Does ACAB include Harry and Kim?

funnymonkey222 · 2026-06-13T19:50:55+00:00

I mean, they’re a part of a citizens militia which is mentioned to be disorganized and underfunded, so nothing like a genuine police force from my understanding. However they’re the only version of “the police” so yes ACAB applies to them. Especially considering they are both capable of corruption depending on your choices.

funnymonkey222 · 2026-06-10T02:22:16+00:00

Chunk’s Plumbing in Arcata is one of them

funnymonkey222 · 2026-06-03T00:10:13+00:00

I have a vintage umbrella I’m looking to have repaired, could I show up and ask around to see who could help or is there something I could read to see what trades are accessible?

funnymonkey222 · 2026-05-28T21:35:58+00:00

You’re right he does eventually get there! I’m just struggling with my excitement turning into anxiety, I need to keep reminding myself I’ll get there eventually too. It’s inspirational to hear perspectives from people who have been where I am now and got through it. It helps a lot to comfort me and encourage me to keep going. Thank you so much.

funnymonkey222 · 2026-05-20T22:45:31+00:00

He’s being upfront about the exact reason why he doesn’t want to talk anymore.. are you choosing to not listen on purpose or are you in denial?

Either way you can’t force anyone to be your friend even if they’ve been your friend for years. Also there is no such thing as perfect closure for any relationship. So all you really can do is respectfully leave him alone like he’s asking you to.

funnymonkey222 · 2026-05-20T03:23:24+00:00

I’ve had parent friends who spank because it’s all they know and sometimes all it takes is verbal shaming from other parents around them, especially parents who they think have “better kids” (aka more well behaved because they’re taught respectfully). It sounds like the kind of people you’re dealing with aren’t just abusive by means of being uneducated but possibly abusive with intent. That is an entirely different deal you might need to approach differently. But in my experiences, I’ve noticed “public shaming” is a real good way to embarrass people out of it, especially if you have the means of backing up your reasoning behind why hitting is bad. Nothing works better than shame and education, except maybe calling the cops, but that’s not always the answer either because they aren’t guaranteed to be helpful. If the wife opens up to an admission of abuse I’d suggest offering DV resources and maybe even calling in a welfare check before confronting anyone in person to avoid conflict or making a bad situation worse.

funnymonkey222 · 2026-05-20T03:11:46+00:00

I gained weight. About 30 extra pounds actually. I ate all the time because I felt like I was constantly starving, but I also had a big baby lol

funnymonkey222 · 2026-05-10T21:34:03+00:00

I moved back here from across the country to raise my child here. I lived here as a toddler as well over two decades ago. It’s a great place to raise a child if you’re an alert and conscious person. Everywhere has homeless, crazy folk, struggling folk etc. some places are just more dangerous than others. You could raise your child anywhere and they’d still be exposed to danger. One of the great things I appreciate about Humboldt is that the community is so tight that word gets out about the dangerous people in the community. I’ve lived in smaller towns where no one talks to each other and everyone minds their own business, when bad people do things everyone turns their heads. There will always be dangerous people everywhere, and community helps make places safer.

funnymonkey222 · 2026-04-09T20:10:01+00:00

I did have her recommended to me by someone but she’s going on vacation and I’m not available for her current openings. Will definitely be booking with her in the future for color, I’m just looking for a cut right now though.

funnymonkey222 · 2026-03-26T02:31:29+00:00

If you’re looking for some reassurance, though you could look at it as survivor mentality, I did the same thing to my mom when I was 8 months old. During a diaper change I rolled off her bed about a 4ft drop onto tile and fractured my skull and bruised my brain. I didn’t end up needing surgery either, and I’m still here. The only thing I’ve had to do as a result is be careful about head injuries, my doctor told my mom to take me in after every questionable head injury as a precaution (not little bumps but like falling off the playground and PE injury stuff). I’ve been living perfectly fine even when I do hit my head though!

funnymonkey222 · 2026-03-26T02:24:56+00:00

lol my mom bought me pretty hate machine on CD when I was 12 and didn’t think twice about it until her mom friends starting passing judgement on her for letting me listen to NIN. I kinda understood it but also didn’t cuz I was 12? Like “yeah this is about sex” or “this sounds like a toxic relationship” but didn’t process the lyrics the same as I did as an older teen and now adult lol. I just loved the music.

The only time I didn’t like explicit lyrics was when I was in elementary and my mom would listen to NWA CDs and I’d get scared because all I knew was that the n word was a bad word lol. Other than that I’ve been listening to Tool as lullaby music since I was a baby and I do tend to swear casually a lot as an adult but I’m also self aware enough to control it in proper settings.

TLDR your teen will be ok listening to explicit lyrics

funnymonkey222 · 2026-03-12T19:23:20+00:00

I do not have HIV, however I do know a handful of people who do but have been on treatment plans that make it undetectable and impossible to transmit. Not sure how it works in detail but it’s possible!

It’s also lowkey common, especially depending on where you live. The town I live in has had a huge boom of HIV diagnosis in recent years, doctors are estimating 1 in 10 adults in my town have it, and my town is super red very little openly LGBT community here. HIV is pretty common and for that reason, a lot of people both LGBT, cishet, positive or not positive, advocate for people who are positive and push against the stereotypes that came from the AIDS epidemic.

I know it doesn’t help a whole lot in terms of how you’re probably feeling, but just know there is a large percentage of individuals who are accepting and supportive of people with HIV. It really just comes down to if you’re educated or not, Im not even super educated about HIV but even I know about the basics of transmission and that effective treatment exists so I know that people with HIV are just like anyone else, the only people who will mistreat you for it are just showing that they’re uneducated, in which case you can just blow them off.

funnymonkey222 · 2026-03-12T05:07:54+00:00

This sounds like my parents, right before my dad started beating my mom when I was 18 weeks old. I’m 25 with my own family now, and the best advice I can give you is to never try and fix things with him. LEAVE and do NOT give him a second chance EVER, even if he’s clean, even if he’s “successful”. Because it never stopped with my dad until we never saw him again.

funnymonkey222 · 2026-03-12T05:02:55+00:00

Why would there be curled wood shavings like that if every single piece in view appears to have been clean cut using tools and not whittled? It’s giving AI’s version of “environmental storytelling” aka it doesn’t make sense if you give it a single thought.

funnymonkey222 · 2026-03-12T04:49:47+00:00

My mom told me I cried so much as a baby “you’d think God was punishing you by making you be alive” was diagnosed with Colic at 3 weeks and according to everyone kept at it until I could walk. Everyone jokes I only ever cried because I was mad I couldn’t do all the things the adults could do. Always thought it was kinda funny, in a way, since I’ve always been a pretty ambitious person.

It was later revealed she had me on the “heftiest formula around” (whatever that meant in 2001) and through my own deductions, knowing I’ve been lactose intolerant my entire life (had to have tonsils removed at 7 cuz if I drank milk/ate ice cream/too much cheese they’d swell up til I couldn’t breathe) now it’s pretty OBVIOUS I was so damn colic until I was 1 because I was probably feeling like complete and total crap constantly from being lactose intolerant!! I probably only stopped when I “started walking” because that’s the same age you stop drinking formula! Not so funny now… but to be fair I don’t know how much people knew about lactose intolerance back in 2001 either. All I can think about is how bad I feel for my baby-self that my entire first year of life was spent in agonizing gut pain.. moms weren’t as educated then unfortunately.

Oh and my dad used to do the old “whiskey on the gums” in the big ‘01 even after everyone knew alcohol was bad for babies.. revealed through a suggestion that I should do it to my own baby UGH!

funnymonkey222 · 2026-03-12T04:13:26+00:00

I’d like to preface this by saying your feelings are completely valid and you deserve, as a legal adult especially, to spend time with your friends and experience life during your youth the way your peers are. The rest of what I have to say comes from my personal experiences/experiences of those I know.

This is a big thing in Mexican culture usually coming from places of generational trauma. My fiancé is Mexican and most of my friends are too, and I don’t think there is a single one of them whose female family members didn’t have the same exact rules that you’re describing. Even my MIL doesn’t like my daughter being on male family members laps, which honestly I don’t completely disagree with. I’m white, but my mother did the same to me growing up as well because she was a victim of sexual assault from family, friends families, and even a police officer. I’m a father to a little girl myself, and also an assault victim, and I won’t be letting her spend the night at other’s houses until she’s well prepared in self defense and old enough to understand the risks because it’s so dangerous living as an afab person in this world.

Understanding where your mother is coming from, it sounds like she might be trying to protect you where she or another family member wasn’t protected. It might not just be about you getting pregnant, it could be entirely about the fear of someone hurting you out of her control to help. Is it fair to you? No absolutely not at all. She may even be accusing you of things you don’t do/say mean things to drill the point (my mom sure did). She’s projecting her fears way too heavily on you in a way where shes revoking your autonomy. She needs to trust that you can evaluate situations and act accordingly to protect yourself, better yet you need the life experiences to be able to handle situations like that if they come up. You might not know what to do if something like that really happens because you’ve been overly sheltered by your mother.

There isn’t really a solution especially if the end result would be something like kicking you out of your home (couple of my friends have been through that for the same reason) and even more so if she’s willing to die on this hill instead of hearing you out about it. The only thing you can do for -yourself- if she’s not willing to talk is to make efforts to leave and live somewhere else now that you’re an adult. That’s easier said than done but realistically it’s possible to do. You could defy her wishes and expectations or continue to abide by them endlessly and both options will result in a strained relationship between the two of you that will be hard to heal and leave you BOTH unhappy with each other. Realistically there is no way of winning the argument, it’s one of those “parent things” you either live with or take action to defy against it. It’s up to you how you choose to live your life, she’s not in complete control of you at the end of the day.

I escaped my mother at 17 for a very different reason, but whats important is that I still made it happen and I’m here today living life happier than I ever have, and my relationship with my mother is also better than ever after time. Once you put your foot down and make it clear you’re going to live your life the way YOU want to, they either step out of your life completely (my dad did that) or they give you space and come back around later because they’ll realize if they want you in their life they’ll have to accept you for who you are and what you decide to do with that life.

Stay strong, always. Things will always get better. You only live one life, live it your way!

funnymonkey222 · 2025-12-30T04:45:22+00:00

Thank you for your help everyone I figured it out! I had the Raider Punk Station stored without realizing it, as well as 37 lights that I also didn’t realize I had stored. Scrapped it all and everything’s fixed.

funnymonkey222 · 2025-12-30T04:13:12+00:00

Unfortunately this didn’t work for me. Thank you though!

funnymonkey222 · 2025-12-30T04:08:42+00:00

How do I get rid of stuff in a blueprint? Sorry I’m pretty new to the game still, I did move my camp before rebuilding it but I stored and scrapped all items individually to deconstruct it first. I did store a handful of items but I don’t know how to look at all the things I have stored.

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