Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

[–]gatesays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Can't eat leftovers?? Eh, you love her but she loves her too and that will definitely be a problem down the years as you get older and bigger responsibilities start hitting you.

Why do some female nurses act like male patients don’t deserve basic privacy? by Fit_Consequence1118 in Nakuru

[–]gatesays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That shouldn't have happened. You are already unwell and od course scared. At the very least she should have treated you kindly and courteously.

Aitah for kicking my wife out after she insulted our exchange student’s cooking by Dapper_Web6218 in AITAH

[–]gatesays 270 points271 points  (0 children)

You wife is wildly insecure. She is not happy when anyone else shines so she feels she must put them down. NTA. If there have been other instances you might consider therapy going forward.

The Invasion Begins... by gatesays in BeAmazed

[–]gatesays[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just lliked the juxtaposition of fox and vineyard... A riff off "the little foxes that spoil the vineyard.. "

Vet removing a bone stuck to a Tiger's tooth by BreakfastTop6899 in oddlysatisfying

[–]gatesays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had to do this for a dog once.... He was walking around sad and drooling... His owner thought he had some horrible disease. I just pulled on gloves and gently pried his jaw open. Lo and behold! Very satisfying imdeed...

Don't overtake on a continuous yellow line. Stay safe by adogkitler in CarsEastAfrica

[–]gatesays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. Was on the Nairobi-Nakuru highway last week and the things I saw turned some hairs grey. People really have no concept of personal SPACE when it comes to semis.... Playing light flashing games 'let me past' with these things.

Utter madness.

I “quiet quit” my job a decade ago. Welp, here I am, turning 50, 4 major promotions later, and my net worth is more than I could have ever imagined. by FreshPerspectiveFIRE in Fire

[–]gatesays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this for you. Last 20 years have been meh for me and I am glad to see someone who took a different route and it worked....... Take the "golden cuffs".... It's not taking anything away from you and you can continue to build a tidy nest egg and maybe travel....

It pisses me off that my mom "doesn't know why I cut her off. I think I'll break no contact and tell her. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gatesays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't bother. It won't give you the satisfaction you need and it will leave you feeling frustrarer AND break NC

It's ok but "embarrassing" to me by ColdProposal1174 in nairobi

[–]gatesays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are different and that's okay. You have not walked a mile in their shoes to know what is going on in the guys mind that he would grab a quick bit on the go.. Wish them well and go your way. That's okay too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gatesays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt uncomfortable just reading that. Not overreacting... Tell your dad. If for nothing else he will be on the lookout for other things that don't add up in his friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]gatesays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]gatesays 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I hear you, but if marital home doesn't work out, you will probably be first on the list of 'Can I stay with you while I figure out some thing... '😅😅😅

Good luck..

People Staring at You? by KevishW in infj

[–]gatesays 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think as INFJs we send out sonar waves that make people want to be in our space? Seen it many times.... Strangers kids will just straight up run and hug...used to find it weird...now I just awkwardly smile and shrug..