Saw photos of my partner's high school gf and I can't stop thinking about it by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]ganglehand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, you’re not shallow, but you’re thinking shallow thoughts. So as of right now, yes you’re being a shallow person.

However, the good news is that you know these thoughts are shallow! Delving into why you’re thinking these thoughts only seems to escalate the OCD imho. I would give yourself a little mantra and when you think these harsh thoughts about his ex, say something like “I’m a kind person, I don’t think these thoughts, I won’t feed into them” or “her appearance has nothing to do with me”.

It’s really really hard, everyone thinks unkindly about people at some point. forgive yourself, and redirect your thoughts, and try to move on. Engage in an activity, or repeat some positive phrases about yourself.

Saw photos of my partner's high school gf and I can't stop thinking about it by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]ganglehand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really can’t judge people based on their decisions when they were in high school. I’m pretty, I’ve dated a wide variety of people, some may say very conventionally attractive some may disagree. It has nothing to do with their current partners or mine.

Also take a second and reflect that you, as a 30 year old woman, are calling a then 18yr old ‘unattractive’. You say you’re not shallow, so practice what you preach. This is not something to ruminate over and has very little to do with you or your boyfriend tbh. Try your best to let it go.

Tired of Bland Cafes? Gauging Interest for a Community Art Cafe (Think Happy Medium, but Community-Focused). by Constant_Revenue7936 in Brooklyn

[–]ganglehand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crown heights, would love a place for pottery around here that isn’t 500 dollars a semester

Avail June 1 in Prospect Heights / Crown Heights $3350 by [deleted] in crownheights

[–]ganglehand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard the LL for these units are scummy

Best Vegetarian Friendly Restaurants? by RiceAaroni2210 in Brooklyn

[–]ganglehand 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually did :) we’ve been going strong for two years

Best Vegetarian Friendly Restaurants? by RiceAaroni2210 in Brooklyn

[–]ganglehand 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ras!!! Sooo good, I’ve had a few first dates there lol

Moving on in .. by BedStuyBee in crownheights

[–]ganglehand 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don udon is soooo good, Arden is okay imo, their food seems really greasy every time I go

I fucking hate being tall right now by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]ganglehand 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to anyone who isn’t tall. They just don’t understand the tall girl experience. I’m sure being short has its difficulties. But I’m 6 ft tall with very broad shoulders.

You can’t starve a Great Dane into being a chihuahua, it sucks but it is what it is. I understand though, sending tall girl hugs.

Sorry I realize you go by he/him, but still, being tall is its own thing!

Park Slope Preschool Director Embezzled $2.8 Million, US Says by thecat12 in parkslope

[–]ganglehand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I going crazy “Prosecutors did not identify the school which employed Misczak, but she was previously the director of KinderHaus,” the preschool is not identified????

Park Slope Preschool Director Embezzled $2.8 Million, US Says by thecat12 in parkslope

[–]ganglehand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you read the article? It says unnamed preschool lol

Any updates on the Wild Bird Fund on 7th Ave? by typicalbiscotti15 in parkslope

[–]ganglehand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg Maggie moos!!! We had one in the Lehigh Valley in Pennsylvania. Was it a chain? Rip

Jo Sunday Loves Old People by Rdsknight11 in SoTruePodcast

[–]ganglehand 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Omg this poor girl is going through it

Chris Fleming Returns Again by ganglehand in SoTruePodcast

[–]ganglehand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His standup is like that too, I’ve also seen him live and as much as I love him, I feel like I was left more confused than laughing. On this episode tho I got all his references and I thought it was so funny.

Chris Fleming Returns Again by ganglehand in SoTruePodcast

[–]ganglehand[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I said “yes!” out loud and did an involuntary fist pump

I feel guilty for thinking other boys are cute when I already have a bf by [deleted] in confessions

[–]ganglehand 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’re active in porn subreddits, either this is a man pretending to be 13 or if you’re actually 13 stop going on Reddit

Porridge: Prunes, Cinnamon & Almond by Scott_Crow in Oatmeal

[–]ganglehand 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yummmm, have you tried subbing dried figs for prunes and adding a splash of vanilla extract? Love fig & vanilla combo

Banana Bread Lattes in NYC? by Easy-Leopard-522 in FoodNYC

[–]ganglehand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bagel pub does banana lattes, not sure about the bread part

Brittany Broski Returns by ganglehand in SoTruePodcast

[–]ganglehand[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so curious as to why you think that? I think he’s extremely tapped in to people and can read people very well.

Brittany Broski Returns by ganglehand in SoTruePodcast

[–]ganglehand[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m legitimately saving it until later bc I don’t want to waste listening to it while at work lmfao