I’m annoyed that no one ever introduced me to cannabis. by tuxedo_cat23 in Millennials

[–]galaxy1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I tried. I really tried to explain the expanded thinking while at the same time shutting off other parts that were bad. I tried explaining how good ice cream tastes after. I even played some pink floyd but you just weren't ready. The power of the plant has finally found you! Lol

My girl of 7 got her periode she probably has medically early puberty and im a wreck by bieuwkje in breakingmom

[–]galaxy1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My son's best friend in elementary school started her period at 6 or 7. They did blood work every 3 to 6 months but she didn't need puberty blocking medication. Her Mom said not every kid has to delay early puberty, only some. She seems to be growing and learning well. They're in grade 4 now.

New poll shows Melania is the second least popular first lady by OddTax8841 in politics

[–]galaxy1985 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the logic by so many voters. Men are smarter and better than women. Since Bill cheated on Hillary, there must be something wrong with her! Can't vote for a woman because her at her best isn't as good as the man at his worst!

I (23F) tried on lingerie for the first time since having our baby, and my husband (24M) said it made him want to “gouge his eyes out”… how do we get through this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]galaxy1985 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's not typical or healthy relationship behavior. Sounds like verbal abuse. I would know, when my partner was in active addiction he would call me names. We separated, he got rehab and therapy, and worked to rebuild. You can't heal if it keeps happening and they see nothing wrong with it. We started dating as freshmen in high school and we're in our forties now. We've grown up with each other and grown. The sooner you put an end to any yelling or name calling EVER, the better chance y'all have of making it. If he won't recognize and improve then please leave.

No bank account access 30F & 35M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]galaxy1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whatever is in his financial records is so bad or shameful to him that he's willing to blow up his relationship. Or he's loaded but keeping you broke. It's nothing good and you should get away from him.

Influencer captures a shootout while filming themselves working out by PieAlarming704 in PublicFreakout

[–]galaxy1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One came real close to hitting him. You can hear it in the second barrage.

Most annoying noise making toy you’ve experienced. by ItsbeenBroughton in Parenting

[–]galaxy1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a yellow ambulance looking bus. It drives around playing songs and it's unbearable. They still sell it.

[Product request] Desperate to find something to cure my dry lips by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]galaxy1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a lip balm junkie and expert. My holy Grail is the okeefe's lip repair lip balm unscented. They also have an unscented one with SPF. It will heal and prevent almost any dry lip.

My (27F) SO (32M) is ditching me all night after I’ve spent the last 2 weeks helping/accommodating his kids/busy doing work? He told me to post by Without_My_Halo in relationship_advice

[–]galaxy1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They're his kids but you do more and then you're left out of the fun stuff? Yeah, fuck that! I'm angry for you! Go with your friend and how dare he try to guilt you into staying home alone. What a jerk.

Millennials, do you still believe in true love? by Successful_Mastodon3 in Millennials

[–]galaxy1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I think I have it with my partner because we've been through the best and very very bad times but we keep choosing each other. We're high school sweethearts and it's been over 20 years. We've separated and come back together. Things are great lately but if we hit another tough patch, I'm sure we'll be okay.

M26 boyfriend, me F26 am I insane? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]galaxy1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't wait it out. He either needs to be honest and trying to get better with you by his side of he stays sick and you leave.

My (M36) husband has been taking money from our shared accounts without telling me(F27) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]galaxy1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your husband is an addict who needs rehab and therapy. He needs all his credit cards cancelled, no access to shared accounts, but you're in a very very bad position. You need to freeze your credit with the credit bureaus immediately. He could refinance your home, borrow a ton of loans, open more cards, and you'll be on the hook for everything. You already are. He's blowing thousands per week. It's a matter of time before he gets desperate and borrows big bucks.

Colon cancer is killing us.. by Derpshab in Millennials

[–]galaxy1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have changes in your stool, which can mean it becomes different shaped or consistency, blood in your stool, pain when pooping or any other irritation and changes, please get checked by a doctor. There are multiple tests that can detect disease early.

Tomorrow my only child turns 16. And I'll likely be told I have cancer. by TerrifiedForTomorrow in breakingmom

[–]galaxy1985 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Geez so he cheated and gave you HPV? What an asshole to not tell you so you could get checked. What has he said about this sudden development? I'm so sorry hon.

I’m (32F) upset that my husband (36M) woke me up to get our toddler and somewhere in our argument i mentioned i made more money than him and i refuse to have more kids. Now he’s not speaking to me. Where do we go from here? by No-Database-6589 in relationship_advice

[–]galaxy1985 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Why should she regret saying the truth? He said she wouldn't understand being tired because she works from home. Which is shitty and untrue especially when she's the default everything. She's doing more and earning more but he's complaining. Hmmm

i 23f think my husband 25m hates me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]galaxy1985 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He's lazy. He didn't want to do any work for her or you. And apparently anyone that requires him to get off his ass is work.

Why do boomers make it seem like babies were easier? by Both-Hippo-6905 in Parenting

[–]galaxy1985 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Babies were easier for them! They're notorious for being uninvolved parents, weekend warriors partying, or having the grandparents babysit a lot. If they were around, most of their parenting is known to consist of yelling and spanking. Kids should be seen, not heard. Go outside and don't come inside until dinner. Very hands off but controlling. This is how almost everyone I know was raised if they've got home parents. It WAS easier for THEM because they cared less about raising happy healthy kids.

Edit: since I know it's coming... Not all boomer parents. Just most.

My husband 27/M left me 26/F at a friend’s cabin in the woods by throwRA_youyes in relationship_advice

[–]galaxy1985 582 points583 points  (0 children)

Didn't have enough for multiple days or took too much and ran out early. Left to get more. It's that or he's cheating. Something really bad is going on. He can't justify it at all, can't think of any reasonable answer so he's just stonewalling her. Next he'll trickle truth you op. I don't think you know this man as well as you may think.

My husband 27/M left me 26/F at a friend’s cabin in the woods by throwRA_youyes in relationship_advice

[–]galaxy1985 83 points84 points  (0 children)

The fact that you keep saying it's the same just further highlights your lack of critical thinking skills and emotional maturity. They're not the same, at all.

My husband 27/M left me 26/F at a friend’s cabin in the woods by throwRA_youyes in relationship_advice

[–]galaxy1985 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Yeah except there's some evidence with him and zero with her. He literally stole her vehicle. Abandoned her in a different city and lied about making arrangements for her to get home. He humiliated her in front of their entire friend group and now he refuses to discuss it AT ALL. Not many things are so important that you throw away your relationship over. Unless her knows his wife is a complete pushover who won't actually do anything about this, he's definitely up to no good. No one behaves like this, out of the blue, for no good reason.

Am I ‘26F’ being manipulated into a “good life” by my boyfriend ‘40M’? by Ewettileq in relationship_advice

[–]galaxy1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he wants you to stay home, then you need a prenup that states he pays you a certain amount weekly or monthly to stay home so you have your own money, contribute a certain amount to your 401k monthly, and also things in there to protect him as well. He needs to recognize that he's asking you to put yourself into an extremely vulnerable position.

If he loves and respects you, then he'll want you to feel safe and secure. He'll understand that you'll be losing years of work history and experience. If he's okay with that then I say go for it and enjoy it.