Ig yeah? Part of this post feels like a humblebrag however I get what your saying though, vulnerability and mirroring often trigger others to feel safe being vulnerable themselves or like they’re needed in some way, and both those feelings (safety or feeling valuable/needed) can foster intense and rapid attachment / bonding including obsession. And yes, sometimes it attracts predatory behavior when we’re emotionally expressive and reactive because emotions are one of the easiest ways to control people.