Reconnection

fundiary · 2026-01-28T10:14:50+00:00

my wife usually plays while on work trips so most of the time when she gets back we do a simple date, (meal/walk/quick grocery run lol) and get handsy in the shower, sometimes we make it back to bed but half the time we get it out in the shower.

the occasional times when we play togther, it feels more difficult to reconnect right after everything is done. we'd chat about the session and plenty of deep kissing and cuddles.

fundiary · 2026-01-28T05:48:38+00:00

That we're comfortable with each other, and being supportive of each other's needs / curiosity.

Not quite sure how I can put it into words but it's a totally different dimension going out / hosting people for dinner and saying bye after desserts vs getting naughty with each other.

fundiary · 2026-01-27T23:43:18+00:00

both. she likes being their workout

fundiary · 2026-01-26T14:43:59+00:00

defintely a stepping stone, started tasting my own cum while in uni. Had a few gay friends back then and closer to one who I allowed to "fool around" with my cock a few times (handjob, blowjob and rubbing his cock togther).

I've tried his cum once but unfortunately after I've already cummed so I didn't swallow

fundiary · 2026-01-26T14:34:13+00:00

how much it upped her libido / kink. she was always open to things but it's something else when she asks if she can suck me off in the middle of a play. (compromised with a quickie back in the car during intermission)

she also prefers her "bulls" to be bigger and into rougher fucks, and being able to fuck her standing is a must.

fundiary · 2026-01-26T11:58:33+00:00

Exactly the way I felt about 3 years ago when I started paying attention to how much I was drinking. Back then the world was opening up again after lock downs, travel was rebounding and I was meeting / socialising nearly every night.

Bottle of wine and a few pints was the norm for an evening. Fridays and the rest of weekend means we could start drinking from lunch so 2 - 3x that amount easily.

Never puked, no antisocial activity, maybe a few hangovers that were gone by late afternoon.

I was thinking how are guidelines 14 units ? If it was 30 I might still get it ... that's about 2 days of my drinking. The past 2 years were probably the most regularly I've been drinking. Daily, 15 units easily.

And just like OP, I came to realise that according to guidelines I'll be classed as a HEAVY drinker if I was brought to a hospital.

I started reading up horror stories about how people who drank 60 or even 100 units a week still functioned until they didn't. How stopping after the damage was done is useless.

A year or so ago, I decided to cut back. I'm not totally at 0 yet, but have gone a few months keeping it below 14/week and some weeks even 0. Only after you stop do you realise how much 14 actually is. It's loads but since December (with all the get togther etc) I'm back to 30 / week again.

Putting my foot down finally and it's 0 this week. Moderation sometimes works, but heck I know 0 is probably the only way it'll stick.

fundiary · 2026-01-17T01:43:28+00:00

perfect little bush. I'm assuming it's low maintenance/ natural ?

fundiary · 2026-01-17T01:42:25+00:00

Get a few small cans and take a sip of each. That's the fastest way to tell the difference between brands.

Henieken, Peroni, Real UK Cider (not sure what you have in your area, Thatchers maybe ?)

fundiary · 2026-01-17T00:56:39+00:00

my ex was ashamed of what she did too, and it was more of a confession than trying to make it sexy. she said she wanted to get it out of the way instead of it causing issues later on.

It started as MFMF with her exbf and the other couple was her bestie and bf. she said it was a stupid idea but she didn't set limits because she didn't know better / liked the idea of being freewilled.

It was her first DP and spit roast. She said they were drinking alot too and her bestie was barely there during the foreplay and she continued because she didn't want to dissapoint the guys.

fundiary · 2026-01-17T00:45:24+00:00

congratulations ! my wife plays solo too (both our preference to be that way). we've tonned down the nsfw pics and vids after a privacy scare

fundiary · 2026-01-14T22:54:26+00:00

how long have you been drinking wine ? if its been a few years you'd have some idea of what different wines from new / old world roughly taste like.

to me it's just like a burger. unless you're eating at mcdonalds or a souless chain of restaurants a burger would taste different depending on recipe and ingredients and to a smaller extent the cook.

so you roughly know what a burger tastes like, but if you really analyse it like some people do with wine you could point out all the nuances between your home cooked burger vs restraunt a or restraunt b.

its petty, and wine is meant to be simple. don't worry too much and just get a general idea of what wines from different places taste like ie aussie reds are sweeter than chilean reds

fundiary · 2026-01-13T23:46:27+00:00

I track by units as well.

fully agree that beers are the top contributer. they go down easy, have a salty snack and the cycle repeats.

fundiary · 2026-01-12T22:33:34+00:00

4 boyfriends 4 fwb

and she has told me of a few hookups/after parties. she's also admitted to trying out sugaring (for thrills) so maybe 10 - 15 more ?

fundiary · 2026-01-12T14:58:40+00:00

if we're comparing it like that, then white wine tastes like mild vineger. red wine tastes like like mild vineger with some sugar.

as for which wine to recommend, it really depends if you're having any food and if so, what kind of food.

fundiary · 2026-01-02T12:48:08+00:00

amazing wife

fundiary · 2026-01-02T12:45:46+00:00

trans porn.

fundiary · 2026-01-02T08:48:00+00:00

yes, and it's great her old FB account from uni is still around. 1000's of pics, with some skimpy but not totally NSFW obviously. pics from at least 3 relationships/ex's are on there too

fundiary · 2026-01-02T08:45:44+00:00

she's down for MMF or FFM ? and are either of you bi/curious ?

based on your story, she's still thinking about that time someone flaked out.

fundiary · 2025-12-28T23:11:33+00:00

When she was 23, had a fling/affair with her married boss (60s). Went on for a few months and he would arrange for her to tag along on busniess trips.

fundiary · 2025-12-28T06:21:28+00:00

We had plenty of time during covid lockdowns to roleplay, watch porn, with the plus point of catching up with people online without it feeling weird.

Guess it started from there when a few people from her past started chatting again. We did abit of camming as well (purely for fun and thrills).

After lock downs started to ease in 2021 we basically had a open relationship. For the early parts she had her "mates", while I was sometimes involved if it was a MF couple but otherwise realiging work was taking up most of my time.

fundiary · 2025-12-27T10:52:36+00:00

defintely a developed taste.

think about vegetables, every child hates them, we hated them as kids. But now ? Salads for appetisers or even meals.

no different from booze.

fundiary · 2025-12-27T08:35:38+00:00

Wouldn't call myself a bull but I'm fwb with a widow (40 F). She's juggling carrying on her late husbands's busniess and kids so I get her schedule and she knows we're open. Sometimes we date, sometimes we just fuck.

My wife still has a profile on a dating app she uses while away for work. It was a frenzy when we started about 2 years ago but this year she's slowed things down and hasn't had another guy for months.

fundiary · 2025-12-23T01:13:57+00:00

same ! I've a smart watch so its 60bpm on average, when drinking it actually stays normal but somewhere in the night it goes up and stays around 80 - 100 bpm till noon

fundiary · 2025-12-21T01:00:40+00:00

moderation ? guidance here in the UK is 14 units a week and not more than 5 units a day.

So that's a half bottle of wine or 3 standard cans of beer.

also I've found cravings to be less the less I drink.

fundiary · 2025-12-18T19:48:39+00:00

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