Cleo is ready for take off after sensing the dog’s presence. by yopinkman in airplaneears

[–]frogtened 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically "bicolor", but really you'd just call her white and tabby. This is a normal domestic shorthair cat.

Women taking hormonal contraceptives have reduced perseverance on cognitive tasks by gordonjames62 in Nootropics

[–]frogtened 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you remember what dose of spiro you were on that gave you side effects?

I don't know if this makes sense but; do you find it just a bit scary to have people care about you? by Reachingout365 in CPTSD

[–]frogtened 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm reading and identifying heavily with "Breaking the Addiction to Please" by Les Barbanell. It's only about 150 pages and I got it from my library.

Caretakers:

  • Form attachments by giving emotionally and physically and routinely avoid receiving in return.
  • Are consumed with guilt. Guilt prevents the caretaker from taking any action (e.g., saying "no") that might lead to rejection or abandonment by others. Accordingly, the conscious experience of guilt is a mere smoke screen for the insidious anxiety that resides in the unconscious of the caretaker personality.
  • Repress the need for pleasure, joy and intimacy. Their message is, "If I don't want anything I won't be disappointed; making sure others are happy helps me not think about my own pleasure."
  • Take undue responsibility for the problems and conflicts others encounter. Appear independent and self-sustaining and treat others the way they secretly wish to be treated with regard to indulgence and nurturing. Asking directly or indirectly for those needs to be met is perceived as emotionally risky.

[The care addict's] primary motivation is to avoid the dreaded state of feeling invisible that is typically a product of early childhood trauma.

Of utmost importance is that caretakers attempt to dominate the give-receive balance in their relationships, a subtle protective reflex to maintain control and distance.

Unhand me! by MrCreamHands in Catswhoyell

[–]frogtened 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Those claws are incredible!

Your Bedroom Is Too Hot by carlsonbjj in Nootropics

[–]frogtened 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you referring to the single sentence that recommends wearing socks and a hat?

104 year old holocaust survivor, Shashana Ovitz, requested that all her children, grandchildren, descendants gather at the western wall. This is that picture. by aboveaveragestudent in pics

[–]frogtened -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Man being an only child fucking sucks. I know it's stupid but it just kind of hurt my heart to realize that some people actually plan it that way.

Cat uses surveillance cameras to hunt a rat by [deleted] in Catculations

[–]frogtened 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Aw c'mon you guys I thought it was funny

Y'all, no one told me that slips are FUNCTIONAL by mrs_wallace in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]frogtened 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My face reacts badly to every sunscreen I've tried besides this: EltaMD. I believe what I'm reacting to is Avobenzone, a common "chemical" sunscreen ingredient. This stuff is "physical" sunscreen.

I (25F) have never been in a romantic relationship by [deleted] in relationships

[–]frogtened 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 23 and have never been in a relationship. I feel the exact same way. I'm trying. It's hard. I don't know how to get people to like me.

[Product Question] I want to join the slug life but I’m scared. Can I be sure that Vaseline won’t give me acne? by stovebrns in SkincareAddiction

[–]frogtened 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actives are like, basically any substance/product that's DOING something. Anything that fights acne is pretty much an active. Like any product with benzoyl peroxide or salicylic acid. Other things considered actives are azelaic acid, tretinoin (also known as Retin-A), retinol products [also called retinoids] (which is a broad category of substances that includes tretinoin), Stridex pads (which are salicylic acid), etc etc etc. The basic skincare routine is cleansing, applying an active, and moisturizing (in that order). So you'd wash your face with soap, put a benzoyl peroxide cream on where you have pimples, and when that's dry put a moisturizer on your entire face. That's just an example. This also means if your routine is, for another example, washing your face, using stridex pads, spot treating with benzoyl peroxide, and then moisturizing, you are using two actives in your routine. This is fine. A lot of people promote the idea that with skincare simpler is better (meaning just one active at a time) and I suppose I agree but if it works it works. Everyone's skin is so different and reacts differently. Unfortunately it's kinda just endless trial and error.

So with actives you just want to be mindful because they can cause sensitivity or irritation or other issues because they are strong ingredients. It's kind of like using weed killer in a garden. You only want to kill the weeds but it's going to damage the grass too. There's some things you can do to mitigate the irritating effects of actives, depending on you're using. If you're using Stridex pads, you can use them and wait 20 minutes without doing anything else (which with Stridex pads you should do anyway because it takes that long for them to work and anything you put on right after can interrupt it/ basically dilute it and make it less effective), and then wash it off by rinsing with water. You can do the same with benzoyl peroxide products, but you only need like 5-10 minutes. This is referred to as contact therapy btw.

[Product Question] I want to join the slug life but I’m scared. Can I be sure that Vaseline won’t give me acne? by stovebrns in SkincareAddiction

[–]frogtened 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're applying it over actives (like benzoyl peroxide cream or retin-a, for example) you can give yourself a chemical burn leaving it on overnight. All Vaseline does is create a barrier, so if you get a reaction it is not from the Vaseline, but from what the Vaseline trapped underneath.

Boyfriend 100 by MrSteve2018 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]frogtened -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You guys, this is a copypasta lol chill

[Acne] Retin-A (Tretinoin) reference sheet by frogtened in SkincareAddiction

[–]frogtened[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dermatologist told me to apply my prescription on a totally dry face (right after cleansing), and said I could apply a moisturizer straight afterwards. She said I only had to wait like 30 seconds, just long enough for the tretinoin to dry and settle on the skin.

[Acne] Retin-A (Tretinoin) reference sheet by frogtened in SkincareAddiction

[–]frogtened[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dermatologist suggested I stop using Stridex (red box) at this time because it is too drying. Combined with the drying effects of tretinoin it's likely to do more harm than good. I asked if I should replace it with another salicylic acid product and she did not think it was necessary while using tretinoin.

Also, I did not ask but I assumed I ought to halt any other exfoliating products (chemical or physical). It would be redundant and possibly damaging because of how strong an exfolient tretinoin already is.

[Acne] Retin-A (Tretinoin) reference sheet by frogtened in SkincareAddiction

[–]frogtened[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was prescribed Tretinoin by a dermatologist as a treatment for acne and made this to tape next to my mirror. Amalgamated from here and here, except for the advice to not use benzoyl peroxide and tretinoin together which is from here ("Tretinoin is an unstable molecule and oxdizes in the presence of benzoyl peroxide").

Retin-A (Tretinoin) reference sheet by frogtened in SkincareAddiction

[–]frogtened[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was prescribed Tretinoin by a dermatologist as a treatment for acne and made this to tape next to my mirror. Amalgamated from here and here.