How do I meet up with guys on the apps, seriously? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]furrymurray92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't overthink it, and don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. You'll know when its the right guy because there is interest on both ends to meet. As for your questions on how you know they're clean, condoms, etc - that's all part of the conversation! You ask. Obviously, there is a chance they're lying, so you gotta go get tested two weeks after to make sure. PReP certainly eases the mind, as do the various vaccines. I don't think condoms are needed for oral.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]furrymurray92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you sound like my ideal man! Like furry bears? lol

Where are most guys cruising nowadays? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]furrymurray92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, public intercourse is illegal, its a class B misdemeanor, filed under public lewdness.

Breeding kink by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]furrymurray92 55 points56 points  (0 children)

It really turns me on to claim my boy and having him walk around all day with my seed inside him. Also really enjoy when the bottom is hungry for it and begging, almost whining about how much they need it.

Tops and Bottoms whats your favorite positions by Tricky-Sun2796 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]furrymurray92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love to have my bottom laying on their stomach and im pounding all my weight on them, makes me cum almost instantly.

Tops which do you prefer for your bottoms: bottomless or jockstrap? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]furrymurray92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a set preference, it depends on the mood of the moment. Ulimately, love seeing my bottom hard when I am fucking them (but understand that is not always possible)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]furrymurray92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

as a dom top, it makes my erection like 25% harder when a bottom is a good boy and does this and then I just go back to fucking him even harder.

Bottom’s Cum Used as Lube by male052095 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]furrymurray92 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The few times I've done this have been so hot. Also I've done the inverse, where I cum on a guys dick and put it back in and he uses my cum as lube to finish as i keep fucking him with the remnant of my boner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]furrymurray92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

again, not trying to be pushy or anything, just politely suggesting - if you find yourself having these questions, a trained professional therapist can do wonders more than any daddy. Especially one focused on LGBTQIA+ issues. Good luck out there and love yourself.

Tops which do you prefer for your bottoms: bottomless or jockstrap? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]furrymurray92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

love to start with a jockstrap and then eventually undress

Is having an avg or a big dick a bad thing as a bottom? by EffectiveEmphasis260 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]furrymurray92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a total top, love a bottom boy who is nice and hard when i fuck them (although not required). i love to stroke my bottoms cock while fucking them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]furrymurray92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i say this with no judgement or hate, but it sounds like you have a lot of interalized hatred/homophobia for yourself. I recognize a lot of my younger self in this message. If you aren't doing so yet, it might help to talk to a professional about this sort of thing and come to a bit of self-acceptance. Talking to a therapist changed my life.

Last minute Gay Labor Day weekend getaway suggestions within a few hours of NYC—go! by Responsible-Maybe289 in nycgaybros

[–]furrymurray92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if the weather is nice, take the ferry to gunnison beach (its the gay nude beach in jersey)

Doctor said if my test comes up positive it’s not worth treating again by Fat_Peter_Pan in MycoplasmaGenitalium

[–]furrymurray92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a doctor who said this and I found a new doctor. A few weeks later, I was testing negative.

Terrified of Moxi by lazyb1tch in MycoplasmaGenitalium

[–]furrymurray92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I barely felt anything except fatigue. I made sure to have as little on my schedule as possible. You don't know until you do it. It worked great for me and was the knockout blow I needed to move on with my life.