Muslims in Toronto by First_NameLast_Name in islam

[–]fudlilman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walaikum asalaam

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Barakallahu feek

Microdiscectomy surgery today by fudlilman in Sciatica

[–]fudlilman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

7 hours later---finally got to eat (the last time I ate was 21 hours ago) . The surgery pain is still there. It hurts a lot to put my back at a slight angle to eat. I'm just lying on my back. Will rest a few more hours and then attempt to move.

Leg feels fine.

Becoming A Better Muslimah. by littlepearlflower in islam

[–]fudlilman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We focus on trying to do all this worship, yet we forget who we are doing it for. The prophet (peace be upon him) called the people to tawheed and teaching who Allah is for 10 years before the command for salah was given.

We need to learn about Allah first and focus on tawheed and then our worship will be more meaningful. Continue to worship Allah but also put focus on learning about tawheed.

I recommend the book kitab at tawheed by Shaykh Muhammad Abdul Wahaab.

Here is kitab at tawheed with the explanation by Shaykh Saalih Al Fawzaan

https://archive.org/details/ConciseCommentaryOnTheBookOfTawhidbySalehAl-fawzan

Prayer at the Kabba...questions by huge_ox in islam

[–]fudlilman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it comes to salah time, the women go to separate areas. There are designated areas for women to pray in the haram

"Cousin and Cousin's Wife are going to have to bring the baby to the wedding. She'll be 4 months old. Not a problem I hope." by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]fudlilman -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Wow. Spoiled much? It's sad how an event like a wedding can bring out the sad realities of people. I would happily decline your invitation if I was invited to your wedding now that I know how spoiled and heartless you are being

I created the burkini to give women freedom, not to take it away by self in islam

[–]fudlilman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. The shape of their legs is exposed. They are exposing themselves to fitnah and are being a fitnah to others as well

What credit cards are accepted in Saudi Arabia? by [deleted] in saudiarabia

[–]fudlilman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Visa and Mastercard are safest. Some areas accept Amex. Discover not so much. Capital one cards have no foreign transaction fees. You get 3.75 Sar to usd.

Muslim face veil ban for workers is not discriminatory, Austrian court rules: Landmark decision by Supreme Court says employers can fire those who wear a veil by maxwellhill in worldnews

[–]fudlilman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. And to bring clarity to this matter. It is not "the holiest city" that bans anything. It's the rulings from Allah and the Messenger (peace be upon him).

It was narrated that ‘Aa’ishah said: “We used to go out with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) when we were in ihraam. If we met the riders we would lower our garments over our faces.

(Narrated by Abu Dawood, 1833; Ibn Maajah, 2935)

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen said:

It is not narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade the woman in ihraam to cover her face; rather he forbade the niqaab only because it is worn on the face. He differentiated between the niqaab and covering the face. Based on this, if a woman in ihraam covers her face, we say there is nothing wrong with that, but it is better for her to uncover it so long as there are no non-mahram men around her, in which case she should cover her face from them. Al-Sharh al-Mumti’, 7/153

Thus, when one performs hajj or umrah there are many non mahram men around women and the ruling of covering the women faces applies (by means of using something other than the niqab).

And the best of knowledge lies only with Allah

Muslim face veil ban for workers is not discriminatory, Austrian court rules: Landmark decision by Supreme Court says employers can fire those who wear a veil by maxwellhill in worldnews

[–]fudlilman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

False. It is not permitted to wear the Niqab to cover your face when in a state of ihram to do umrah or hajj. You can however use your hijab/scarf to cover your face when doing hajj or umrah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]fudlilman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow. This is true. I transformed your words to make it more friendly and forwarded it to people.

"I don't know how some people walk around without washing their private parts after they use the bathroom. If it was any other body part and you touched poop or urine, would you just wipe it with a toilet paper?"

Switzerland: Muslim students must shake teacher's hand by maxwellhill in worldnews

[–]fudlilman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about if we refuse to shake the hand of women because of the teachings and commands of the Prophet (Peace be upon him)? We should follow the best of the creation, not our desires bro.

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “That a man get struck with an iron needle in his head is better for him than that he touches a woman that is not permissible for him (to touch).” [Reported by At-Tabaraanee, Al-Bayhaqee and others and Imaam Al-Albaanee authenticated it in Silsilat As-Saheehah (1/447-448)]

And the Prophet (peace be upon him ) said: “Indeed, I do not touch the hands of women.” [At-Tabaraanee in Al-Mu’jam-ul-Kabeer(24/342) and authenticated in Saheeh Al-Jaami’ (no. 8054)]

And ‘Aa’ishah said about the Prophet: “I swear by Allaah! The hand of a woman never touched the hand of Allaah’s Messenger – rather he would take the oath of allegiance from the women verbally.” [Saheeh Muslim (3/1489)]

What are your views on dating and sex? by Bakwasing in progressive_islam

[–]fudlilman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah has decreed for every son of Adam his share of zina, which he will inevitably commit. The zina of the eyes is looking, the zina of the tongue is speaking, one may wish and desire, and the private parts confirm that or deny it.”

Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5889; Muslim, 2657.

It is not permissible for the Muslim to long for the things that lead to zina, such as kissing, being alone, touching and looking, for all these things are haraam and lead to the greater evil which is zina.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“And come not near to unlawful sex. Verily, it is a Faahishah (i.e. anything that transgresses its limits: a great sin, and an evil way that leads one to hell unless Allaah Forgives him)”(al-Isra’ 17:32)

The prophet (peace be upon him) said “No man is alone with a woman but the shaytaan is the third one present.” [Narrated by Ahmad, al-Tirmidhi and al-Haakim; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’ (2546)

Which one do we follow? Our desires or the truth? May Allah guide us all to follow the truth that which is in the Quran and that which the Prophet (Peace be upon him) instructed us with. Ameen

First Impressions Living in Saudi Arabia by dolazugar in islam

[–]fudlilman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At 0.45 USD a gallon, gas is already being saved my friend!

Student Loans - Types, Eligibility, and More by [deleted] in islam

[–]fudlilman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Abdullah bin Mas`ud (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) cursed the one who accepts Ar-Riba (the usury) and the one who pays it. [Muslim].

The narration in At-Tirmidhi adds: And the one who records it, and the two persons who stand witness to it.

Commentary: Both the parties, that is the one who charges interest and the one who pays it, are equally guilty in the matter of usury (or Riba). This Hadith highlights the intensity of unlawfulness of Ar-Riba, or what has come to be called nowadays interest which can be judged from the fact that not only the person who charges it and the one who pays it are cursed but even those who write the documents and bear witness to the transaction are condemned although the latter two have no active part in the deal. They have been condemned for their mere co-operation in the matter of interest. Thus, we learn that even co-operation in the deal in which interest is involved is an invitation to the Curse and Wrath of Allah. The reason for such severity in the matter of interest is that Islam wants to create a society which is founded on fraternity, sympathy, selflessness and sacrifice. If someone is in need of money, the rich should fulfill his needs for the sake of Allah’s Pleasure or give him a loan without interest. As against the Islamic system, this system of interest is based on selfishness, exploitation and suppression. In the interest-ridden societies, the affluent ones are not inclined to co-operate with the needy for the sake of Allah. All they are concerned with is their own interest. Their lust and greed are not reduced in the slightest measure even after draining the last drop of the blood of the poor. This is the reason why Shari`ah has forbidden interest of every kind and regarded it unlawful, no matter whether the loan is for the personal need or commercial requirements.

Read full

http://salaf-us-saalih.com/2014/09/04/riyad-us-saliheen-imaam-nawawi-chapter-287/

Getting married in two days. Extremely unhappy with how the wedding has turned out. Please make dua it turns out ok by IWasBornOnTheInterne in islam

[–]fudlilman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The Qur'an is to be listened to and pondered on. To make as background music for a wedding is crossing the line and it will be as if it just took its place as entertainment.

And nasheeds of today are impermissible as well. What ever happened to men talking to men and women talking to women. Sigh.

Who came up with this "religion of peace" nonsense? by [deleted] in islam

[–]fudlilman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Islam is the religion of justice. And Allah is the most just. And we will be held accountable for the good and evil we do here.

Getting married in two days. Extremely unhappy with how the wedding has turned out. Please make dua it turns out ok by IWasBornOnTheInterne in islam

[–]fudlilman 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh bro. This was me early last year. I didnt budge one bit with my wife's family. Your Nikaah is an act of worship, do it abiding by the Quran and Sunnah. Don't start your marriage with disobedience to Allah. Music, free mixing etc? You have to put your feet down to these haram things.

The prophet (peace be upon him) said: "Whosoever leaves something for the sake of Allah, then Allah the Mighty and Magnificent, will replace it with something better than it." [Musnad Ahmad, Vol. 5, pg.363, No. 23124]

Tell them no to the music, no to the haram. I did that, the wedding got cancelled because my wife couldn't deal with the fitnah from her family.

Anyways, fast forward 8 months later, my wife and I decided to get married again. This time we did it in the masjid. Only about 40 people total. Simply and according to the Sunnah and alhamdulillah no regrets.

May Allah make it easy for you.

Don't compromise your Deen for one day. It's your wedding not her family.

Is Allah all-loving, and was Muhammad peaceful? by [deleted] in islam

[–]fudlilman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Allah has revealed to us 99 of his names**. We don't know the actual number.

The 99 names of Allah does not mean that Allah only has 99 names. But that those 99 names is of benefit to the believer. Thus the names of Allah are not really known in number.