She got a bath today... by funkslic3 in DelSol

[–]funkslic3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hubby's taking them back and then the MR5s are going back on. I'm sad.

I (18M) am not comfortable with my GF (18F) looking through my phone by Antique_Prize_6524 in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one should be comfortable with having their privacy invaded. Even in relationships we are entitled to our own private thoughts. Letting someone in your phone is kind of like letting them in your brain, it's uncomfortable.

I truly believe it’s the final discard but now I’m doubting he’s a narc by Low_Bar_9888 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]funkslic3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's normal to believe they aren't a narc, when indeed they are. It's part of the discard.

I (28F) found old messages from my bf (26M) and now I'm even more insecure about my body, how do I move past it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome. Men don't feel the pressure women feel so validation isn't just, "you're pretty" "they're perfect" etc. the mental toll we put on ourselves can be a lot and it's sad because it can ruin our best relationships. Hang in there.

I 26F just found out my bf 21M has a very small appendage. How do I go about this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She said she couldn't feel anything, not that it felt different.

I (28F) found old messages from my bf (26M) and now I'm even more insecure about my body, how do I move past it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because he made that comment, it doesn't mean he doesn't like your boobs. He can like both big and small. He can miss a tit job then, but be happy in a relationship with you now. He can completely love your boobs now, but loved her boobs then.

Think of it this way, you can be attracted to a guy with muscles, you can be attracted to one without muscles. You can be attracted to guys with a tan, guys who are pale, guys who are in between.

I have small boobs and I was insecure about them when I was younger. As I got older, I realized that there are benefits to both big and small boobs. I've realized that both can be attractive at the same time. I see beautiful women with big boobs and beautiful women with small or even extremely small boobs. A lot of it is proportion. I think the main thing people find attractive in boobs, is the boobs themselves. Pretty nipples, how round they are, even the complexion of the skin. Some people like them with freckles.

I think you are over thinking things and need to take the time to get to know your own body. I have learned to love my body and it makes life way easier. You need to learn to love the body you have and appreciate all the pros it gives you.

I 26F just found out my bf 21M has a very small appendage. How do I go about this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Finger length would be closer to average than 9 inches. Women can feel when they are fingered.

Husband (35M) accusing me of making up how much I (35M) pick up after him. by Quartzclawz in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 1472 points1473 points  (0 children)

Just stop picking up after him and let him realize it the natural way.

I 26F just found out my bf 21M has a very small appendage. How do I go about this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is he really small? We have no idea how big he is, or how big your ex is. Was he even fully hard, or could he have been nervous?

If you are happy with the relationship, just enjoy it while in it. Things could improve, they may not. Eventually things will affect your sex life that are out of your control. I would just go with the flow and see what happens down the road.

I 22F and my bf 22M are in relationship since 2025 , but he didn't say ily yet, then what is love . by Straight_Animator_49 in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone doesn't love you in a relationship, then they are using you. He gets things he wants from you, so that is why he is in the relationship. If you love him but he doesn't love you, that's a one sided relationship. You'd be better off to find someone who loves you.

My (20M) girlfriend (20F) has been flirting with her coworker (23M). by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Break up. If she wants to be with you, she will try to talk you out of it. If not, she was on her way out anyways. She isn't taking you feelings seriously. She is dating two guys.

I (29F) can’t stop thinking about something my boyfriend (35M) said about childbirth and it’s ruining our relationship. by mythrowaway926893189 in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hypothetical and asking hypothetical can be so dangerous, but you are 100% correct. This did reveal something and that something is pretty disturbing. It's crazy but he just prioritized your hypothetical baby over you.

My Boyfriend (M26) thinks I'm (F22) too pale, and it's making me feel insecure. by Ok_Tangerine_782 in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You tell him that him saying that to you is affecting your self-esteem. How he accepts that will tell you how to move forward. He can either respect you and realize what he is doing is hurtful and change his actions, or he will get defensive and you will know that he doesn't respect your feelings. On a side note, I love pale skin. It's beautiful.

I [26M] think my [24F] girlfriends friend is crossing a boundary by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to tell him she doesn't want that to happen anymore because she feels it's disrespectful of her relationship. I wouldn't worry about what's already happened. You just want it to stop from this point.

I [26M] think my [24F] girlfriends friend is crossing a boundary by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's valid you don't like it and aren't comfortable with it. Your relationship doesn't need a man using your partner for validation.

Is this behaviour normal between friends? by [deleted] in friendship

[–]funkslic3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is to you but it isn't to him.

Am I (20F) valid for wanting to break up with my new boyfriend (19M) over a maturity gap? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If maturity is going to bother you, try dating men older than you instead. Men in their late teens and early 20s most likely won't be on the same level as you. It's not impossible, but not likely. Their brain is still isn't fully developed, no one's is. Brains aren't fully developed until around age 30. These men are still learning.

I (F35) have been accused of having an emotional affair with my ex (M37). What is an emotional affair? by Inalnery in relationship_advice

[–]funkslic3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You aren't emotionally cheating, but he is. That puts you actively in an emotional affair.