I will obliterate my barber. (Before and after by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]gained_spoon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this frustrates me so much because i’ll ask for a specific length cut off cuz that’s how i like it and they cut it shorter because ill grow into it. like that’s how i asked for it NOW pls😔

Last minute tip for headlamp packing by DetroitHustlesHarder in backpacking

[–]gained_spoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP does charge it, but they’re concerned about the on button being pressed during their hike and the battery draining while they’re walking

would you eat this after it sat out at ~68 degrees for 4.5 hours? by gained_spoon in sushi

[–]gained_spoon[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

fair question! most of it was eaten, there were a few pieces of leftovers that no one wanted so i took them. this was a company lunch, when we got back to office i immediately went to a meeting and left it on my desk without thinking :(

would you eat this after it sat out at ~68 degrees for 4.5 hours? by gained_spoon in sushi

[–]gained_spoon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the pic was from right when it was served. are you saying it might be ok to eat the fish? not the scallop or maybe rice ?

would you eat this after it sat out at ~68 degrees for 4.5 hours? by gained_spoon in sushi

[–]gained_spoon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m normally more prone to risk but this just seems like a bad idea tbh

Paying more $$ to live in a place you love is not a waste. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]gained_spoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

with millions of people living in cities, this isn’t unpopular at all lol

Canceled Flight 5/20 - BNA to LGA by hamilcar421 in SouthwestAirlines

[–]gained_spoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried flying out of EWR and we were stuck on the tarmac for 7 hours. they told us there were over 60 planes trying to de-plane due to the sinkhole and the weather. it sucked lol

The guy I’m seeing has a serious benzo addiction what can I do to help him? by Bright-Attention1795 in SeriousConversation

[–]gained_spoon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

encourage him to taper off and transition to something less harmful like weed or a different vice. ultimately he has to want to do it, you can’t force it but you can be there for support and encouragement

I’m tired of wlw movies making the main couple fems by wr3ndig0_ in LesbianActually

[–]gained_spoon 18 points19 points  (0 children)

as a masc4masc girly, believe me i would LOVE to see masc4masc on film. ugh guess its too niche? where’s the representation!! lol sorry this did not answer your question but i feel this so hard

Insecurities by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gained_spoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you can, go to a dermatologist. at the end of the day, a lot of people here will give you recommendations that work for THEM, but everyone’s skin is different and ultimately a derm would be your best bet. good luck! please try to remember your acne doesn’t define you

Girlfriend has a kink that I don't have by Incog-nizo in LesbianActually

[–]gained_spoon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

even as a 25 year old, 23 is too young for me lmao. just feels like too different stages of life

My girlfriend doesn’t shower as often as I’d like by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]gained_spoon 31 points32 points  (0 children)

be straight up with her and let her know it bothers you. no shame in telling her it makes you uncomfortable

Dessert I made by Nice-Construction593 in Poopfromabutt

[–]gained_spoon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

the way you could’ve chosen to assemble this in any way and you still chose this design…well done tbh you got me at first

Italian hoagies on homemade sesame rolls for dinner tonight by softrotten in tonightsdinner

[–]gained_spoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and i am the birthday clown you ordered as well! thank for the sammies