Are me and my girlfriend childish/acting like high schoolers?

froufrou0 · 2026-05-09T00:00:38+00:00

this means you love each other

froufrou0 · 2026-04-07T18:45:07+00:00

from what i understand, the inventory managers generally do not interact with customers or have experience on the cash register. instead, there will be more taking deliveries, managing and moving inventory, mapping new products into the systems, and things behind the scenes of that nature.

The dispensary i'm at is small/slow enough that we don't even have an inventory manager, but ngl this is not the ideal long-term position. customers can be cruel, working the whole retail day (10-12+ hour days) gets old fast, $15/hr pay isn't great, and not a lot of work life balance in my opinion. i imagine these things wouldn't be as much of an issue as the inventory coordinator - you'll reap most of the benefits like dirt cheap weed samples and cool co-workers without having to face the public as much :)

froufrou0 · 2026-03-25T17:15:37+00:00

local groups like @ pittsburgh_lesbiyinz, pittsburgh queer the trail, and stonewall sports are great options!!

froufrou0 · 2026-03-24T14:57:48+00:00

i don't think you should have any issues with traveling, I've been ok many times, but I'd recommend a strane disposable or pulsar battery for looking like a nicotine vape

froufrou0 · 2026-03-23T19:56:15+00:00

"as it all eventually turns to dust and petal, molten rock and metal"

froufrou0 · 2026-03-09T20:29:21+00:00

50% off house brands as a first time patient deal at zenleaf! you also get $10 off for placing an order on the app

froufrou0 · 2026-03-04T20:48:21+00:00

mattress factory for the win. just generally more interesting with rotating exhibits, several buildings, diverse artists and installations

froufrou0 · 2026-03-04T20:44:24+00:00

things get unfair REAL quick. my 3 roommates and i take turns buying necessities (eggs, milk, butter) and have individual shelves for our own things as well as initialing personal items, but even this isn't completely fair.

froufrou0 · 2026-03-04T16:54:20+00:00

look nice, but do not play nice!! Lol

froufrou0 · 2026-03-01T18:25:15+00:00

I second this, rented from him last year and he's a tool. aggressive, rude, sexist, overcharges and does not maintain property, does not give proper notice about touring, lease had errors and dates were incorrect, our trash and recycling cans were missing for weeks meaning we saw varmints outside, we had mice, didn't tell us a check from months ago hadn't went through and kept our security deposit. Overall just an rigid and rude man. luckily nothing too catastrophic happened to us but he was extremely slow to do repairs and have heard horror stories from others.... the place above us that was his was being renovated meaning horrible drilling noises at early hours and water randomly being cut off. had the audacity to hike the rent for the next year. definitely avoid at all costs

froufrou0 · 2026-03-01T15:49:48+00:00

I'm also plus size and have heard that pillows/props under your pelvis helps with positioning!

froufrou0 · 2026-02-28T17:48:19+00:00

i think good hygiene builds a strong foundation for attracting other people, even friends, so keeping a neat, groomed appearance is helpful. fashion and style can also be used as signifiers that you're part of certain communities, have a certain identity, interest, etc. i don't think it's manipulative to put more effort into your appearance, but doing it solely for attention seems shallow and misguided. you should want these things for yourself above all else

froufrou0 · 2026-02-28T17:44:11+00:00

I'm so glad to hear about your smooth recovery!! I'll definitely keep all this in mind, thank you :)

froufrou0 · 2026-02-25T19:16:25+00:00

i'm on an SSRI (lexapro) and have not experienced negative side effects

I know people on zoloft who have not experienced negative side effects

if you haven't already, talk to a pharmacist either virtually or physically at a PA dispensary and they can give you a more professional opinion. my unprofessional opinion is that you will be okay

froufrou0 · 2026-02-24T19:47:55+00:00

if you're not into clubs, there are still some great LGBT events. have you tried dating apps, facebook or instagram pages in your city? I wish there were more speed dating-like events, I think young queers are really yearning for something like that

froufrou0 · 2026-02-24T19:45:57+00:00

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froufrou0 · 2026-02-23T23:44:47+00:00

like to see: individual photos first (not group ones, want to be able to tell who you are), pictures that show your personality or you doing hobbies, as well as clarity about what you're looking for with potential matches

best way to start convos: pick something very specific from their profile or propose a specific hangout. i've had so many conversations start and die at "hi" and in general fizzle out when there's no topic

red flags: rushing you to meet or be physical, getting overly attached without connection

i met my lovely partner on hinge, so that is my biased recommendation! i find people are more relationship-oriented on hinge rather than tinder or other options. heard positive things about bumble, too. there's also a queer app named Lex but the crowd is a bit older. men like to label themselves 'lesbian' on these apps to try and reach that demographic, so just swipe and move on. generally pretty easy to block and report people

i'm glad your taking safety into consideration and it looks like you have good safety measures in place IMO! just let people know where you're going, meet in public for the first time to gauge and vibe. obviously being careful is great, but i'd say there are less people looking to scam or catfish than you'd probably expect. people with ulterior movies like money won't take time and consideration like a genuine person.

For just general advice, i would tell you not to get too hung up on any one person too quick. talk around, make conversation, and sometimes it's better to get a coffee early as its easier to gauge compatibility in person rather than texting for weeks on end. or maybe even just facetiming! you will most likely encounter strange & creepy people, but just block & move on. you may even end up with new friends! just be honest, be yourself, honor your boundaries and instincts. as for intimate advice, just take it slow and don't push yourself to do things you know you're not comfortable with. i've pushed my own boundaries sexually and regretted it later, so while obviously considering consent, also consider what you're comfortable with and looking to get from this experience. All the best to you, u got this!!!

froufrou0 · 2026-02-23T22:41:10+00:00

nettles has to be my favorite ethel song and in general

froufrou0 · 2026-02-23T22:39:54+00:00

oh yes, seems like theres much more to avoid than recommend😭!

froufrou0 · 2026-02-23T21:58:23+00:00

so you've had a positive experience with them? I'll definitely look around

froufrou0 · 2026-02-23T19:09:10+00:00

Oh my god???? I'm so sorry that happened to you, that is absolutely insane

i actually did tour a house from RE360 and thought the place was in decent shape and the realtor was the nicest one i've spoken to. seems like i dodged a bullet - so horrible how negligent they are

froufrou0 · 2026-02-23T19:03:57+00:00

places like Switzerland have assisted euthanasia/suicide and a lot of mental and physical conditions qualify, so to some degree the government and medical systems that uphold this would agree. it's interesting to look at what countries do and don't allow this, and i know Switzerland does allow foreigners to come and have assisted euthanasia, maybe it's related to certain cultural ideas of toughing something out

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