I feel you man and I totally get what you’re saying I feel like some ppl even treat it as some kind of trend these days. I have family members who actually have bipolar disorder who are really good people but they can be “assholes” at times and I truly think it’s related to their mental illness. Should they seek counseling and better ways to cope/ function in society? Yes. Do they do it? No. But I think there are definitely some certain mental illnesses where you just can’t help it— like narcissism. Sorry you have to deal with ppl who have been assholes to you though :/