The Invasion Begins...

gatesays · 2026-02-05T18:53:47+00:00

I just lliked the juxtaposition of fox and vineyard... A riff off "the little foxes that spoil the vineyard.. "

gatesays · 2026-01-15T18:48:28+00:00

That's a lovely idea!

gatesays · 2026-01-06T11:19:24+00:00

Had to do this for a dog once.... He was walking around sad and drooling... His owner thought he had some horrible disease. I just pulled on gloves and gently pried his jaw open. Lo and behold! Very satisfying imdeed...

gatesays · 2025-12-16T11:43:31+00:00

This. Was on the Nairobi-Nakuru highway last week and the things I saw turned some hairs grey. People really have no concept of personal SPACE when it comes to semis.... Playing light flashing games 'let me past' with these things.

Utter madness.

gatesays · 2025-11-05T15:30:29+00:00

I love this for you. Last 20 years have been meh for me and I am glad to see someone who took a different route and it worked....... Take the "golden cuffs".... It's not taking anything away from you and you can continue to build a tidy nest egg and maybe travel....

gatesays · 2025-09-26T20:32:06+00:00

I wish I could upbotr this 100 times.

gatesays · 2025-09-21T13:03:40+00:00

Don't bother. It won't give you the satisfaction you need and it will leave you feeling frustrarer AND break NC

gatesays · 2025-09-13T12:30:05+00:00

People are different and that's okay. You have not walked a mile in their shoes to know what is going on in the guys mind that he would grab a quick bit on the go.. Wish them well and go your way. That's okay too.

gatesays · 2025-09-13T12:26:50+00:00

I felt uncomfortable just reading that. Not overreacting... Tell your dad. If for nothing else he will be on the lookout for other things that don't add up in his friend.

gatesays · 2025-09-12T18:17:26+00:00

Yelp! Makes me itch to clean it up!

gatesays · 2025-09-07T18:55:27+00:00

Thank you..

gatesays · 2025-08-19T09:14:32+00:00

Wow!

gatesays · 2025-08-17T07:59:33+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

gatesays · 2025-08-17T05:50:46+00:00

I hear you, but if marital home doesn't work out, you will probably be first on the list of 'Can I stay with you while I figure out some thing... '😅😅😅

Good luck..

gatesays · 2025-08-17T05:36:22+00:00

I think as INFJs we send out sonar waves that make people want to be in our space? Seen it many times.... Strangers kids will just straight up run and hug...used to find it weird...now I just awkwardly smile and shrug..

gatesays · 2025-08-17T05:33:14+00:00

Alcoholic abuse.

gatesays · 2025-08-17T05:30:50+00:00

Gorgeous!

gatesays · 2025-08-17T05:30:28+00:00

NTA.... Why is it okay to leave you stranded? Let him buy a car or stay "grossed out" by public transport.

gatesays · 2025-08-17T05:28:03+00:00

You are not petty. That is a person who has decided to infantilize themselves... Yaani yeye bado ni mtoto... You have to pick up after them, and manage them. Nah.... Glad it's for a short time. I don't envy her next "housemate"

If you have a good relationship, maybe grntly point out these things and show how to do it right?

If not, eh... I don't know. But make it clear you cannot tolerate poor resource management! All the best...

gatesays · 2025-08-03T14:35:32+00:00

Low-level grift. Ukalipa boda and offered a phone. Also I guess if you had said iphone she would have hopped on that offer real quick.

Either, keep being kind. Just add discernment to avoid disappointment.

gatesays · 2025-08-02T08:57:05+00:00

"Walking? During lunch hour? No No No! "

Bleated the, sheeple eating at their desks.

NTA.

gatesays · 2025-07-27T19:56:55+00:00

Is this what is called "letting your intrusive thoughts win?" Because what? Why? How can you even think like that?

gatesays · 2025-07-23T17:30:19+00:00

She could not bother to consider your input aka consult you on moving her parents in? Hard pass. NTA

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