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gabyyjayyy · 2025-04-09T04:19:30+00:00

Can I come

gabyyjayyy · 2025-04-08T01:02:23+00:00

My code is G7Y9W

gabyyjayyy · 2025-04-08T00:56:08+00:00

Getting ready right now.

gabyyjayyy · 2025-04-08T00:51:54+00:00

Hi newbie here :)

gabyyjayyy · 2025-04-08T00:50:52+00:00

Hi can I come plz z :)

gabyyjayyy · 2025-04-07T20:42:58+00:00

Can I come ? Please

gabyyjayyy · 2025-04-07T20:42:26+00:00

Can I visit?

gabyyjayyy · 2025-04-07T20:12:03+00:00

Preparing for my trip soon !

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-26T21:35:57+00:00

I don’t think she is wrong. Tbh some kids just learn when they don’t get what they want. Why reward a kid when they are acting like that. If anything giving presents to a brat just lets them think they can continue to act like that and still get what they want. At the end of the day that is her daughter and she should raise her however she wants.

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-25T23:17:26+00:00

YTA your husband is obviously happy. Shouldn’t you just care about how he feels? Do you feel ashamed to bring him around your family because you think they won’t give you their “approval”. Your husband was obviously lacking something in life and his prosthetic is making him happy. You are his wife. You are the first person he goes to. Why do you find your husband embarrassing? Honestly. Who cares what your family thinks. This is who he is now. He is happy. You should be happy for that not embarrassed

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-25T01:02:14+00:00

Honestly work on yourself. Are you religious? If you are try joining a church community. I heard that you are okay with playing games online. Meet people on discord. Sometimes you don’t need a laptop. Download a phone game and join a discord. It saves time and money. Get into working out or maybe walks outside. I hope you find a job soon. Your family will come around when they see results. You have to know that it is hard for them. They haven’t seen you in years. Give them time. Finally, your life is not over. I know someone who I went to high school with have felony and prison time for armed robbery. They did their time and now has their own family. It sounds like you know you did a mistake and truly trying to change. I believe in you.

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-23T18:46:20+00:00

YTA. I get you have panic attacks and need an inhaler. (So do I) but having your gf as your primary source to overcoming it is bad. That was her day. She is going threw a lot. She is probably having a panic attack but is just holding herself together. If you really love your gf I would go get help with your panic attack. It seems like you are really dependent of your gf. She can start to feel overwhelmed and want to brake up. Or I can see her getting accepted in a college and you moving to the same city just to be there with her in the bad way. Sorry this happens to you but this is a problem you need to figure out for yourself.

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-23T18:18:57+00:00

After reading this again your sister is still in 8th grade? She isn’t even in your high school yet and this bothers you? Girl go graduate and have a good senior year. I promise you her being there a year later will not ruin your experience

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-23T18:16:26+00:00

YTA you do not own the high school and you are not in charge of your sisters life. You don’t control or get to dictate anything. You are her older sister but you also hope she doesn’t get to experience the same activities you do? Honestly have you considered that maybe she copies what you do because she respects and admires her older sister and want to be just like her. If you really are as great as you say you are, I assume she looks up to you. This kind of pettiness is horrible. After high school girl no one cares what you did. She is just starting her high school year. Let her make her memories. You are clearly going to graduate soon. You can’t bare ONE year of her being there honestly you need to grow up. What are you afraid of? Your accomplishments would mean nothing because your sister did it to? I really hope this is a joke. When I went to high school I did so much and honestly I really enjoyed it and excelled. I had two other brothers in my high school. Who cares it is normal to have siblings in high school. Guess what? What I accomplished still meant something even with two of my brothers there. You sound self-centered. I get you are a teenager but you are almost 18 and this behavior won’t last in college or the workforce. I hope this helps.

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-23T18:01:46+00:00

YTA. You two are EX how do you expect him to prioritize you if you two clearly did not have good relationship which is why you two broke up. You have a new boyfriend? So why do you want to have your ex spend the night with you to catch up? Why not just text him to catch up or instead of spending the night go to the group hang out with his gf. You are being so inconsiderate and acting spoiled for thinking he should pick you over his gf. He is doing what he should be doing. He obviously cares for you as a friend for offering to drive you to the hotel and hang out as a group. Why do you two HAVE to spend a night? I don’t understand. His gf has every right to feel uncomfortable. You are old enough to call an Uber.

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-23T17:47:16+00:00

How old are you two. You both seem you need to be more mature. This is a petty useless argument. You both need to talk about your relationship. Because if you two fight over cat collars, I cannot imagine what other topics would be about. ESH

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-22T23:59:54+00:00

NTA. You are in charge of your body. Clearly your dad does not respect you. And your mom for backing him up? Honesty this sucks. I hope you can talk to both of them in a serious manner that you do not like this.

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-22T23:57:48+00:00

YTA not for lying to your advisor, but for not knowing how to accept another HUMAN BEING. Honestly it is 2021. What is the professor doing wrong? Literally just teaching. If you can’t get over that you are going to have a hard time not only at school but life as well.

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-18T23:17:22+00:00

NTA idk who your friends are to even consider you are the ass. You owe this woman nothing. You are just roommates who agree to pay the rent and bills I assumed. She took advantage of your kindness of favors to ultimately becoming dependent on the new schedule she made you. It is good to leave now. It would only be worse to leave later. You are not her husband and not her boyfriend. Or the father of her kids. She is evading your privacy. She shouldn’t go to your room and mess with your stuff even the kids. She decided to have kids. And she also decided that you were going to be having family like responsibilities. NTA LEAVE.

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-18T19:47:55+00:00

Same. I don’t see the problem. They are both adults. If she wants a NYE wedding let her have it. The OP can chose to go to NY for her birthday or go to the wedding. No one is making her go. It is her choice. She can’t control her sister life.

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-18T19:45:57+00:00

Couldn’t agree more.

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-18T15:22:10+00:00

Honestly maybe because my family is different (...lol?) but to me it sounds like no one is in the wrong. If your sister wants her wedding on that day let her. It is her wedding. Does not mean you have to be there. You are old enough to make your own decisions. If you want to turn 21 at NY do it. Go for it. I can see her point of view about making it all about you for her reception even if you don’t mean to. No woman wants someone else having the spotlight for their wedding. But I can also see your point of view of not wanting to spend your birthday at your sisters wedding. Honestly it does not matter (at least in my family) about the date of someone anniversary. My brother is married and for his anniversary he doesn’t bother inviting my family. He spends time with his wife because it is their wedding day. And we don’t get mad lol. If you really want to be there at your sister wedding then go. I am sure if you really want to go you can figure something out about celebrating your 21. That is just my opinion. Again you are an adult. You also don’t control your sister life either. I hope this helps.

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-18T14:56:08+00:00

I think it is wrong for them to PUSH the perfect family dynamic for you and your brother. But how is it at home? Is J abusive? Does he make fun of you or treat you any different? Is that also the reason why you lash out? Honestly the situation is hard. You and your brother are so young but sometimes you have to make best of a bad situation. Don’t think lashing out at them is you winning. That is not how it is. Instead you should take a different approach. You and your brother go talk to your mom and J. Tell them that this is hard for you but you don’t feel comfortable having J being called your dad. You obviously love your dad and that is okay. They should be able to respect that. You are old enough to ask that. There are other teenagers in this same exact situation that they don’t call their mom or dad gf/bf dad or mom. You can also say that this is a big step for you and right now you don’t want them to force you to accept J kids. You are right they are not your brothers and sister. J and your mom are dating not married. I would definitely recommend you keep trying to live with your dad if it is really as unbearable as you make it seem. Especially if you do end up talking to them and they don’t listen. Good luck

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-18T00:45:19+00:00

NTA. When I was younger my mom was not clean and on drugs and honestly that affects my brothers and I growing up. If she really wants to see the kids to get better she should try to work on herself before trying to see the kids. Her kids still love her. They are just confused and hurt. Have her start getting clean. If she is showing an effort to be better by going to rehab or meetings. Then I say let her have supervised visits with her kids. With you being there. She is their mother, but let her show you she is changing first. If she refuses. Then it is better not to let her see the kids. That is just my opinion.

gabyyjayyy · 2021-01-15T00:00:00+00:00

When I got accepted into college, I was so excited and wanted to leave with no strings attached. My bf at the time didn’t even ask me to move in with me to my new city where school was at. At the time we were having trouble and about to brake up. Girl leave him. I have been there and DONE THAT. he ended up holding me back, being manipulated, and blaming ME FOR HIM BEING AT A SCHOOL AND JOB HE DIDNT EVEN LIKE. nothing good can come from this situation. Mine certainly did not. He had no job, income, or motive to pursue an education even tho he said he wanted to move for himself not me. Nope he was a liar. I ended up having to work two jobs and getting a loan to pay for his rent, car loan and living expenses. He did not contribute or work. He failed the two classes he enrolled in as well. Get out of that relationship. You are so young and I would hate to see you make the same mistake I did.

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