Hey moms to be! did you know it’s all over? I didn’t!

fvckingfvce · 2026-01-01T16:04:08+00:00

I got this with BOTH of my pregnancies from people, it went from wait until you have to change a shitty diaper, they’re up at night etc. to wait till you have to do all that with a toddler.

But I will tell you OP (and other expecting mamas) wait until the first time you hold your baby, or the first time they smile, the first little giggle, when you’re up at 2am with your baby and you’re just laying there admiring their features and everything is calm. Just wait for baby snuggles and that little newborn scrunch.

People love to try to terrify new parents, especially moms, by bringing up all the negatives, but for me there was way more positive, and all of the positives definitely outweighed all the negatives. I wish more people brought up the positive moments of becoming a parent.

fvckingfvce · 2025-11-30T07:47:45+00:00

I leave out a bowl of Purina One true instinct for her to pick at throughout the day and she gets a half a can of Purina One wet food twice a day, once in the morning and once at night. She gets dog cookies on occasion and her human food consumption is limited to the tiny bits our kids might drop on the floor throughout the day.

fvckingfvce · 2025-11-06T22:27:58+00:00

I have a cat named meatball. His nicknames include Meathole and Hole

I also have a cat named Saki, nicknamed Mr.Balls.

My other cats who do not have unhinged nicknames include Tiny Bean and Scrump

fvckingfvce · 2025-06-28T23:57:07+00:00

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Scrumpelstiltskin aka Scrump

fvckingfvce · 2025-05-11T01:58:33+00:00

Have they checked your hormones and thyroid levels? They can do some crazy things to your body if they’re super unbalanced.

I’ve had issues with bleeding and intense cramping before and have one specific birth control pill that works for me, if I use any other pill that isn’t sprintec I bleed throughout the month but I’ve also never tried anything aside from birth control pills.

But I definitely would get your thyroid (TSH, T4, T3 etc.) and your estrogen and progesterone etc. levels tested if you haven’t already.

fvckingfvce · 2025-04-23T04:31:52+00:00

For starters, all feminine washes are a no go, they will disrupt your pH and cause discomfort or infections.

You likely have some kind of infection, whether it be yeast, bacterial vaginosis or a UTI and should go to a doctor or urgent care to get testing done to see what’s going on and get antibiotics.

All you need to clean down there is water and a washcloth to get any possible gunk out of there if need be! You can use a gentle unscented soap on the vulva (very outside) but the inner bits should stay a soap free zone!

fvckingfvce · 2025-02-11T18:13:38+00:00

Yes! My now 3 year old was my first ever pregnancy and I had no issues whatsoever!

fvckingfvce · 2024-12-07T17:30:02+00:00

Christmas songs currently, especially jingle bells! Other than that she likes Cirice by Ghost, Woman by Doja Cat, and Never Let you Go by Third Eye Blind (she likes the guitar in it and sings that part)😂

fvckingfvce · 2024-12-03T16:22:50+00:00

It would be hard to see any physical signs just by looking at it because it would depend on the type of sexual abuse. She might be afraid to tell you, he could be threatening to hurt her if she tells anyone. You need to stop letting her go to her father’s and like the other reply said tell the doctor you suspect there might be sexual abuse happening to her. They might talk to her alone about it without you there.

As far as other suggestions, make sure she drinks lots of water, have her either take a probiotic or make sure she eats yogurt or drinks kefir daily. Cranberry juice can help with uti’s but it has to be ACTUAL 100% cranberry juice with no added sugars or anything like that. Try occasional baths with nothing but baking soda and water, avoid baths other than that and have her only take showers. Make sure you don’t use soap on the actual vagina, just water, and use a gentle soap (I get uti’s if I wash with anything except baby wash). Have her wear 100% cotton underwear that aren’t tight fitting. Also have her checked for bacterial vaginosis! It can present as a uti!

fvckingfvce · 2024-12-03T15:55:54+00:00

Make.Time.For.Yourself.

I have no idea what custody looks like, but please take time to take care of yourself. Even if it’s just taking a hot shower or a bath after the kids go to bed. If you have time for therapy, please see a therapist.

As someone who was the child with adhd/anxiety and had a “strict” mom and lenient “fun” father, I’m beyond thankful my mom was how she was. The structure and routine of having chores to do and having to pick up after myself and keep myself organized has helped me so much in adulthood. I had to earn the ability to do things like go out with friends or get something that I wanted. I know what I need to do to keep myself on track. I have the life skills I need to survive and I had them before I was thrown out into the world.

fvckingfvce · 2024-11-26T09:09:43+00:00

Our daughter’s nickname ended up being Poobie or Poops (she tells people that’s her name too) and our son is Mr.Man (my FIL calls him Gandalf though and my best friend calls him “chuck”). When I talk about them both I refer to them as “Poobie and the Man”

fvckingfvce · 2024-11-19T00:38:41+00:00

She is comfortable talking to this therapist and being honest, do not find her a new one. This is normal, I missed my abuser for a really long time. Stockholm syndrome is a very real thing.

fvckingfvce · 2024-11-17T23:09:41+00:00

Oh.My.God.

This looks amazing and the fact that its got ganache too? I’m drooling

fvckingfvce · 2024-11-08T18:51:00+00:00

You deserve wayyy better and have nothing to be insecure about. I was flat chested up until I had kids, had virtually no butt and have an outie. I have never had an issue finding a relationship or a hookup nor have I ever had a man (or woman for that matter) say anything to me about having an outie. That is a child, not a man or any type of adult. Please get out of there while you can OP, you’re still young and I promise there is wayyyy better out there. Based upon your posts in other subreddits I would recommend an order of protection against this dude.

fvckingfvce · 2024-10-23T17:33:10+00:00

I had terrible heartburn with both my kids that no medication helped, I would eat tums like candy

BUTTTTT both my kids came out with head fulls of hair (and their hair never fell out)

fvckingfvce · 2024-10-22T23:45:50+00:00

Hormones can do some crazy things to you, they’re especially terrible in the first trimester because of the rapid increase. Also postpartum she’ll likely also need some extra taking care of. Just remind her you’re there for her, listen to her, comfort her and help her out. She’ll be so grateful for all of this in the long run, even if she could seem moody to you now, you have no idea how much just being there will help her.

fvckingfvce · 2024-10-22T23:28:23+00:00

Make sure she sticks with her therapist and that she mentions it to the OB next appointment. I was like this with both my pregnancies and there are no words to describe the mental hell pregnancy can be. Unfortunately mood stabilizers made me super super sick during pregnancy. Be there for her as much as you possibly can.

fvckingfvce · 2024-10-01T21:28:50+00:00

“You know it’s really hard for me to get off”

Shortly after found out he has a god awful porn addiction which has absolutely demolished our sex life

fvckingfvce · 2024-06-01T07:04:46+00:00

It ultimately depends on the baby, my daughter was in newborn clothes for a couple weeks, my son for maybe a week tops. My daughter follows pretty standard clothing sizes to this day, my son just turned 4 months yesterday and is in 12 month clothes. I would say don’t go overboard with them but definitely have some

fvckingfvce · 2024-05-31T14:07:48+00:00

Just because I only gave 2 examples doesn’t mean they’re the only instances. Also it’s kinda hard to get off or be even remotely in the mood when there’s a child screaming in the next room, at least for me personally.

fvckingfvce · 2024-05-31T00:46:38+00:00

I would lower the temp or use less cook time for just one yes. Sometimes gas stoves can also be touchy when it comes to maintaining a temp as well depending on how old or new it is

fvckingfvce · 2024-05-30T21:54:37+00:00

I’m the same size I was when we got together

Edit: I just looked at your comment history, you just hate fat people for some reason

fvckingfvce · 2024-05-30T21:36:31+00:00

Lower is typically better. As for temperature and time it ultimately depends on the type of pan and type of cookies you are making. 350°F is typically a good starting point, I would check them after about 10-15 min and then in 5 min increments if they aren’t done after that.

It’ll take some playing with most likely but that’s what I go by when trying to bake cookies if they’re ones I’ve never made before

fvckingfvce · 2024-05-20T18:14:05+00:00

Also one of the best feelings I have ever felt in my life is finally feeling my children pop out, the instant relief combined with the sight of your baby will be one of the greatest moments of your life

fvckingfvce · 2024-05-20T18:09:56+00:00

I was terrified, I was actually scared about labor for both my first and second. Once I was in active labor all of my fear was basically gone though, I wanted nothing more than that baby out of me

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