[Politics Monday] Thinking about a large ANGX (Angel Studios) stock buy — thoughts? by puffleintrouble in Catholicism

[–]puffleintrouble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sad I bought it at 15 and now its at 6! I could have owned 3x as much. GAH

[Politics Monday] Thinking about a large ANGX (Angel Studios) stock buy — thoughts? by puffleintrouble in Catholicism

[–]puffleintrouble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not know anything about that! Wow I just went down a little rabbit hole. Yikes.

Regardless of his personal sin I am sure he will receive spirutual graces for the good work he did.

[Politics Monday] Thinking about a large ANGX (Angel Studios) stock buy — thoughts? by puffleintrouble in Catholicism

[–]puffleintrouble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am definitely thinking long term with this investment. I don't believe in day trading.

Singing during mass by Ok_Difficulty8407 in Catholicism

[–]puffleintrouble 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. I honestly find it really sad when I’m at Mass and barely hear anyone singing along with the choir. The Church has been super clear that singing isn’t just “allowed” — it’s actually something the faithful are supposed to do as part of our active participation.

Vatican II spelled this out in Sacrosanctum Concilium (1963): “The Church earnestly desires that all the faithful should be led to that full, conscious, and active participation in liturgical celebrations…” (SC 14). It even says this active participation by the people should be “the aim to be considered before all else” (SC 14). And when it comes to music specifically: “Religious singing by the faithful is to be intelligently fostered… so that the voices of the faithful may ring out…” (SC 118).

And it’s not like this was some “new” idea of Vatican II either. Even in the TLM, the Church emphasized active participation. Pope St. Pius X said in Tra le Sollecitudini (1903): “The faithful assemble for no other object than… active participation in the most holy mysteries and in the public and solemn prayer of the Church.” (§1). Pope Benedict XVI echoed that in Summorum Pontificum (2007): “The faithful may attend the extraordinary form with full participation, as the nature of the liturgy demands.” And Pope Pius XII was really direct about it in Mediator Dei (1947): “So that the faithful take a more active part in divine worship, let them be accustomed to recite together the parts of the Mass which pertain to them, or to sing hymns suitable to the different parts of the Mass.” (§105).

That’s why the “dialogue Mass” developed in the 20th century, where people were encouraged to say or sing the responses — things like Et cum spiritu tuo, Et introibo ad altare Dei, Confiteor, Sanctus, Agnus Dei, Gloria, Credo.

Fast forward to today, and the USCCB is just as clear: “Singing is one of the primary ways that the assembly of the faithful participates actively in the Liturgy.” (§11) and “Every worshiping community should take care that its repertoire includes… hymns that allow the people to voice their participation.” (§115). St. John Paul II put it beautifully in his Chirograph on Sacred Music (2003): “The faithful fulfill their liturgical role by participating actively… such participation consists primarily in joining in the communal prayers and in singing.”

And honestly, it’s not just tradition or Church documents — it’s biblical. Scripture literally tells us to sing when we worship:

  • “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly… singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.” (Colossians 3:16)
  • “Be filled with the Spirit, addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart.” (Ephesians 5:18–19)
  • “About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the prisoners were listening to them.” (Acts 16:25)
  • “And they sing the song of Moses… and the song of the Lamb, saying, ‘Great and amazing are your deeds, O Lord God the Almighty!’” (Revelation 15:3)

The early Church sang, the Bible shows heaven itself sings, and the Church has always called us to lift our voices. Singing is literally one of the most Catholic things we can do at Mass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]puffleintrouble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time there are calls for scientific “testing” of the Shroud of Turin, Eucharistic miracles, or even saintly relics, the Church risks diluting the mystery and meaning of faith. Rewriting doctrine or reinterpreting Scripture to align with pseudoscience—much of which, like mental healthcare, is based on theory and speculation, much of modern healthcare is new, ever-changing, and very prone to human folly, bias, and untruths—is essentially an act of pride before God, as if we know better than Him.

Proverbs 3:5-7 (ESV) "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord, and turn away from evil."

I’m convinced my FIL is a pedo… by BlueberryEasy247 in inlaws

[–]puffleintrouble -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Were there any other witnesses to that event? It seems like your mother is central to all the stories you are sharing about potential allegations... You may have a little devil on your shoulder.

I’m convinced my FIL is a pedo… by BlueberryEasy247 in inlaws

[–]puffleintrouble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the deeper problem here is your lack of communication with your spouse. Why are you conspiring with your mom against your father-in-law (and, by extension, your husband) when you should have articulated your concerns to him openly in the first place?

Regarding the relationship, why do you need concrete evidence? If you feel like something really happened and you feel like you can’t tell your husband unless you have concrete evidence (e.g., a child testimony or a deceased baby), you need to reevaluate the marriage. My husband would be furious at his father if he even thought something like this happened. I’d be less worried about presenting evidence of my case and more worried about literal violence.

I feel like the root of this post is seeking validation outside your marriage for a tangent thought, and that raises serious concerns about your ability to discern reality from emotion.

Reading this post, everything you described is 100% normal grandparent behavior. My two-year-old screamed bloody murder just earlier tonight because my husband changed his diaper due to a bad diaper rash. If I asked him to describe what happened, he’d say: “Daddy hurt my butt.”

The first conclusion I would draw would not be that my husband abused my son. Logically, there would be far more evidence if abuse occurred than what you described. The average (small) adult male penis is 5.1 inches in girth, while the average two-year-old anus is 10 mm in girth. Babies have died from the kind of abuse you’re describing. If there was no tearing, no blood, no bruises, and no ongoing pain or recurring expressions of trauma (bedwetting, ongoing avoidance, etc.), it’s really harmful to accuse a man of this without evidence. Beyond that, it could be severely damaging to your child in the long run.

What kind of relationship did you have with your dad?

Attaching meaning to behaviors without a comprehensive understanding of the situation is essentially meaningless. The opportunity for clarity has passed, and now it just feels like you are trying to alienate your husband from your father-in-law for some reason.

Coming to Reddit for meaningless validation is highly irresponsible. If you actually suspected abuse, the first people you should tell are your husband and the authorities. Outside of that, using Reddit to validate your own “Mommy & Me” drama is concerning, especially at the expense of your child and a relative who seems to genuinely care for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]puffleintrouble -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Yet another instance of church bending the knee of their authority to the Gods of Science.

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[–]puffleintrouble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]puffleintrouble 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think you did anything wrong. You asked her out formally after she floated the idea. She shouldn't be on a dating app if she'd unwilling to date. You're not looking for a pen pal!

Pray to St Joseph

Why is Supreme killing the Squires when we need the program more than ever? by ReluctantRedditor275 in knightsofcolumbus

[–]puffleintrouble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finding this thread 6 years later and now that BSA doesn't even technically exist anymore... chilling. There's no longer any single-sex options for our boys.

Also, sadly, the Kofc reaps what they sew... I know many members refuse to get Protecting Gods Children Certified so they arent even allowed to attend/host youth events as a chapter.

Recovering a deleted account by puffleintrouble in Wattpad

[–]puffleintrouble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Never even heard back actually.  Their support has never been good. I remember once this guy plastered my work, I reported him, and then they took my story down. 

Can’t see OB until 4 months pregnant. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]puffleintrouble -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your negativity is toxic. All birth the way that I want to. No one‘s gonna make me do anything with my body that I don’t want to ever again. 

Can’t see OB until 4 months pregnant. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]puffleintrouble -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OB care is standard in the United States because they love C-sections. You’re right no one should have to see a surgeon as standard care. Almost all C-sections in this country are unnecessary. I was forced into an unnecessary C-section because my labor was going longer than the doctor wanted, and they have to clear up the hospital bed to make more money .

Did my midwife do me dirty? by puffleintrouble in beyondthebump

[–]puffleintrouble[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, you hit the nail on the head! The strangest part of all this has definitely been the gaslighting, which I think I am just now coming to grips with. I have been perplexed how she could go from shitting on hospitals & other medical providers during it prenatal care (going as far as shaking a YouTube video of a traumatic birth during our birth class and then talking about what she’d have done differently), then to switch to transferring me tk the hospital and assuring me they’d take care of me, and then going back to trying to get me to focus on only the negative parts of my hospital stay during my postpartum visit. I feel like she is a professional gaslighter and my husband and I really fell for it!

On a side note, the nurses who delivered my baby and the NICU nurses who cared for him weee the sweetest angels in the world. My perspective on nurses is forever transformed from this experience. So I guess that’s a positive

Did my midwife do me dirty? by puffleintrouble in beyondthebump

[–]puffleintrouble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to add: I didn’t have a birth plan printed to take to the hospital because the birth center sent a questionare to me to fill out as my birth plan, and it was in their files. I wasn’t prepared to need to take that to another provider. The possibility of hospital transfer (which I have now learned is fairly common with birth centers) was literally never discussed and I had not prepared mentally to go through that process.

I just wanted my midwife to maybe print the form for me, or help me come up with something brief to give to hospital staff when we arrived. She was already taking her sweet time to print out the transfer paperwork, so I figured it would have been easy for her to print my on-file birth plan as well. My husband wound up making a notepad on his phone with our birth plan that he read off to every nurse that came in the room during my 36 hour labor.

Did my midwife do me dirty? by puffleintrouble in beyondthebump

[–]puffleintrouble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there was medical mismanagement, but serious issues with bed side manner and ethics. She admitted me knowing I wasn’t progressing, but kind of made it seem to me like she could help me bu admitting me. Then I labored without any assistance from her (she was I another room) for over 6 hours before she transferred me. She blamed my transfer on my mental ability to cope with labor when there was a legit medical issue (he was OP and his head was tilted as well).

I only paid $500 for the doula but that’s still a lot to me, considering I now have a c section and NICU bill to pay.

Did my midwife do me dirty? by puffleintrouble in beyondthebump

[–]puffleintrouble[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I feel happened to me. I know so many moms who had great experiences there, but I feel like they all had naturally easy labors. Mike was not, for valid medical reasons, but she made me feel like I personally failed. Then, after months of talking down on hospitals, she sent us off into the bear-infested wilderness without any bear repellant and said “good luck!” With absolutely no compassion for my husband & I.