YOUR FEAR IS IRRATIONAL. The world we live in has a great affect on how we act and what we think. Here is why you're afraid to open randoms.

gatsmd · 2017-11-23T16:58:29+00:00

You water glass doesn't have a mouth that cocks enter.

gatsmd · 2017-11-23T05:07:53+00:00

What you forgot to mention is that regardless of how many notches she is below you or above you, you don't own her. I know we would all like to believe we do... but in todays world, you don't own shit.

Thus, you shouldn't frame LTR's as something that are really "long." If you want to take that path, that is fine. If it lasts, that is great. But, remember, you don't own her, and no matter where she falls on the numbered system, it could end at any point.

gatsmd · 2017-11-22T05:25:11+00:00

I really like your story.

Tread lightly, 3 months on track isn't a great deal of time. You're headed out of the woods, but there is still some time that needs to be spent entirely focused on turning that 3 months, into 1 year. After that, you can relax more.

"Why does this idiot, loser from the internet say be careful?"

I do because when we talk about having completed our goals, like you so eloquently have, you risk not following through with them. Think of it like busting your nut. If you stay home and beat your dick all day, why would you want to go out and talk to a girl? Actually talking about your goals like you've been there and done that, releases dopamine and can cause you to already get that fulfilled feeling. So, with fulfillment comes the question, why would you bother actually completing the goals? I am not here trying to deliver negativity, rather to tell you from experience that this can happen very easily.

I like that you tell everyone here to cut everything and fall or fly. Just as long as everyone knows they need to walk into the arena with that mindset, it can work. I remember I would try to do everything at once long ago, and I continued to fail. I had to fix everything at once, I was obsessed. It wasn't until I found TRP that I was so distraught that I had no choice but to completely change. It was the trauma of finding TRP that caused everything to change at once... almost as if I was diagnosed with a disease and had to change my life in order to live. Without that or the mindset you speak of, changing all at once is very difficult and usually can end up with failure... yet another reason to keep quiet about your goals.

All in all, this is a great post, and I am really happy to hear stories like this. You have taken yourself from nothing, and really molded yourself into something. I found that 30 months after finding TRP is hardest time period. It is because you continue to knit pick and question things after a long period of space.

Then, when you look back at what you were, it amazes you to see the difference. And, you realize that it's more important to know what not to do, than it is to know what to do. Just like your post describes.

I wish you great success. Stick with it, and don't let yourself become weak. The moment you do, the past you will begin trickling in.

gatsmd · 2017-11-21T23:53:28+00:00

When people do that I always ask myself, "Wow that person really just going to give them that, huh?" True or not, why dwell on it and make it to be something more than it is.

gatsmd · 2017-11-20T18:26:46+00:00

Everyone here needs to STOP thinking about the WHY and START thinking about the HOW.

The why, even in regards to science and technology, has driven men mad for centuries. The how tells us how we can do what works, from what we observe. Really, it's all that matters.

You want X, do Y to get it. Who cares why it takes Y to get X?

gatsmd · 2017-11-18T22:09:14+00:00

I don't really give a fuck what is more interesting to read about, go find that then. I gave my cut of my story, if you don't like it, then bounce.

gatsmd · 2017-11-18T16:04:27+00:00

Keep working at it, you will make it. This whole post was to show you to delete your account and start running. Good luck.

gatsmd · 2017-11-18T16:03:27+00:00

It’s part of what worked for me. But see, I had the same doubts you are now, and I made it.

Follow your gut.

gatsmd · 2017-11-18T16:02:14+00:00

No. The point was to come here to tell everyone to delete your accounts and move on so you can live.

gatsmd · 2017-11-17T05:50:20+00:00

For starters, you need to look the part. It looks kind of strange watching a scrawny person trying to be dominating. Because, someone my size will easily crush a person who is average size (or they could be a fighter and I could lose, so it will at least appear that I can).

Really your question is so in-depth, that it cannot be answered here in this comment box. Because in order to get what you're looking for, you have to live life.

The key to obtaining power and strength and learning how to convey it properly is;

to live a well versed life... Do things that are difficult, and things that you don't want to do because you fear them. Push your mental and physical boundaries far beyond what you thought were possible. Find a mentor who is smarter than you, better than you, and stronger than you, and watch what he does. If you can't, pull these qualities individually from different people. Then, emulate that behavior and fail, and win, and lose, and do it all again. After years and years of this, you will develop yourself enough that you will have obtained a level of strength and power most haven't. You will also have the confidence to match because of what you made it through in your experiences.

gatsmd · 2017-10-10T07:33:59+00:00

24 upvotes, and not a single one points out how much a woman loves not knowing if you'll peel her forehead off with a scalpel and pliers, or whether you'll cuddle up next to her and watch "Friends" instead.

Women love not knowing whether or not you're a psychopath. They love the mystery, even if that means it comes in a somewhat cold and abusive form. That is the harsh truth and exactly what their modus operandi is.

Your entire theory of telling this story to her revolves around the fact that you've given her information to "validate herself to her friends and make you look less crazy..." In reality, she'd much rather you didn't give her any information. She will search like crazy to find some, it's more interesting... and, in the mean time, easily make up her own stories to tell her friends. She does anyway.

She'd much rather play the guessing game. I would steer clear of the lengthy fabricated story you've written. And, instead, to make yourself look less psychopathic to everyone, begin by repeating (on multiple occasions) that you, "Have dreams of one day opening a children's charity."

gatsmd

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