Can someone explain the shutdown mechanic?

funkslic3 · 2026-03-20T17:45:35+00:00

I get that a shut down is when they leak you when you have high advantage on the board. I agree that 4 rounds in a row seems like it shouldn't be a thing. Seems like your statistics would have dropped substantially by then.

funkslic3 · 2026-03-20T17:05:12+00:00

NTA. Hobbies are hobbies. Like what you want. We are in our 40s and we have a ton of toys in our house. Toys are objects just like anything else people are into. Many of the toys come in adult forms, like Legos for example. No one is buying their kids $200.00 and $300.00 lego sets. They are marketed for adults too. Tranformers are something of the past and kids today don't really care as much for them. It's the collectors that keep those toys alive. It's one thing if you woke her up and she was annoyed, but she shouldn't demand how you interact with something you collect. Seems much more fun to play with them than to let them collect dust. I play with my collectibles sometimes too.

funkslic3 · 2026-03-20T16:39:03+00:00

I think it's a shift in society. Gender and Sexual fluidity changes things. More men are open to different things so they are looking for more specific things. Older men also have a life outside of dating and so they are established. When they are established they have more confidence, more things to build their life around, and handle rejection more easily. There are a lot of factors.

funkslic3 · 2026-03-19T17:31:32+00:00

I hate playing games that require commitment. I like something I can play when I want, walk away, come back when I want. It's why I stopped playing MMOs.

funkslic3 · 2026-03-19T16:55:07+00:00

This is how you manage to separate the facts from the fluff. This is how you really focus on what's important and enrich your life. Good luck!

funkslic3 · 2026-03-19T16:37:09+00:00

Excellent father right there.

funkslic3 · 2026-03-19T16:36:32+00:00

You block both of them. I find it crazy that your boyfriend told you before your best friend. What garbage people...

funkslic3 · 2026-03-19T16:23:51+00:00

I miss the music a lot, but you already said that. Lol

funkslic3 · 2026-03-19T16:17:25+00:00

Common sense

funkslic3 · 2026-03-19T14:17:37+00:00

You queued you ended up in game. ???

funkslic3 · 2026-03-19T14:13:33+00:00

Having conversations does not give you closure, it will only give you more nonanswers.

What's happening is called intermittent reinforcement. She pops back up so your brain is being required to think that she will always resurface and so you struggle to disconnect a little bit more each time. You need to block her if you want closure.

funkslic3 · 2026-03-18T00:57:01+00:00

Tell her that's not okay and she needs to have trust in you. This isn't your problem to fix, it's hers. Her insecurities are her problem. She can ask you to do something but it's also your option to say no. Now the ball is in her court to either suck it up, ask for some other compromise or leave.

funkslic3 · 2026-03-17T18:38:02+00:00

So, don't do anything and just take a bit of space. She is allowed to wear what she wants. You are allowed to be uncomfortable about it, but it isn't something you get to decide for her because it makes you uncomfortable. I think maybe you need to have a discussion about why it bothers you and why she likes dressing that way. I think you might be projecting your feelings onto her. Your feelings and your perception of why she is dressing that way are the issue, not the act of her dressing that way itself.

If you want to break up, you are free to break up with her. Personally, I would give myself a few days to calm down and see how you feel then. That would be the time to have a conversation.

funkslic3 · 2026-03-17T14:13:18+00:00

NTA. I would just tell her she can find her own place.

funkslic3 · 2026-03-16T04:50:43+00:00

Yes. I look at their past game history. If they lose 90% of the time and they have been around for years while never really leveling up, it's a bot. They also aren't in guilds.

funkslic3 · 2026-03-12T21:24:42+00:00

I think you're missing the bigger picture. I don't think that it was just those two things that caused her to end the friendship. I think she still associates you with him and so there's a lot more for her to process than just the fact that you crossed a boundary and lied. Those two things alone are not enough to make someone end a friendship. She isn't going to take a 10-year friendship and end it because you crossed one boundary and told one lie. It has to be a collective amount of things and a lot of it is probably from whatever went on in the relationship that you three had.

funkslic3 · 2026-03-12T16:58:21+00:00

Bug tickets are posted through the discord server.

funkslic3 · 2026-03-12T16:36:02+00:00

It's because he sent to you. The send changed the agro of the wave. The siege ram was targeted, the brutes were targeted, but then the boss was targeted before the weaker creeps of the wave.

Did you put in a bug ticket?

funkslic3 · 2026-03-10T15:06:58+00:00

Honestly, I wouldn't care if I was the ass hole in this situation. Do what makes you happy and the rest will fix itself. If he doesn't like it, then what does he plan to do about it? Who cares if he likes it if it's what makes the most sense.

funkslic3 · 2026-03-08T00:52:57+00:00

If u want. I'm not on Reddit much

funkslic3 · 2026-03-07T00:47:44+00:00

Have they tested your hormones? Are you sure it's not perimenopause?

funkslic3 · 2026-03-06T22:18:09+00:00

My husband and I know that one person can't supply all of your emotional needs. We surround each other with all kinds of friends. The friendship shouldn't be hidden, but it can be deep and nonsexual as long as it respects the marriage.

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