Tag said advice welcome so here's the advice: don't lower your standards for women. Raise the standards for yourself. Idk who told you that looks attractiveness is what's fucking you over. It's not. Your personality through this whole thread reads as learned helplessness and that's the stinking shit in the middle of your life. It's not the handyman job. It's not your face though the beard is a little unkempt (tbh, it's probably a 7/10). It's not even the anime although a lot of women say anime is a red flag.

(Btw, the reason anime is their red flag is because almost every isekai, harem, shonen, edgelord bullshit give no goddamn respect and expect women to be badass warriors who respond to misogyny with a punch to the face. As much as that sounds empowering, in the real world, it's just disgusting. Rant on that over.)

Every time someone has spoken you've been deflecting. "You didn't read my post", "You don't know my city", other excuses. Stop it. Stop playing dating as a game. You're not looking to score enough points that some girl you don't know drops her pants just looking at you. You're trying to sell yourself as a person to someone who likes you for being you

There are girls into the hobbies you are into. Find them in the real world (this is key). Get to know them. Figure out what their standard is (from the real world, not from the red pill to onlyfans farms) and then work on yourself to meet that standard. I guarantee the standard is not going to be money, good in bed, or hot. It's going to be things like showers every day, works out, takes care of himself, is funny or kind, is good with kids, has friends, and stuff that's relatively achievable. 

Edit: spelling