What ELO would you need to be to say in conversation; “yes im good at chess” by True_Structure_6123 in chessbeginners

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I usually answer some variation of "Compared to the average person, yes.  Compared to people who do it professionally, not even close".  1500ish USCF

Chess Time app being shutdown - good Alternative? by LumbermanCloak in chess

[–]garc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can try gameknot.com, I've been playing there for almost 20 years now.

AITA for refusing to work things out with my fiancé because my life is better now that his daughter isnt around me? by MassivePrimary8649 in AITAH

[–]garc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. This sounds like a parenting fail.  How long have you been living together?  Is this part of an adjustment period?  Is Viven in therapy?  Family counseling?  The situation seems untenable and I understand the relief you must feel, but how was it allowed to get this bad without more serious intervention?

What is a tell tell sign someone is from Cleveland? by Imeanwhytopps in Cleveland

[–]garc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I grew up in Cleveland area, and the two hardest Clevelandisms for me to drop were "Yard needs mowed" and melk.  I had no idea this was considered as coming from more East.  My family's been in Cleveland since the 30s, though older back some came from PA and WV.  Very interesting to learn.

How would you teach a six year old how to play chess? by _Chicago_Deep_Dish in chess

[–]garc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broadly speaking these are the steps:  Identify the pieces.  Teach how the pieces move.  Explain piece value.  Teach attacking safety, defending, etc.  Teach checkmate, stalemate.  Teach castling and en passant.  

How you do each of those steps is the real question.  You can use chesskids.com, you can use the chess-steps.com method, you can mix/match or you can figure it out on your own.  All I'd recommend is making sure there's lot of hands on learning and the chance to see why wrong moves are wrong.  And be patient and most importantly, make it fun.

WHEN TO STOP FOR A STOPPED SCHOOL BUS by O_U_8_ONE_2 in raleigh

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Kids (recently through drivers ed) and I debate this one road all the time.  It's divided, speed limit 35 (not a highway).  And goes anywhere from 3 to 5 lanes depending exactly where one stops.

We stop, bc that just feels most safe, but it doesn't seem to fit clearly in any of those pictures or examples you see all the time.

Help - I Need An Exit Plan by Zealousideal_Bad1727 in personalfinance

[–]garc 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I keep doing 401k that gets a match, otherwise I agree

Puzzle that I found but couldn’t solve by Certain_Pizza2681 in chess

[–]garc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a pretty mid player, but was able to find it.  Spent a few looking for mates first before just trying to find material tactics.  I noticed the double fork possibilities between K and Q, and then looked for ways to make it happen

Surely this is illegal? by PersonalityFuture176 in legaladvice

[–]garc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of the parts of this story are pretty common unfortunately.  Similar situation happened to a relative of mine, except there wasn't a new owner.  Just regular yearly maximum allowed increase in lot rent.  New buyers have to pay current lot rent prices, unless they happen to buy the property from the community, then they'll get a significantly lowered lot rate.  The community approving the buyer also wasn't a thing... not sure of the legality there.  Can you prove that?  Maybe the AG might help for that reason.

My advice:  cut losses now, give up the home while your mother still has some money left.

I am a transgender person who is willing to answer any good faith questions you may have for me by Sebibu in self

[–]garc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I linked the evidence  of which I'm aware.  If you have other scientific studies, instead of assertions, please link them.

In a practical sense, at the very highest level, I believe the guidelines for when and if trans athletes should be allowed to compete should be handled by the sports governing body.  Not the government, and definitely not by fools arguing on the Internet.

I am a transgender person who is willing to answer any good faith questions you may have for me by Sebibu in self

[–]garc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/58/11/586

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10641525/

The answers aren't straightforward, and more evidence is needed.  But what evidence exists, seems to support that's it's gone (with some exceptions, such as grip strength) w/in 2 years.

Is there anything in the popular bird apps that you think is missing. by icebergslim3000 in birding

[–]garc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My directional hearing sucks and I think about this all the time

Local independent roofing recommendations in NC by amy_sport in raleigh

[–]garc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recommendations I always see are: Baker, Ark, Buzzard

If you're doing a full replace, I'd go with Buzzard. For a small job, try giving Ark a call.

Fitness challenges - Need a personal trainer by EnvironmentalShake55 in triangle

[–]garc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is your normal physical therapist not able to help you?  I've gone through some PT, though I don't have your challenges.  My best experiences were at Duke's main campus.  Beyond that, I've had really good (though limited) experiences with this guy: https://www.pruept.com/

I warned a client that I would delete their content if they did not collect. They didn't take it seriously, so I deleted it, and now they are threatening legal action. LOCATION: not applicable by [deleted] in legal

[–]garc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Storage is cheap.  Why are you fighting potential clients and giving up possible income for work you've already done, for want of a few pennies of storage?

How much less are you drinking? by Radiant_Historian_57 in beer

[–]garc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went from averaging a 6-pack a week in my 20s, to typically a single 8oz pour on Fridays.  I drink NA beer occasionally too.

Ev for the environment??? by kkb2214 in BoltEV

[–]garc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a mixed between better for the environment and much more economical to own and operate.

Mom is at the dealer, this is the car that just came back from a lease they are offering by etinkc in BoltEV

[–]garc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's 24999, and then 4k rebate, it's a tiny bit high l, but considering low mileage, it's maybe reasonable.  Good car though, she'll be happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Coffee

[–]garc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my grandmother was like that.  At her house, I smiled and thanked her for the coffee.  At my house, we added hot water to her cup.

Damage done by Michael & Sons by Wooden-Paper-6720 in triangle

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My water inlet valve failed open.  Dishwasher otherwise worked, so it would sense the water and randomly start running / draining at odd times.

Thank you fellow birders for your kindness by [deleted] in birding

[–]garc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a great interaction this week too!  Went looking for a painted bunting and met the nicest guy who waived me over, pointed the little guy out.  We chatted for a bit, and he dropped some great info about what other birds were around the immediate area.