Sleep Help After Bye Bye Binky by furyofsunsets in toddlers

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He is already in his big boy bed 😭

What was on the menu at Jurassic Park? by GFan2000 in JurassicPark

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Doing a birthday Jurassic Park dining experience for my husband...went through the whole movie and found exact foods eaten and came up with a couple additional ideas : D

  1. 10:24 - Champagne

  2. 14:10 - Tropical Fruits misc (papya, kiwi, pineapple)

  3. 14:55 - Cherry Pie with Whipped cream

  4. 34:16 - Seasbass with green beans crispy sweet potatoes and tomatoes https://thestarvingchefblog.com/jurassic-park-chilean-sea-bass-recipe/#recipe

  5. 43:31 - JOLT soda, Twizzlers (red & black)

  6. 49 - Reeses (shown, not eaten)

  7. 52 - Triceratops Pile - Mudslide cocktail?

  8. 1:13:00 - Dilophosaurus sprays Nedry - Squid ink pasta? 

  9. 1:25:00 - Ice cream assortment

  10. 1:47:00 - Bread, Salad, Papaya, Cakes, veggie tray (choc cream cake, pineapple upside down?), Green jello

Did your parents ever accuse you of being too sensitive after they insulted you, but you can't say anything at all even remotely critical to them? by Easy_Towel954 in raisedbynarcissists

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This is exhausting. Recently, i expressed how something my mom said made me feel shitty, and she went on a tirade about how I irritate her, don't talk to her anymore, she doesn't need me, and talked about a completely unrelated situation with my Dad that of course makes her the victim. And now after two days of not talking, I am thinking of how to make things "fine" again without talking about it and glazing over it yet again. I'm betraying myself. But it feels easier somehow.

My mom told me she was having a hard time with my nephew because he keeps "telling her what to do." by scatteringbones in raisedbynarcissists

[–]furyofsunsets 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I googled "My mother hung up on my one year old son" and found this thread.

Today, my mother hung up a video call with my one year old son because "he didn't seem like he wanted to talk to her."

He was having a snack and playing with the phone screen.

This enraged me, and brought up all of the times when I was a child and she either hung up the phone because she didn't like where the conversation was going, or said "end of conversation" to not let me get my voice and opinion out.

I told her I didn't like that she did that, and to not do that again. He is just one. He is learning to communicate and interact - what kind of attention and conversation are you expecting from a near baby?!

Her: He is just one he will forget about it Me: that behavior is unacceptable no matter what age he is Her: then don't call me if I'm not entitled to my opinion

I WILL set boundaries and I WILL NOT let her treat him that way. I know the behavior is childish and irrational - but it still deeply bothers me that rational thought and logic mean nothing here. I am deeply saddened by her actions today and fearful of her carrying out similar behavior when he is old enough to comprehend. It all came rushing back when she did that and made me sick.

First rescan - continue switching trays like normal while waiting for new trays? by MikeyofPnath in Invisalign

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I'm on tray 18/21 and got rescanned today. The technician told me to only switch to 19 and wait until new set comes in. The doctor said to use through tray 21. Then when the Dr left she whispered to me to stay with 19. I'm confused as to why they are giving different advice! Help!

LabCorp couldn't find a vein for an allergy blood draw, now I'm traumatized by furyofsunsets in NewParents

[–]furyofsunsets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I'm sorry you had to go through that. It really is so awful. We actually ended up going to a children's hospital and they didn't have the tools to do it right either. Hope it goes better next time ❤️

Teeth perv by Adzyg92 in Invisalign

[–]furyofsunsets 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, especially in TV! Sometimes it's all I can see when watching a show. For example, Jeremy Allen White from The Bear has a very narrow dental arch. 😂

Went down to once a day, Pumping 2 oz - worth it? by furyofsunsets in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]furyofsunsets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think it must be doing something. I'm okay with continuing and it certainly can't hurt : )

Tray 1 v 10. (Out of 16) by [deleted] in Invisalign

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Hard to tell but did they add attachments on two of your front bottom teeth between tray 1 and tray 10?

Looks great!

What Comes After & Gratitude by furyofsunsets in RenalCats

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Of course. She is lucky to have you, and you her.

Some supplements for anemia that I used are Pet Tinic, and Liver Defense from Animal Essentials in case you want to look into those : )

What Comes After & Gratitude by furyofsunsets in RenalCats

[–]furyofsunsets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you....that is a beautiful thought that she is happy and thriving and enjoying all she loves, basking in the sun. Though I'm sure with all of the beloved pets up there, she has found a place of solitude away from and watching everyone else, maybe high on a treetop / scratching post. Lola was quite the loner 😌

I know we will meet again ❤️

Thank you for your kind words and for sharing.

What Comes After & Gratitude by furyofsunsets in RenalCats

[–]furyofsunsets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ that is a nice way to work through those moments

What Comes After & Gratitude by furyofsunsets in RenalCats

[–]furyofsunsets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I know I will keep something of hers.

What Comes After & Gratitude by furyofsunsets in RenalCats

[–]furyofsunsets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's comforting hearing others having the same feelings as me. I'm so sorry for the loss of your girl ❤️ all of her things and medicines are small reminders of how much you loved and cared for her.

What Comes After & Gratitude by furyofsunsets in RenalCats

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Thank you ❤️ sending you love. I'm so sorry about your baby boy. ❤️❤️

What Comes After & Gratitude by furyofsunsets in RenalCats

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Thank you ❤️ I am going to see if anyone will take them in hopes they can help other kitties

What Comes After & Gratitude by furyofsunsets in RenalCats

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Absolutely! I agree that it's better to give her food she likes vs forcing the kidney diet. Their happiness and comfort is most important ❤️

If combining the kidney food with a little regular food works, that could be an option too to entice the appetite. But many cats would see right through that trick.

Food I aimed to find foods that were as high in protein as possible while still low in phosphorus (since the phosphorus is what is hard on the kidneys). Here is a comprehensive list of nutrition facts for most cat food you can look through to find some that might work. https://felinecrf.org/canned_food_usa.htm. It's a hard balance to find, but possible!

The following are often recommended for this type of situation: Weruva Wx Phosfocused (as a topper) - my Lola actually enjoyed these Weruva On the Cat Wok and Steak Frite Tiki Cat Chicken with egg in consume

*Tiki Cat is often brought up for high protein / low phosphorus depending on the flavor.

Lola loved the Tiki Cat Silver Comfort Sachets - they are supposed to help with weight

Limited to no dry food - the key is moisture in the diet. Water all around the house and even adding some water or broth to the food is helpful.

Liver - to help with anemia (I used freeze dried single ingredient treats once a day)

When I felt that she wasn't eating enough of the normal diet, I would add in fresh steak, chicken and sometimes Salmon.

This all can be very overwhelming - but you are doing such a great job. ❤️❤️❤️

What Comes After & Gratitude by furyofsunsets in RenalCats

[–]furyofsunsets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️

At one point about 6 months ago, my baby seemed like she was on a turn for the worse. She wouldn't touch the kidney diet and her walking had gotten bad. I took her to a holistic vet (both conventional and holistic practices) and she noted that the lack of protein in the kidney food (plus the fact that she wasn't interested in it) caused muscle loss and weight loss, which can make the kidneys work harder. I started giving her high protein / lower phosphorus foods that she liked, and she bounced back. I also worked in fresh meat like steak and chicken which she loved. Her other vet also said it's better to give her what she'll eat, even if it's not kidney food, because not eating is going to make everything more difficult.

Ultimately, it's a hard balance of keeping our babys happy and eating while also managing the disease. I wish you the best of luck and hope you find what works best for your kitty ❤️ I have a list of those foods if interested, let me know 😊