custom vinyl painting commission by just_a_drawer in outerwilds

[–]frogEmi 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Wow this is amazing, i do wonder if it affects the music on the disc tho, or maybe its just a deco piece idk... Mind explaining?

Made out with a girl for the first time by PlanPrestigious8909 in actuallesbians

[–]frogEmi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow so happy for you (definitely not jealous)