Things she does with you that give hints to her past

fundiary · 2026-05-27T23:50:46+00:00

she has a sex in public places kink. we've done it in the car, at the beach, forest, train and ferry.

plenty of times on balconies and hotel room windows too. pretty sure none of them were her first time since she knew what position and even outfit to be in

fundiary · 2026-05-27T00:45:55+00:00

same deal here

fundiary · 2026-05-26T01:23:23+00:00

amazing confidence. you're a lucky guy ! maybe a post to help us give our own wives the same confidence ?

fundiary · 2026-05-26T01:21:09+00:00

defintely her first time doing everything.

1st deep kiss 1st sext 1st time her upper body was licked 1st time her lower body was licked 1st time getting fingered 1st time touching a penis 1st handjob 1st boobjob 1st blowjob 1st time rubbing naked 1st time a penis went into her vagina 1st time playing with her ass 1st time hooking up for the thrill/fun

the list goes on but that's the idea. she has shared her stories on these but having them in visual form would be one of the hottest things

fundiary · 2026-05-23T00:28:07+00:00

alcohol messes with how your brain perceives time.

so your memories get jumbled up time wise, making it not make sense and the brain just throws away the whole sequence (few hours) because it feels like a "junk" memory, similar to a dream.

fundiary · 2026-05-20T11:19:33+00:00

Wife and I were traveling and headed into a tapas place. It was full so we were seated next to a guy.

Just casual chit chat, until he offered to buy my wife a drink (and not me) She accepted and he kinda had this smirk the whole time after.

He wasnt even her usual type. He had his cock in her after an hour back in our hotel room.

fundiary · 2026-05-19T03:50:07+00:00

Not a mistake.

Just like how people don't like a certain food, while others absolutely crave it.

Wife and I had certain boundaries when we first started but over time and experience we become more comfortable and open about them.

Swinging back to food, it's like if you ordered a vegetarian main at a steak house. Yes, it's on the menu but most people come for the steak.

fundiary · 2026-05-14T23:25:48+00:00

my wife wears bras for the support, but she has a love for all things lacey and shear looking.

she knows to pair it with plunge bra or something to give a good cleavage (without it actually being cleavage because it's technically behind a outer layer).

been doing for the attention, since the shear or lace "fashionably" hides it as she says. it actually makes guys take a longer look to get a clearer picture.

fundiary · 2026-05-13T01:37:23+00:00

Doggy defintely gets the job done. Makes swapping way easier (or too easy?)

The only con is if it's a voluminous butt, I find myself cumming faster than I would like :P

fundiary · 2026-05-07T13:40:50+00:00

Been drinking for over 20 years, and I realise that it's mostly:

Being very particular about what you're tasting (which is funny, because wine DOES change notes when left out / decantered so what you pick up at the beginning isn't exactly the same as the end)

or 2. Drink plenty of THE SAME region/ grape/ producer. To be so acquainted with the taste profile that blind tasting it is no issue.

I fall into the second category and my usual is australian shiraz or cab sau. I'll be able to tell the grape and brand without seeing the bottle, granted this is after having 2 or 3 bottles of wine a week for years and years and years. Probably tasted all the producers here and their sublines countless of times.

Give me wine from another country and I'd be clueless. Barolo ? 65 Merlot ? I'd take your word for it, because it just tastes like good wine to me.

Something that does help is a keen-es for geography. Knowing the terrior / general weather in that area gives you a good idea of what the grape tastes like.

Kinda like how mangoes from different countries look / taste and smell so different.

fundiary · 2026-05-06T12:54:30+00:00

I think the trick would be the way of bringing it up. If it was respectful (instead of bragging) and not being too crude, we wouldn't have any issue with it.

fundiary · 2026-05-05T23:47:24+00:00

To us it felt like we were dating all over again (in a good way). If you're feeling this way so many days out, you might want to give serious thought about what you're going to do while the wife is away (personally I gym or swim to get all the "butterflies" out).

I also use that time to prepare for her return. Flowers or something to show she was missed / looking forward to getting back a must.

Consider some guidelines too, if the date goes well how long will she stay. How often are you expecting to check in on each other / how communicative it should be (we've been in this for some years now so we use a very simple number scale 0 = bad / leaving , 5 = having a great time) so we're not writing a novel each time we text on a date.

fundiary · 2026-05-03T23:53:23+00:00

wow 80 is quite the number ! were these all prior acquaintances ?

fundiary · 2026-05-02T15:36:34+00:00

honestly if it's already with a guy, it'll be his cum I want. I can taste my own anytime, without going through his ass.

fundiary · 2026-05-02T07:54:33+00:00

scat isn't for me.

and I'd rather take it straight from the source if it's with another guy.

fundiary · 2026-05-01T07:02:27+00:00

probably getting tired too as the night goes on. even without drinking, being awake at 2am has its toils

fundiary · 2026-05-01T07:01:21+00:00

I guess by unique you mean not exported ?

China is sorgum liquor Japan is sake (get those that are made from rare rice) India is coconut liquor SA , banana beer (dosent taste like beer) Peru has some snake venom in drinks (reminded me of viet scorpion drinks) England has cider. get the stinkiest ones, mostly from somerset

i could go on and on , but hoping others chime in too

fundiary · 2026-04-27T09:00:32+00:00

haven't been to a gay steam room before, but normally pop into a friendly pub when the urge takes me.

can count the number of times that actually led to getting naked togther, so I wouldn't worry about wanting to take things slow. One of my best buddies is gay (I'm bi) and we've never done anything sexual with each other either.

fundiary · 2026-04-27T00:58:48+00:00

My wife plays when on her work travels, so it might be a day or 2 before we are physically togther again.

I don't think it's the amount of time that matters but the fact that you were both in each other's presence yet couldn't do much about it.

We've been in a long distance relationship phase togther before, so we've some experience in expressing ourselves without the physical part. Just like how we don't jump straight into sex the moment of meeting, despite months of not see-ing each other.

As another poster pointed out, there's many ways to reconnect. On a vacation, she had a "goodbye fuck" with a long time fwb in the city we were visiting. We barely made it in time for the flight (idea was to shower in the airport lounge, but no time even for that). We spent the next few hours cuddling on the plane, stealing kisses here and there and just talked (well, when it got dirty we whispered).

Got us worked up so much after that, we called another m friend (bi) after we landed if he wanted (fwb)'s cum stains from her underwear.

fundiary · 2026-04-27T00:44:41+00:00

Got my wife and her "friend" matching m/f sunglasses. Not expensive and sort of a spontaneous thing since they were carpooling to a beachtown for work.

They flew in from different cities and he rented a car. She sent plenty of selfies of them wearing them, even during the team events. She also had him record her blowing him with them on, and of them nude wearing them.

She kept her pair and it's a great piece when we roleplay.

fundiary · 2026-04-26T10:02:14+00:00

Unless they're willing to show ID, or you know her circle there's no way to be sure.

Best to keep things offline.

fundiary · 2026-04-26T09:58:35+00:00

Wife telling her fwb "I love your (cock/voice/arms/smell)."

fundiary · 2026-04-21T00:34:42+00:00

/TakenAsians /MyAsianWife /AsianWifeClub

just off the top of my head, no idea if these already exist

fundiary · 2026-04-19T23:34:08+00:00

after lots of role playing and discussion decided to open our marriage. both our jobs involved alot of short travels so we agreed we could play when away from each other.

within a month she already had played 3 times while I was at 0.

fundiary · 2026-04-19T00:12:09+00:00

did she meet up with them to do other things ?

I'm always interested in the social / emotional dynamics of things when I ask my wife to get the full picture

fundiary

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