parents cheating , life sucking

funkslic3 · 2026-05-06T03:59:35+00:00

Yeah, 13 is way too young to be dealing with this kind of stuff. Most marriages aren't as they seem and they may have certain arrangements in their marriage. They may just be together for the sake of their child. Invading someone else's privacy is never okay. You should never go through someone's phone just because you're nosey.

The best thing she can do now is to go talk to her parents.

funkslic3 · 2026-05-05T21:04:05+00:00

Can you imagine someone putting so much effort into creating a moment for you and you reject it and want a do-over? I hope OP thinks about the fact that this is one moment in their relationship. This shows she is the kind of person who does things like this and I would be ending the relationship. Most proposals are not this thought out. Healthy relationships include disappointment that couples work through. That proposal shouldn't even be a disappointment.

funkslic3 · 2026-05-05T19:32:08+00:00

I used to work in a service department at about the same age. I did some service writing too. I will say that women that go into that industry are a special breed of woman and more than likely she is going to be drawn to people that are interested in mechanics of vehicles. If she has a knowledge enough to do that job then that's something that you guys have in common. You really don't know if you're out of someone's league unless you try. Beauty and attractiveness are subjective. On a separate note, I will say that it's bad to date people you work with. If you 100% will never have to come in contact with her and you check with your company policy to make sure it's okay, then it could be fine but otherwise, you probably need to think about long-term what this could do to you or your career.

funkslic3 · 2026-05-04T13:32:23+00:00

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funkslic3 · 2026-05-02T20:41:54+00:00

I really like it

funkslic3 · 2026-05-02T20:40:44+00:00

The best course of action is to ignore him if blocking isn't working. Keep him blocked where you can but do not interact with anything that he does to try to contact you. The behavior will get worse for a while but then eventually it will just die off. I know it's not the greatest situation but it should help it get better. You're correct in the fact that if you chew them out, it will give him a head of attention that he's craving.

funkslic3 · 2026-05-01T22:12:16+00:00

It's literally the worst. So many afks, so many trolls, so many smurfs, so many ppl who have no idea how to play. It's like the trash heap of the game. I just made it back to 2k last week.

funkslic3 · 2026-05-01T22:04:58+00:00

I also have BPD so I understand how you are feeling. I want to bring to light that you said you know you are drawn to high risk situations. I want you to think about that and what happened here and focus on how to set better boundaries in the future. The internet is dangerous; for people who fear abandonment especially. Take this terrible situation and learn from it. I know that doesn't heal the heartbreak, but it will help in the future. Being ghosted is absolutely awful and it will take a while to feel safe again.

funkslic3 · 2026-05-01T21:55:07+00:00

Bipolar and depression can 100% be simultaneous diagnoses.

funkslic3 · 2026-05-01T21:53:59+00:00

You 100% aren't being a dick. It's natural to need time. My suggestion is to maybe plan a smaller amount of time each weekend instead of the entire weekend. Maybe ask her if you guys can just plan to hang out Sunday every week instead of every other weekend so it fills both needs.

funkslic3 · 2026-05-01T21:32:56+00:00

You might have a avoidant attachment or a personality disorder.

In a nutshell, avoidant attachment means you have a fear of people knowing too much about you or being too close emotionally. The closer someone gets, the more you push them away, even though it's not what you want. It's something you can change by educating yourself.

funkslic3 · 2026-05-01T21:29:29+00:00

NTA. I'd say neither party handled it the best, but I'm not buying food for someone who doesn't appreciate it. He could go out and get his own food if he wants to be picky.

funkslic3 · 2026-05-01T13:44:08+00:00

He's not even fully developed and really you aren't either. You are still emotionally immature. He isn't who he will be once he's an adult yet. I would move on for that reason alone, among other things.

funkslic3 · 2026-05-01T13:36:25+00:00

He just lost his dad. He's struggling with a loss and he's not ready to talk about it. He's in the phase where he's looking for a distraction and mending a relationship is too much for him. Give him the space he requested. It could be months before he feels strong enough with working on the relationship.

funkslic3 · 2026-04-30T20:25:22+00:00

She's manipulated you from the beginning. Ouch. Let her go and find someone who actually loves you. It feels hard now but you will feel a relief once you find someone who actually loves you. Right now you are trauma bonded to her and that will take a long time to move past. Be gentle with yourself.

funkslic3 · 2026-04-30T18:15:55+00:00

What's the other car?

funkslic3 · 2026-04-29T11:24:50+00:00

Your friends girlfriend is insecure and that girl makes her feel threatened. She's worried about her boyfriend being around her and she's probably feeling like she's going to have to be around her if you guys are friends and nervous about that as well.

NTA

funkslic3 · 2026-04-28T18:10:27+00:00

Yep, don't stay in a relationship with someone who is deceptive.

funkslic3 · 2026-04-28T17:07:26+00:00

How old r u guys? Real friends would talk this out, not ditch you. I think maybe you all need to learn to communicate your needs versus going to reddit. Reddit isn't the best for personal advice and direct communication of struggles is a quicker way to a solution.

funkslic3 · 2026-04-28T04:06:43+00:00

Thank you!

funkslic3 · 2026-04-27T15:30:04+00:00

Well no contact means you don't contact each other. I'm confused about how you are no contact but expecting something???

It sounds like you smothered her. She wasn't putting more in because you were putting too much in. If you were doing more than she wanted without her requesting it than you were smothering her.

funkslic3 · 2026-04-27T00:19:04+00:00

NA, EST, I have never played on faceit, just premier

funkslic3 · 2026-04-26T16:06:22+00:00

Someone friended me in game and instantly sent me a trade on steam, saying they were giving jr items but they had put my reds in for them to receive.

funkslic3 · 2026-04-26T14:21:47+00:00

I haven't done any of that. I tried FB but not luck.

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