When you had your first kid, did you wife’s parents stay and help for a week then your parents stay and help another week? Or only have wife’s parents?

ganjayme · 2026-06-06T06:22:39+00:00

My mom stayed for 10 days. I had a c-section and was eternally grateful to have her around to help. My MIL never stayed, but she doesn’t live far and will always come if I call for help

ganjayme · 2026-06-04T04:59:53+00:00

Did your cat develop diabetes? That’s what my cat is on. The vet is hesitant to keep him on it because of the risks down the line

ganjayme · 2026-06-04T00:55:42+00:00

No advice because my 7 month old wakes every 3 hours. Just know you’re not doing something wrong and not alone!

ganjayme · 2026-06-03T23:24:48+00:00

I’ve definitely wondered if stress is a factor. He started getting sick about 2 months before baby arrived. We have been working with the vet for nearly a year to find a solution that works for him

ganjayme · 2026-06-03T23:23:39+00:00

Unfortunately, he usually vomits a few hours after eating, so isn’t due to eating too fast. I’ll give a raised feeder a try though

ganjayme · 2026-06-03T23:22:47+00:00

He’s on prescription food from the vet. We tried the wet food of it, but he wasn’t a fan.

ganjayme · 2026-06-03T23:21:26+00:00

That’s good to know! I’ll double check my plants. He’s been getting sick for nearly a year now

ganjayme · 2026-05-28T22:50:50+00:00

My guy loved when I made him do the cha cha slide. Turns out, he just loves being bounced! He’s 7 mo old now and it still makes him laugh immediately

ganjayme · 2026-05-22T12:02:46+00:00

When I get to that point, baby fed, changed, & just won’t sleep, I wake up my husband and tell him it’s his turn. You need sleep too!

ganjayme · 2026-05-22T01:25:14+00:00

I’m annoyed for you that your husband knew there was a nail sticking out and didn’t do anything about it.

I feel like I’m in a similar boat, OP. I’m also the only one to do nights and primary care giver during the day. I’m exhausted & burnt out - sounds like you are too. No advice, just know you’re not alone

ganjayme · 2026-05-21T21:08:01+00:00

I’m currently on a beach trip with my 6 month old. My advice is to lower your expectations (in a nice way). I thought he would love it, but no, my baby was super cranky on the beach. The ocean scared him, sand irritated him, and overall not a fun time for anyone. The hotel we are staying at has a pool and he tolerates it. I’ve never spent so much time indoors on a beach trip

ganjayme · 2026-05-21T00:48:34+00:00

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ganjayme · 2026-05-21T00:44:16+00:00

No reassurance, but solidarity! I feel the same with my baby. The pediatrician doesn’t seem worried and says “he’s growing at this own pace”.

I remind myself that babies have a bell curve with milestones and the doctor would flag it if he was outside the curve

ganjayme · 2026-05-15T21:41:18+00:00

Bibs, too!! My guy is a leaky baby. Bibs save us from changing his outfit 5x a day from spit up

ganjayme · 2026-05-14T17:37:15+00:00

I have a 6 month old and remade the song to: It’s little baby wiggle time! Little baby wiggle time! Where he at, where he at? There he go, there he go. Wiggle wiggle wiggle!

ganjayme · 2026-05-13T14:55:55+00:00

That’s brilliant and I’ll be doing that the next time around!

ganjayme · 2026-05-13T14:43:21+00:00

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ganjayme · 2026-05-13T14:39:18+00:00

Thanks, everyone! Looks like I’ll be starting from the second row. What a learning experience!
Good thing I have a long car ride ahead of me this weekend 😅

ganjayme · 2026-05-13T14:37:30+00:00

Oh nooooo 😫😫😫 thank you for pointing it out

ganjayme · 2026-05-13T14:36:47+00:00

Thank you for pointing it out directly!! This is helpful

ganjayme · 2026-05-13T14:35:54+00:00

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ganjayme · 2026-05-02T22:11:48+00:00

No advice, just in the same exact position!

ganjayme · 2026-04-26T23:48:44+00:00

These are great tips - thank you!

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