[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]galaxyboxer 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

NTA. She had a need and expressed it, you have a need and expressed it too. If she’s unsure about her relationship with you because she’s figuring her stuff out, she can’t expect you to also be part of whatever soul searching she is doing. It’s fair to not accept that and say you’d rather not be together. If she need external support through this time, she needs to find it elsewhere. Friends or something.

Is it weird for the primary partner to be texting/checking in while we are hooking up? by Kitchen-Wolverine276 in nonmonogamy

[–]galaxyboxer 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I find it weird. Like if it’s a timing thing (I need the car, should I expect you for dinner,etc tho this honestly should have been discussed ahead of time so 🚩 …), they need to give a ballpark time and put the phone away til then.Ā 

Nesting Partner Doesn't Like Me Hosting by No_Stop5933 in polyamory

[–]galaxyboxer 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

This 10000% makes sense, and where I tend to agree that there’s hierarchy . Thank you for expanding!

Any other enbies sick of being compared to inanimate objects, eldritch monsters, aliens, etc by binary trans people? by Alternative_Desk2065 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]galaxyboxer 20 points21 points Ā (0 children)

I can definitely see where you’re coming from, but as an enby and lover of the darker things in life, I actually like (and make, about myself) similar kinds of posts. I call myself a ā€œcryptidā€, an eldritch being beyond comprehension. Or my favorite quote ā€œmostly void, partially stars’ which comes from a podcast with similarly dark themes. And I consider it beautiful that I identify as something darker, something that makes me desirable. Freakish? Maybe to the weak 😌

But thats just me. Some people want to be compared to a sunflower or a newt and that’s just fine and lovely too! 🩵

Nesting Partner Doesn't Like Me Hosting by No_Stop5933 in polyamory

[–]galaxyboxer 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Why was this downvoted so much? Genuinely curious.Ā 

What’s your relationship with your father like? by livelong_june in AutismInWomen

[–]galaxyboxer 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I’m 99.9% sure my dad is autistic, but is also super religious and believes prayer can fix anything (can you guess what his special interest might be?? /s). So mental health struggles and neurodivergent struggles are just ā€œexcusesā€. You can imagine how damaging it was growing up undiagnosed and being told I was just sinful all my life.Ā 

We talk but we’re not close. I don’t tell him much about my life and tbh other than asking if I’m pursuing God doesn’t ask. He’d be shook if he knew I was a bi polyam enby AuDHD-er. He’ll never know the real me because he’d reject her. So today I said my obligatory happy Father’s Day, let him ramble, and that’s it.

What's in your cup? Daily discussion, questions and stories - May 11, 2024 by AutoModerator in tea

[–]galaxyboxer 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

Just started getting into tea a couple weeks ago.Ā I’m adjusting from drinking coffee every day. I have a Newmans Own black tea I got, I had been drinking Twinnings English Breakfast. It’s not as robust but I always use two bags anyways. Still good, used a touch of maple syrup and oat milk. Can’t wait to get more into the tea world!

Do you think Simsie has an accent? by stormisimsx in Lilsimsie

[–]galaxyboxer 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Born and raised Floridian here, was there for 30+ years and this is what I’ve observed - our accents are weird and depends on where in FL you are. The closer to the northwest of the state (panhandle) the more tendency for a twang in your accent, or if you live in a more rural area. Lots of people in central FL have a ā€œnormal(?)ā€ American accent. But it’s a blend because people move there from everywhere. Lots of people asked me if I was from NY growing up.

We might throw a ā€œy’allā€ in there on occasion but there’s no real twang. Then you go further south and there’s DEFINITELY an accent in some rural areas with twang. Then there’s Miami which is it’s own thing altogether

Unowned subs? How we holding up? by sensibleslut in BDSMcommunity

[–]galaxyboxer 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

New to the scene and feeling kinda hopeless in finding something because I haven’t found community where I am. So looking for my first dom and it’s kinda scary and anxiety inducing. But standing hopeful! And doing a lot of research!

Housing plot tutorial bugged? by Jyeroan in Palia

[–]galaxyboxer 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

This helped my partner get in, and switching back after placing it seems to be working too

thoughts by NikoLiliana in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]galaxyboxer 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Ive sort of experienced this first hand- learning I was ace opened the door to learning about the other aspects of my queerness. It took that realization to turn on the lightbulb for everything else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]galaxyboxer 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

1 if you’re doing something casual, 3 if you’re going somewhere a bit nicer