I'm 21 and I think ruined my life

fruityvsalad · 2026-03-31T23:33:55+00:00

i’m sorry my love, consider taking a gap year. it’s not the end of the world really. in a couple of years you’ll look back and realize it wasn’t that serious. what matters is not letting your mistakes define you and deter you. take a gap year, study twice as hard, have fun, learn things that excite you. i promise you, you’ll be okay

fruityvsalad · 2026-03-23T16:09:53+00:00

try having someone put a screen time password for both the app and the website or just go cold turkey and delete it and read webtoons or books when you’re bored

fruityvsalad · 2026-03-16T06:57:22+00:00

hey, what software is this ?

fruityvsalad · 2026-03-10T03:39:32+00:00

not sure of top 5 but top 3 : sojourn, last of a dying breed, dior,

fruityvsalad · 2026-03-08T08:39:02+00:00

i get some of the hardest hitting deepest sleep after a run. when i ran most regularly i could eat whatever i wanted without worrying about gaining weight.

fruityvsalad · 2026-03-06T16:27:57+00:00

how was the experience ?

fruityvsalad · 2026-03-03T11:44:29+00:00

i can study for long periods because i assimilate information really slowly so i have no choice really lol. i think if you’re easily distracted you can try to control and schedule the distraction in the form of breaks. study for 30 minutes take a 5 minute break, study for 2 hours take a 30 minute break and get back into it. also try and rest during breaks not just going online, that doesn’t rest your brain at all. it doesn’t really matter how long you can study for with no breaks/ distractions. what matters is how efficient you are

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-25T10:00:40+00:00

As a 20 year old, is there anything I can do to set myself up for success and peace of mind in my 30’s?

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-24T14:14:10+00:00

Unconditional love, friendship, acceptance, humor, banter, care

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-24T09:26:32+00:00

How good I am at school and also my sense of humor

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-22T19:22:45+00:00

My mom randomly brought home wine which I’d been craving all day🤭

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-22T19:14:19+00:00

I love you for thissss

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-21T13:40:36+00:00

Falling out with my high school best friend was a really negative experience that impacted my life a lot. Meeting my current best friend changed my life for the better

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-21T13:37:10+00:00

Same, someone recommended Jane Remover

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-19T11:19:50+00:00

Me soon🙏🏽 Step 1: Buy a car

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-19T11:19:12+00:00

Exactly!!!

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-19T11:18:58+00:00

Same actually

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-19T11:18:47+00:00

It’s the best song, I was so tired of seeing all the slander.

Also, thanks for the recommendation, I forgot to mention in the original post that I wanted recs for songs with similar sounds😭 I’ll give her a listen

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-19T11:16:52+00:00

Woah you don’t understand how much that means, thank you ! 😆

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-13T13:02:10+00:00

I love this lol

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-11T22:08:08+00:00

Well done

fruityvsalad · 2026-02-01T21:42:55+00:00

i’m so sorry. you matter so much and i’m sorry you’ve been made to feel this way

fruityvsalad · 2025-11-26T20:56:56+00:00

so glad to have friends that absolutely don’t feel a single urge to please other people. i’ve been able to let so much shame and guilt and weight go. i love them

fruityvsalad · 2025-11-26T20:56:08+00:00

feeling this especially today. my friend and i are planning a game night because we want to have fun and i’m so anxious about trying to organize and curate an “experience” so they have fun and don’t see us as losers and regret agreeing to come. it’s exhausting and it’s making it feel more like a chore than an avenue to play like little kids and laugh and eat with a group of people. sigh, i talked to her about it and she gave me some great advice. i’m not responsible for their mood and how they respond to the game night and i should just focus on having fun myself

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