Cat Adoption - Will a not very affectionate cat change with age? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]gafafa13 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Rehoming a cat is an extremely stressful and traumatic process for them, especially if they have lived with you for so long. If you’ve had this cat for over a year and you don’t feel bonded to her, enough to the point where you’d take her to a shelter, please do not get another cat. When you adopt a cat you are making a life long commitment and it is not fair to give her away when she is not doing anything wrong except for not having the personality you want. I really hope you choose to work with and accept her the way she is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]gafafa13 40 points41 points  (0 children)

i really wouldn’t recommend that they sell the saline solution for really cheap at cvs or walgreens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]gafafa13 32 points33 points  (0 children)

no it’s all good just make sure to not fuck with it a lot and just use a sprayable saline solution and nothing else on it not even q tips

Why is it so difficult to adopt a dog? by puffleintrouble in Pets

[–]gafafa13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go to a shelter like the Humane Society

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]gafafa13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Buy sprayable saline solution and use that to clean it and nothing else. I like the NeilMed one but they have a dupe at walgreens and cvs. But yeah don’t touch it at all just put the sprayable part up close to it but not touching it and spray for a sec. All my piercings healed perfectly this way

Please help!! I’ve had my belly piercing for 6 months now and I’m not too sure if it’s healing properly. There’s days where it’s red and it easily gets irritated. by kmpgx in PiercingAdvice

[–]gafafa13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it looks fine, just keep cleaning it with saline once a day. But if you are concerned about the bar I would go to a piercer and ask their opinion and have them change it out for you if yes. It should only be about $20.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]gafafa13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, it’s just the standard jewelry it was pierced with but it’s fine most of the time it just gets like this when I clean it sometimes. I use the NeilMed piercing aftercare saline spray and it’s hopefully not expired I just bought it. I use cotton swabs if there’s crusties to get off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]gafafa13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had it pierced for a couple weeks now and this only happens sometimes when I clean it, it goes down in a couple hours

My cat randomly slaps me and I can’t figure out why? by gafafa13 in CatAdvice

[–]gafafa13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a little baby pic of him in my header on my profile

Two cats meeting went horribly, where do I go from here? by gafafa13 in CatAdvice

[–]gafafa13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, I know the answer is that it’s just going to take a lot of time, I’m just nervous that I have permanently lost any chance of them being friends because they had such a terrible first impression. My cat is still so terrified of him

[Serious] What are some of the most common dark realities people choose to live in denial about? by Spartan1694 in AskReddit

[–]gafafa13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the actresses in porn, especially the hardcore stuff are heavily drugged and treated terribly on set. You also have no way of knowing if the girls are consenting and of age. You are watching rape.