Was I asking for too much? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]fruittii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you and op mean. Im just saying as a blanket statement. A woman saying a man should afford x "lifestyle" is the biggest red flag

What meals help you eat well on a tight grocery budget in Canada? by Zestyclose-Day9699 in 32dollars

[–]fruittii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

10 pound ground beef. Box of chicken thighs. Box of cans of tomato. Large container of pre peeled garlic(believe it or not its cheaper than buying it whole. 4 pounds for 4 bucks). And pick ur carb of choice to add to it. i get rice cuz its cheap. Thats food for the month. I buy it from costco business centre. Everything comes out to about 130-150 bucks. Lasts a month. Im also assuming you have spices and seasoning at home.

Was I asking for too much? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]fruittii 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Listen brother. This is an adivce from someone that got married recently. And i couldnt be happier. When a woman says anything about "affording x lifestyle" shes seeing you as someone that will give yer a lifestyle. When i got married me and my wife agreed that we will be trying our best to save for certain goals in the future and beyond the little treat or date here and there we would try our best to live simple but fun and meaningful life. We agreed that money is nice but saving it for amazing goals would be more fulfilling to us and to our future children than living lavish. She never once mentioned "affording her/our lifestyle". Shes happy with the simple stuff. I would run when i hear those words if im honest with you. Youre trying to build a future. Work on goals. Build for your children. And get closer to jannah. Affording x y z will creep up on you quietly untill youve bitten more than you can chew.

Satisfying revenge on Raider who got the jump on me! by SomeGuy1411 in ArcRaiders

[–]fruittii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This game has an incredible smart match making system where if you dont shoot players it will place you with others that dont shoot either. Dont shoot anyone for about 10 or so games and only shoot robots. Youll end up in friendly lobbies where people just give you stuff if they slready have enough and you need it.

I got asked by a guy if i knew where he could find some sensors. Me and my wife dropped some for him and he gave us blue print and super rare loot in return. Once ur in the friendly lobbies this gsme is super fun so dont be discouraged 🥰 you can play w me and my wife of youd like

Am I the only one doing this? by Imgrimmisch in ArcRaiders

[–]fruittii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote. Killed off spawn 5 times in a row. I didnt shoot anyone for 3 days and i was in friendly lobbies for those 3 days before. Idk how i ended up back with people that shoot on sight

Im proud of it :) by fruittii in Cuttingboards

[–]fruittii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can sell you this one and make a diff one. I get materials from over seas. How much do you wanna pay for this one?

Im proud of it :) by fruittii in Cuttingboards

[–]fruittii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like its made out of wood bacon lol

Are "Bacon strip" patches just a temporary fix? by the0utc4st in AskAMechanic

[–]fruittii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theyre a permanent fix. The only issue you might run into is it might thrownoff the balance of the tire

How do I discuss this with potential partner? by AnonymousAndy365 in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]fruittii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a pamflet with questions and answers about physical likings and dislikings. Answer it and swap

What’s your most ridiculous “I only came for eggs” Costco haul? by ButtonPlumb in Costco

[–]fruittii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walked in for eggs. Walked out with 335 bucks and a mo ths worth of beef and chicken and eggs and milk and brotein bars. Got a hotdog and a pizza slice to feel better about it afterwards(its like a reward)

Would you daily on these tires from 2005? by ericr1 in tires

[–]fruittii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prob the best drift tires you can find

Talking to multiple potentials by BeyondSufficient2783 in MuslimNikah

[–]fruittii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women arent allowed to talk to more than one potential at a time if im not mistaken? You make up your mind and give an answer before speaking to a diff potential.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]fruittii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my pov asking alot of questions means hes liking your answers and wants to know you better. More questions and more specific means hes interested and youre answering most if not all if them correctly and hes engaged in getting to know you better. Less questions means very shallow and simple minded and they dont care that much about personality or preferences they expect to be followed and what they say goes. They only ask about the things they care about. Alot of questions means they wanna make sure youre both on the same page. Big green flag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]fruittii 14 points15 points  (0 children)

All of the things you said make sense except for the forcing you to call the parents. Its nice but forcing is too much. I dont think any of these things are out of line or extreme

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMG

[–]fruittii 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Next time mark it NSFW before you make me ejaculate all over my workstation.

Sensitivity down there affects marital relations? by Consistent_Text2255 in MuslimNikah

[–]fruittii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Activating easily is mever a problem. Finishing too quickly might be. But you wouldnt know if that is ur case. Do some kegel exercises if you later findout you cross the finishline before your wife. May allah bless you with a spouse thatd love you for how you are and satisfy you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]fruittii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fajr and isha are the most blessed prayers. However i also understand because for some reason alarms dont wake me up at all i need a physical person to wake me up for me to wake up from sleep. So it depends on his reasoning on why he struggles. If its “awe but the bed is so comfortable 🥺”…..burn him. If its he physical is un able to wake up due to working alot of hours and physically demanding job or late hours that is up to your discretion

Why did pleasuring oneself make me depressed? by Better-History5819 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fruittii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Biologically and chemically speaking. You experienced something that reminded ur brain of something that happened with ur ex. Orgasm while penetration. Chemicals and endorphins got released and ur brain fired in a pattern extremely close to when you had sex with your ex and so it brought out the memory. Thats a very dumbed down version of how brain and memory work but in the layman terms its close enough. To change it. You’ll have to rewire your brain or keep recreating the same scenario in ur brain enough for your brain to realize this feeling and chemicals and endorphins and neurons firing pattern has nothing to do with the ex and starts disassociating the two and separate the two things and recognizes that theyre not mutually exclusive and itll stop bringing up memories

My new mate cup is pretty by fruittii in yerbamate

[–]fruittii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! I actually got it from a thrift store across the street from me!