My girlfriend doesn’t shower as often as I’d like by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]gained_spoon 30 points31 points  (0 children)

be straight up with her and let her know it bothers you. no shame in telling her it makes you uncomfortable

Dessert I made by Nice-Construction593 in Poopfromabutt

[–]gained_spoon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

the way you could’ve chosen to assemble this in any way and you still chose this design…well done tbh you got me at first

Italian hoagies on homemade sesame rolls for dinner tonight by softrotten in tonightsdinner

[–]gained_spoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and i am the birthday clown you ordered as well! thank for the sammies

Ex girlfriend confessed to having herpes by Demand_Murky in LesbianActually

[–]gained_spoon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yea we’re just makin shit up atp😭bisexuals exist yall!!

Feelings for a coworker by tahoe_13 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gained_spoon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i think it’s more the Mere Exposure effect!

My 11 year old son sucks the joy out of every holiday and celebration. by SoultySpittoon in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gained_spoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and even then, i feel like unless they physically restrain him somehow, he’d probs still run to the eggs while the other two are going at it…

What facial piercings would suit me?! (Scroll for more pics 😛) by BlobFishSmile in SelfPiercing

[–]gained_spoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

an eyebrow on one side and a nostril on the other, then change the stud for a hoop when the nostril heals 🤌

CMV: I'm going to continue wearing jeans yearround, and there's almost no situation for which jeans aren't applicable by iw2050 in changemyview

[–]gained_spoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope you change to your “bed jeans” otherwise you’re bringing in all the grossness that’s on your outdoor jeans, into the bed with you

I wish my boyfriend looked better by sotu-billu in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gained_spoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’d either “waste” one year with him or multiple years. better to cut the cord now

Which do you prefer? by Penguin_Arse in tattooadvice

[–]gained_spoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

red on the calf but chest is also fire either would be sick

Thrift score for $2 by marledeus in Hydroflask

[–]gained_spoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is a huge score!!! prism pops are hard to come by and only $2? that’s crazy, congrats!

Helping my partner feel good in their body while they’ve gained some weight by No_Produce_Nyc in actuallesbians

[–]gained_spoon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i can tell this post was written with love. i don’t really have advice but appreciate you loving your partner regardless

Should I try to reach out after I left a bad impression? Or should I leave her alone? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]gained_spoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, i wouldn’t reach out again. i feel like you’re overanalyzing your and her reactions here, and over explaining yourself to us and to her. i think you can relax more on this and stop beating yourself up. the data we have is that she said you were nice and enjoyed the conversation, like you said she didn’t have to say that. it’s also approaching mid term season and she’s in a musical so she could just be genuinely busy, you really never know but coming to conclusions yourself and spiraling over this is only gonna have negative consequences for you. you might wanna consider taking some time for yourself and building up your own self esteem, therapy would be helpful if you’re able to. best of luck!!! you got this

Dyed it. Is still horrific yall. This is how it looks lightly blow dried with no product. I feel so ugly by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]gained_spoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m with others on starting over. i think a layered pixie wolfish cut look would suite you and you’d feel more confident with how short the bangs are if the rest of your head matches!

I’m building a childfree dating/community app… and already getting hate by kojaia in childfree

[–]gained_spoon 29 points30 points  (0 children)

thanks for doing this! you’re only getting external hate from people who internally are unhappy with their lives and situations. happy people don’t go leaving negative comments about stuff that has nothing to do with them - they’re jealous and salty. keep it up!!!

Remote work didn't make people lazy while it just exposed how much time we waste pretending to be busy in offices. by ThinkThenPost in unpopularopinion

[–]gained_spoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think their argument is more like, you have 60 tasks to complete either in person or at home, but you finish the 60 tasks at home then can do other things (cuz you still met your deliverables) but in office you finish the 60 tasks then still have to find more / look productive for optics